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Everyone's Business (But Mine) with Kara Berry
Kara Berry
Final Thoughts on the Season
From Hangin' with THE BOYZ (ft. Liz Bentley): An In the City Recap — Jul 2, 2026
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You both want the same things and you want it from the other person, but you're both trying to change each other i Wlcome back to another episode here of everyveryone's Business but mine with me at Caraberurry. talalking about another episode of In the City. And I haven't had a guest in quite a while, so welcome to the Sage Ls Bentley. Hi Hi Kara, thank you so much for having me. Thank you for being here. So much shit happened. How are you feeling likeike, you know, we're a little bit off of Smmer house And all of the shit and now we're like fully in the city. How are you feeling like with the transition to in the city? How are you liking the show Okay, so I think the Last episode in this episode are the first ones where I feel like there's a show that exists on its own, like outside of Summerhouse that I'm actively enjoying and care about and I mean props to Danielle, I guess, because I don't know, suddenly I feel like There is a show that exists outside of Kyle and Amanda in Summer House because I was concerned about that, right? L Even before the West and Amanda stuff came out, I was a little like What's in the city going to be like with Kyle and Amanda if we know they're divorced? L I remember like actively being like, we're gonna have to watch them fight all fall because as a person who's hated them together since season one episode one aired, like this has been this has been a ten year, a decade long torture, slow torture of me. And I was relieved that they were finally divorced, right? And then I was like Is this even going to be interesting on the show? And it is a lot on the show, but I feel like we're finally getting storylines outside of them and Kenny is good, Gavin is good. Lindsseay is master cllass I don't know Carl wrong to Bravo that he doesn't get to be on this show, but Well, I think things are about to be righted again. I think it's like he's got to come for season two. you think? Are you? Of course you will. But it is so crazy that they did not see that he was opening a peach pit where they could all go and hang out I know. And the only answer to that to me is Gavin living all those places in the city And the I was gonna to say Did Lindsey like demand that Carl wouldn't be on the show? But I also don't think Lindsey would do that. Lindy Lindseay knows what the audience wants. Like I don't I just don't really for all of I have a lot of criticism for Lindsy Hubbard who I love, love, love to watch. I want to be clear. But like one of the things I love about her is that she's not going to block someone from being on a show, I don't think Right. I think She and Kyle share that same trait, however, ye. I think Kyle does it in a way that people are like, this is a good idea. Whereas Lindseay, I think like I see it I see where she's coming from more compleompletely agree. Completely agree. Mle's really gott to like literally divorce and like emotionally divorce himself from whatever ties that bind him to Amanda emotionally. likeike he's gotta free himself And free all of us, really I okay firstirst of all, I like am being personally triggered. I come from a a marriage of two people who fucking hated each other and stayed together until I was eighteen years old. actuallyctually I was talking about with my friend this morning. Tamara Judge came up and she sent me the I want a divorce scene and she's like, wasas this your parents? And I was like literally like like in a cab in Mexico, like my mom's like crying behind her sunglasses, like feaning for a cigarette in a margarita, like, I want I fucking divorce. like that That was my childhood. So like I am coming from a personally triggered place, but like I people who hate each other that are together, I I have such a low tolerance for it and I've always felt this way about Kyle and Amanda always and like watching continuously play out. like I can't be on either side. I know Amanda did something really bad to Sar, but like oututside of that, like They fucking hate each other. I don't what are they fighting about? What are they fighting about? What are they fighting for what Who are they fighting? What are they fighting for? Nothing makes sense. Like who I don't believe a single thing either of you are saying Yeah, yeah. and this really comes in at Yvonne's birth or wedding dinner. So yeah, let's get into it because there was much to discuss. It was practically a red wedding . So we start off at the Garrett, one of Gavin's spots And it's like the boys, Kenny Gavin Kyle and Lindsey, the boys, as we find out later. Lindsey wants to know what happened at Guy's Night Gavin tells her Owen was notot answering but answering a bunch of questions about like his marital status and the divorce and where he's at with that, what he filed, etcetera. Kenny's like, yeah, he was being really evasive Kyle says it wasn't like we were trying to go after him. We literally just wanted to know basic information But it's like you the fact that Owen was being evasive makes it sound more sketchy I need everyone to be more honest about what is happening here. I need them all to be like, yeah, we're gossiping about you because the story says that you're together. And then I need Owen and Owen is his name, right? A's name. Owen and Danielle to be like, yeah, it makes sense. peoplee have accused us of having an affair. I understand why you would like an explanation. like thousand percent. L Danielle has to stop Um It almost like Stay sand effects a little bit Yeah, but also everyone else needs to stop pretending like they're not gossiping about it. L it's actually fine. L this is kind of scandalous. A girl that you don't really like that much. like just had a scandalous article put out about her. Danielle acting so indignant that like anyone would dare talk about it is ridiculous. and then everyone being like, we weren't talking about you. Yeah. We were trying to collect And it's like, no you were gossiping and that's okay And that's totally fine. This is the one time I've been like one hundred percent on Amanda's side of Okay, Danielle, if Katie DeLuca and her husband were the one who show you this text message in which actually Katie saysb when Matt said the shadiest thing Why are you mad at Amanda and Kyle Like, I braw in on it girl. it's just it's such a it's such a silly thing. L it's such a non thing and this is where Danielle trips herself up every time Every time, no matter what is that Danielle will just do She'll be so right about so many things and then she just does something and you're like But why would you do that? a thousand percent. And she also like is veryer obviously to me like last episode when she was talking to her mother and she'll like say little things like she said later to Owen. like this obviously does bother her. The fact that he' not divorced yet does bother her. and also that's fine. But like again, it's just she wants this fairy tale. but she doesn't want anybody to look under the carpet and it's like, well, that's Not realistic may I actually thought Lindsy was being really reasonable. I think it was in the last episode when they were eating pizza. and she was like, I mean, as long as he's for real getting a divorce, that's cool. Like I support you. that's a real thing that you say to your friend who's like maybe entering a messy situation and Danielle being like Of course, it's real. It's like I didn't say it wasn't. I'm like letting you know that yes, it looks messy, but like hey As long as you say it's not messy, I trust you. Danille immediately going on the defensive every single time, no matter what, it's so annoying I agree. because like Juxtapose with Amatha Garrett We see Danielle and Gabt Owen meet up for drinks and, you know, he wass just talking about how busy his day was as a Hotel tech entrepreneur. I don't know what that is, but that was listed as his lower third Um Danielle was like, Ohh, you're so busy. You know what? alsoso makes things difficult, like your busy work schedule, you being married Hh And like you that's not funny. You don't think this is funny. and that's funny. It's not funny. I really do, you know as two ladies who date, I guess, who are What is Danielle my age?'s probably I don't know how old Danielle I'm thirty eight. She's probably if not my age in between the two of us, like right there. There is like I'm sorry, Danielle, like you we are too old to like prettend likeike we are too old to pretend like H not being divorced yet doesn't matter if you're sitting here telling me you guys are getting married and having kids. Yeah And these little jokes aren't convincing me that this isn't an issue with you Exactly. Like I as someone who like doesn't want to have kids and doesn't really seek marriage, like I could like, I don't know, as long as there's not like a ton of drama, I could see myself entertaining a casual situation where there's just to separate whatever, you know what I mean? Because it's like who cares Yeah. I don't w to like I don't wan to get married or have kids. Like it doesn't matter. but like if those are your goals Why are you sitting here pretending like it's actually fine that this guy's married Exactly You can it both ways, basically. Yeah Exactly. I feel like yeah, Danielle wants a fantasy, but she doesn't, it's like you can't pull that string because then you're going to have to tell a lot of hard truths about the situation and your feelings and then you can't do that This is I after it I will say like when I think about it, in the city is a pretty real reflection. I think of like the choices people in their late thirties are making in relationships. ally in the city. I can imagine. that are just certainly baffling. And like it's getting it gets to a point like your friends are saying things and you're like, well, that makes truly no sense. where when you were twenty three, you would like, play along, you know Yeah, there's this weird like code with dating in New York where It's almost Like if Owen had never been married, it would almost be less of a red flag. I don't know how to explain it. Yeah like No, no, no, no, because there's drama there's clearly drama going on. Something like isn't quite right. Yeah, yeah. like I think I think a lot of women, even single women who have never been married Oddly enough, in this town, view men who have never been married as like kind of weird, like, what's wrong with you? Why didn't you get j I mean, yeah, because every woman they know wants to get married. R it's like I know eight hundred hot women that aren't married and I don't know that many hot men that aren't married. it feels like. Exactly. And like oddly enough, like and maybe it doesn't make sense, but it's almost like he is more of a hot commodity because it's like, well, at least I know. that he was wanted at some point. like I don't know how it doesn't make sense, but this them is the rules, kids. I don't know what to tell you Well also Let's think about Danielle. Okay. lo She loved Rober. She loved Robert. All she wanted to do was be married to Rober and that man would not commit. That man was a traveling restaurant door. She worked eight hundred hours and was not committing to her and would not commit to her. So I think the idea of like a man who clearly wants to have a wife and wants to have kids and is serious about life Yeah, a thousand percent, one thousand percent. Oh Lord. u so They back to Garret, Lindsey's telling all the guys, I know If y'all were trying to put the pieces together and this happened at Girls Night, we would have figured this out real quick, but you boys are confused. So Gabins like Lindseay pull out your phone, Google Owen Heveie Wedding Day. So I don't have this on my search history, please He's so messy But let's is able to find this woman quickly. She was able to find the hairdresser from the wedding day who posted about, Ohh, I had this beautiful bride in her bridal party in Marbea. and they're like, this was June of twenty twenty three Kyle's like, hold on. I thought Owen said that they were married for four years, which is what he said in a flashback So Kenny's like, well, what would he gain by saying that it was only two years ago? if it was four years? like what would be the rub there and Kyle's like, well, clearly he's trying to cover something up Lindcy says even though Danielle and A Eestrange's relationship, like I still am trying to look out for her. I want to make sure she's protecting herself. I don't know this guy I know that he makes her happy, but like I need to do the research on the back end By the way, this is Alexia and Merol not scrolling all the way down. Like not a single person was like, well, what was going on in twenty twenty three? Like if somebody had A wedding in Spain, which by the way, my friend that I just was in Italy with was in Marbeaya before we met up and she said it was incredible and But like Nobody was like, well Four years ago was twenty twenty one And like it How many people do we know that got legally married in twenty twenty one that then had a wedding in twenty twenty three? Like no one stopped for one second to consider any possibility except like he's hiding it which once again, I get why that makes Danielleen own defensive, but also like whatever, you are in a shady, kind of weird situation. He's still married just is what it is. So just explain it. Yeah. and he all his answers were evasive. All his answers were kind of like defensive. so, I mean, you're not helping yourself. and like Is it their business? not really, but when you make things sound sketchy, people just want to hear something that feels right and they would have just like had you just said what you said later, everybody been like, okay, but then he didn't. So like it's a little bit on him Yeah, I think it is on time. and I think we're seeing a tiny bit not to give everyone any credit of like a normal person on a reality TV show. what's explaining his life and then suddenly like people are googling him and he's like, w? All right But wait, wait, wait. And it's like, yeah, keep up You have to be factual here This is is a court. We're in a court of law Absolutely So they all decide like, oh, Gavin then tells Lindsey about reconciling with his father and meeting his father and coming to the city. And Lindsey's like, oh my God, that's incredible. She tells Kenny about her situation with her mother, how she hadn't spoken to her mom in like ten years that weird phone call that we saw on Summer house And then she said, I hadn't even spoken to her for eight years prior to that. So Um, you know, it's bad. Gavin's, you know, like, is there a past to reconciliation with you two unless he's like, absolutely not. Obviously, Kenny's coming from a perspective of like, wow, this was actually like pretty healing for me and I'm like putting the pieces together of like maybe how I've navigated life, not having a dad and compomensating for that. So Kenny and Lindseay decide, maybe we should like get some drinks and like really talk about this one on one Yeah, it was nice to see them bonding over it. I will say it is like Kenny so clearly does not understand like does not have the emotional depth to understand Lets see when he's like, I don't know. like I don't my dad, we just kind of like grew apart when I was fourteen and Lindseay's like, my mom is a narcissist. Like Lindseay is so mad, which like I don't say' a criticism of Lindseay. It's just like so Kenny is like so out of his depth in this conversation. Like the way he's approaching this is just so funny to me to watch, but at the same, like I think it's a nice storyline. I'm enjoying watching it Yeah, yeah. I still don't quite trust Kenny. Did you see one hundred percent? I didn't see online, but I was watching this. I was like, this is when the wife picks up and's like, we've been looking for you. I was like, Well, did you see what his brother said? No, what did he say? His half brother basically was like, you told me that you were going to try to find our dad and then you did and didn't tell me that. And then you met up with him. and I just feel like you kind of left me high and dry and I feel like you've only did this for the show Did this brother find out via the television show that this happened? I believe so, yeah So he'si I as I don't know I can buy that they've like had a legitimate reunion, but that it maybe happened three months before filming started Yeah, I mean, my hot take is that I do believe Whitney is part of Kenny's package of presenting himself? on the show. I don't think he wanted to come on the show as a single man And I think that's like what he was trying to do U he's weird. He like I am really enjoying watching him, but when you like pull back a layer, he's weird. He moves very weirdly. He does And I'm clocking it I'm cloc. Steve a Job. Wh whoo has legit money on this show? Ien have real jobs. He works he's like an investor. He's like a venture capitalist See, that could be fake or it could be Paris Hilton's husband. Yeah, it literally could be anything. L ye. like working in real estate, being, there's a lot of things. You know how I feel about real estate agents People assume you're always making money. There are certain jobs but people assume that you're making big money and it's like not necessarily I want to. I feel like I know where Kenny lives and Yeah, That's a very nice area. I'll to say Yeah I mean, he he presents well. And I want to be clear, I don't say that to shit on real estate agents. I just have known a lot of real estate agents when I worked in the palmy real estate industry who would sell one house for millions of dollars and have like all of this cash and live very lavishly and then have zero money. And like everything was just like dependent on selling this next house and they were really able to like present to a certain point. And then like they were always just like chase, you know what I mean? likeike chasing the next one. It was very that. I knew a lot of that type of thing, I just I don't want people to think I like disrespect real estate agents because it's a hard job that I could never do. thousand person. But yeah, I'm not a salesp. So those agents who got a good deal. They rented the Mercedes and that's, you know, they're like coming around the clients with the Mercedes, but they're going home to, you know, a modest more modest Part of the deal. Yeah It's part of the thing. Like if you have a ten million dollars house, you don't want to sell it to someone who isn't in your level. So they have to like project it's part of the business, you know They're influencers essentially basasically Basically Oh gosh. so after this, Nick and Ivon, know what I have to say Not to sell my business I find Nick very triggering because he looks exactly like the man who ruined me Well that's per like a nice guy and it pisses me off even more That's perfect because my mom's name is Yvan. And so I have spent the last couple weeks just feeling in a totally weird place like especially my mom's name is Yuvonne and like it makes no sense in the context of her name like as a Jewish woman of German immigrant parents like born in Southern America, like that her name is Yvan makes no sense. And then like for there to just be this another random Yvan that has popped up for me and it's all over my timeline. and I just It's been a lot for me. So this couple for us, it's tough about Oh gosh, but They decide we're going to do Celebration number three, we've had the big Mexican wedding. We had the courthouse legitimate wedding and now we're going to have an intimate Dinner party thing Now Yvonne mentions the budget because she just got laid off from her event planning job. So she's feeling you know a little bit like lost, a little like, this was my whole world and now all of it's gone And budget restraints, I guess. So she's kind of using this as A moment to remind herself who she is, which is wild considering what happens I felt for her when they were showing the pictures of her working, I was like, oh, she was like twenty four in like twenty thirteen. like when people were spending money on events in New York City. And she was probably like having so much fun getting insane budgets and then the pandemic happens and it just like never comes back. I feel like based on the pictures, they were like very twenty seventeen and I was like, I feel for her? like That's that's a tough industry because it's kind of you're like staring down the barrel. Yeah, the last of the Great Event planners of New York, That was like a dying era. It's gone. I mean, it really, you know, like the girls that they would write magazine articles about in Vanity Fair in two thousand four. Exactly. Exactly. U. Um, So yeah, I mean, Nick's like, cool, let's just do it. I'm happy to celebrate our love again, which again, LOL considering what happened do you like them? I like her. I find her energy to be a little confusing in a way I like chaotic in a way that I like. I'm never really sure which way she's gonna zigger'zag. That's exactly how I feel. She's a little cooky, Georggina too I was realizing Lindsey has a real specific type of ph that I'm realizing now. and this is a very interesting type of woman that I can't really put my I don't know how to describe her yet, but I'm getting there. When she turns flimsy and just goes, You've ruined my party. I' like I was like, I actually wasn't expecting that. This is fun. Yeah. ye U So then we had to soft bar with Kyle. Kyle ordered the drinks that I ordered last time I was there. O called a phone party. It was so good. I actually ordered it twice shout out to Softbar. That's a high compliment because you like to try different things. Exactly. And I wasn't trying to deviate. Wow. So Carl's like, how are things going? By the way, Carl looked the fuck good. Thank you very much want to put that on record. But he's like, how are you I was like, man, it's heavy Like I just feel like things didn't really feel real until Amanda left. And Carl's like, Okaykay, what is the deal with you guys? Like do you think that her moving out is actually going to work? L what What's What, Kyle Where do I live? What planet am I on? Because I don't live on the same one as Kyle's Amanda. When I listen to these two people talk, I'm like What I don't know. And here was here's the thing that I've been wondering this whole time. Okay When like Amanda, what's your thinking? Were you genuinely like, yes, I'm getting a year long lease on an unfurnished apartment, but I'm only going to be here for two months. Was that really what you thought when you signigned it Also like, why are you pretending like your boxes can't just your shit just can't be put packed up and put in your parents' basement in Newery? That's the whole point of your parents having a house in New Jersey. That has a basement still. Okay Yeah. That's a whole do you know what I would fucking do for my parents to have my childhood home with a basement for me to put shit in? Like I'm lucky my mom has a garage that I can use, you know a full basement a st. likeike what are we doing here, Amanda? Like then Kyle says this shit where he's like, I don't know, I don't really know what I think about her movie now. What do you mean you don't know what you think about your wife's movie now Yeah But it's I feel like he's also so confused about what the fuck's going on. He's like, I don't know what to feel ' I don't know what the plan is. I feel like ' either of them will pull the trigger and just actually say what's happen. Yes Exactly. They're Cody, They're sister wives in,' really what it is. Weere they just now there is another sister wife of another kind Well, yeah, exactly, because she's a sister wife Wh was it gonna get better from Kyle? L No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Lateral move at best . And she didn't even do that. That that's the real, that's the real thing that she couldn' even manage a lou. I was like, you're pathetic. but like And the streets are saying he already was being a slant ked with somebody in the friend group and a manageran I tell you a fuck about that. Of course he's fing everyone. Like anytime I seeone post about that, I'm like, yes, guys. Well he fs the whole city and she pretends like it doesn't happen except when they get drunk and she screams at him. This is her kink. I don't know what to tell anybody else. Yeah. Apparently she doesn't even like fucking in it Yeah, for those who don't know, there was a blind item that said that Wes already fucked somebody in the friend group This happened like a few days ago or the blind item came out a few days ago and that Amanda was like, okay, you can't talk to this girl anymore. But like, yeah, to your point, I'm not surprised because well one They never said they were exclusive. like They never They've always been very evasive about that. so I'm not surprised. like Yeah,anna will never are you kidding me? She is not asking him to put a label on shit. And then they're like, and she's still at the wedding with him? And I'm like, Yeahah, because that's her boyfriend. L what don't you guys get? right? She's just being a fucking loser. L I don't know. like That's her boyfriend, but that doesn't mean that's West's girlfriend. No, That's that's what we need to see the other half of. When when Lindseay at the reunion said did that when I was in college, that was the last thing that ever needed to be said about Wes and Amanda.. They are They are not nothing is sensical about them because they're acting like they're twenty two, but they're in their thirties. So it's disgusting A thousand percent, a thousand percent So Carl asks the question to Kyle Are you in love with Amanda? Kyle's like, I'm fighting for it. And Carl tells him Listen If I was in your shoes and I was married, I would fight to the death to try to keep that marriage. but you know, there's An part of me that's like you guys are really unhappy and the blindind are blind here, the blind leaning the blind here when it comes. I mean, we I will always, you know, give Carl credit for finding the nerve to call off the wedding. Like I don't I don't know how he did it. L I'll never know how he managed to make himself do that. But like listening to these two talk about facing the truth, I'm like, oh my God Oh my God, like when When Kyle saying that like I'm fighting for it, Somebody needs to be like, give me an example. A your sources, sir one example. What's one example of something that you've done? And I bet his thing would, well, I'm letting Amanda move out and find herself because it's only passive shit because he doesn't actually care about being married, just like she doesn't care about being married. These are the two most confounding people. Right, I thought it was They don't even fuck. They don't even fuck your If they were fucking, once again. Okaykay. I hate to say there's so much I can excuse with good sex. like or I can understand. L I can understand a lot of behavior like that dumbsshit people do because they're very attracted to one another. It's not good, but I'm at least like, well, yeah, like if Kyle and Amanda can't quit because they keep fucking. You know what I mean? L you know who I think like Kyle Mauricio actually like still have a sexual chemistry a little. you know what I mean? Like when there's like pool between two people. I'm I can usually be like, I see it. But like Ammerica apparently doesn't fuck these guys that she's like totally entangled with. It does I don't, I really don't understand the motivations I don't either. but I did find it very interesting that Carl was like, Hey in When I ended my relationship with Lindseay, I ended up being the bad guy. It's really tough But, you know, people had all their shit to say about me But listen The truth is always going come out, Kyle. like, wow You really knew that, didn't you? I mean, listen, we again Disclaimer that doesn't need to be disclaimed anymore. We know that Kyle's an objectively bad husband. We' been talking about this for years, but It is very interesting that he was like, people are going to see what's going on. and he was right Yeah, like Jess It is so crazy. It it really is. but I would like to end this scene by reiterating that Carl looked really hot m I'm proud of Carl. I'm happy for Carl. For our friend Kay's podcast, I read his book and I mean, I listened to it in like one and a half hours, like that's how long it was. but through some shit that I was I was surprised to hear and his addiction was like a lot worse than O like a lot more of like a class classic addiction than I realize because they just don't talk about it on TV, you know? So I am proud to see this. like especially after having read that kind of recently Hearing about his january sixth inter I mean, that'snder incredible and term his sobriety moment, like that's true My jaw was dropped when I read that I mean, I think about that Bermute or Bahamas incident The guy I'm like thinking about that every time I see c. All oh Yeah, there were some part It's not funny. It's not funny, but he doesn't Carl, I find to be a very weird person energetically and I always have and Not in a b I don't really know how to explain it, but as a anotherother person who has walked the road of recovery, you know, who's been on that journey U I feel like I appreciate him more than I did before. Well, thank you, because that's about to be my husband. so thank you. Yeah, I know. that's your man. And as soon as everybody gets on board, we'll all be happier for it. U after this, Lindseay and Kenny meet up for drinks and she tells him the whole backstory about how by the time she was two and her brother was three, her mom was like,duces can't do it. And basically, her mom was like in and out, had this very frustrating adolescence until Lindseay at twenty two. made a decision. She said, I'm going to dive into work and not deal with my mother. I'm going Stop putting myself in positions where I'm constantly rejected by her And wow, I mean, that was really like Not a villain in origin story, but like a hubhouse in origin story Really incredible. And when I was watching this, I was thinking, there is a certain type of woman on reality television who I will just want to watch forever. And it's a woman who has incredible amount of self awareness about her life, but also level of delusion that keeps me on my toes And like Lindsey's sharing all of this. I'm like, this is incredible. And then she goes to like, and then Carl and my baby's father abandoned me and I was like, there she is. I love it. Like I love it. Like because what she says what she says about her mom is so thoughtful and adds so much context to her for me. And like the stuff she shared about how hurtful it is again now that she has Gemm up I loved it and like like a Bethany Frankl, a Kayle Lowry, a Kristin Dotie, like who can like really access. their life, but then still doesn't like change a lot of their behavior in a way that I find so fun to watch on TV. And this I think this is like a masterclass of this because I watch this and I feel riveted and I feel empathy for her and then at the end I laugh a little because I'm like, girl, come on I love that. What more can you ask for? I truly love that she sat there and told Carl that Sharon was dancing on the grave of their marriage when she went down to Mexico U, to their location that they were supposed to get married. That was so funny When she said, I wish her the baby's father would have filmed. I don't remember his name is and she doesn't use it on the show. Turner, right? I when she's like I mean, we had differences, but I thought we would compromise on them. And I'm like I would have killed to hear some of those fights Go ahead Mo to be in the room, to be in the room. And like to be fair to her, it seems like this is kind of best case scenario as far as entering a co parenting situation, right? And honestly even sometimes a a parenting together situation and a relationship from what we seeen on reality TV. It does seem like Lindsy is in a pretty good place with that and I give her a lot of credit for that. and I think that Her not having a baby until she was in her late thirties was very beneficial for that, you know what I mean? Like I think she has a level of maturity in her life now Diet. she didn't have before and I think that's so helpful. And I just like She just is still her and I love it. And I like I respect her and at the same time, I'm like Your truth is not the real truth sometimes And you know, who amongst us Who amongst us and being able being willing to share that. And that's really what the difference between her and Danielle is is that Lindsay understands We want to hear this stuff and she understands that we want the good and the bad and she's willing to give it Exactly, exactly. And we love her. We truly love her Keddy does say, you know, I also had some abandonment issues, but like You know He mentions that he had an engagement that didn't work and then he lost his mother and that was kind of a lot. So They kind of agree on the fact that they like to push people to see if they're going to stay in their lives And, you know, I Obviously that has not really worked for Hubs. No, this reminded me a lot of like Lindsey and Kyle together where It's like justust two energies that are very made for reality television and I really like when I'm watching them get along, but I also do really like to watch them fight. And' I don't think this show would work without Kenny. Like Lindseay and Kenny like they' playing. there like You know I love when someone comes to play. Like and Kny Kenny just wants to play and Lindseay just wants to play and there's something to be said about that. And the reason it's so hard to watch Amanda is because Amanda doesn't play. L yeah, exactly, exactly. So Kenny and Lindsy do like, you know, they connect a little bit more. It seems like they're on good footing. He we'll see if he still brings up the fact that Lindssey simply asked, Are you going to marry this woman because you moved her in across the country To be fair, she was being I'm on I the whole time Lindseay does like she's doing with Danielle. I do wish Lindseay does this thing where she won't just admit what she's doing where she's like giving people a hard time. But here's the thing. I don't think Lindsey, you know, Lindsey's a tough braad. so I don't think you know, she said it that way. I think she asks questions and does not see that people might not They might need a little loop before we get into it, but Lindsay's just straight in And I don't think she want to be mean, but I think she's just like, what why you handle it? No, no, that's why she truly. She when somebody says to her Why are you judging me if you have a baby within like two days of knowing a guy? She's like, what does it have to do with the price of tea in China. L they they are unconnected in Lindseay's world. Yeah. And I love it God blesser. So then we get to Nick and Yvon's event and we're at this like gorgeous space that she redid. It's like drapery, beautiful, candles everywhere Perfect, like you know long table should be very lovely They're meeting downstairs first at the bar and Amanda is now caught first caught, but this is now the second time where she and Kyle are separated. They both show up at an event. And rather than just being like, hey Kyle and saying it yourself, she's like Kyle, hi, Kyle. hi Trying to draw the that she thinks that Kyle's ignoring her and he's not. You're underselling it. Hi, Kyle Hi Kyle L doing like why I just her choices are so crazy and How much adal sh it? Like something is not right in the world of Amanda. and I know I just said I walked a recovery journey and I don't relate as much to Carl as I do to Amanda because Amanda is me at like the height of addiction. And like I'm not saying she's an addict, but like something is not right with her. L she the way I'm not saying it's like mental health and we need to forgive her, but like She is fucking weird. Her behavior is bizarre I literally wrote. Why yell his name rather than just saying hi you weirdo Yeah or can I get a high? Like I like you you she you slide up to them and give them a little side hug and go, oh, so I'm not getting a high not like I don't she's just so weird. I just feel like it's another instance of her trying to make Kyle look bad. And like for weird reasons. like, but like I'm gonna be so loud and make it seem like Kyle walked in this room and didn't say hi to me When I h first and I didn't do anything I hate it so much because I hate Kyle and think he said horrific husband and like, I should be on Amanda's side. And then she does this dumb shit. And I'm like, can you just stop like If you just were acting normal here L like you don't know everybody sees Kyle and this comes out during the fight like that they are about to have. like everybody agrees with Amanda. like everybody sees it Amanda, but like you will not just accept your victory. You are like doing this insane humiliation ritual that You've been trying to do for seasons and seasons, you're just finally doing successfully, I guess So she thinks. But that's why the I guess at the end of itt like She ye. and then for her to say in a confession like I'm dedicated to trying to not make things awkward for everyone, like no, you're not. You're actually doing the opposite Does she believe a word that is coming out of her mouth? I can't tell And that be better if she did or I don't know. I don't know. I do. I want your listeners to know that I believe that at the core of all of this is Amanda is a person who fucking hates herself, like hates herself deeply, deeply, deepep have to. And any hit of external validation, especially when it comes to like a romantic or sexual partner is so titillating to her and so intriguing and gives her such a shock of joy for a moment and like a relief from that self hatred. It's like it's truly cutting is like her you know like all of her behavior like someone who cuts themselves. like that's what she's doing with West. And like watching it for me is like physically painful because it's It's so unnecessary and outrageous and she is the only one making her life hard. Absolutely Kyle sucks. And I say that is Kyle's number one hater, but like not for nothing like Her divorce could be eighty two percent easier if she would just be fucking normal and I Yeah Oh, that's so annoying. So Daniel then walks in Georgian is like, Ohh, the bride's here Now, Evon says hi to Danielle but then she immediately starts whispering to Georggina. Did you see that Danielle's wearing white And then like, yeah, who wears why to a fucking wedding Now Yvon says in a confessional The fashion queen wore a white dress I know you want to get married, but this is not your wedding. This is not your night. I'm the pride. Did you forget that? So then Yvonne tells Georgina and Lindsay, I'm just gonna try and let it go and just keep moving through the night. Georgina iss like, do you want me to spill red wine on her because I can do that Now, then we see Danielle telling Owen, Lindsy's being cold to me again. She barely said hi. so like why do I keep trying so hard? Which is really a question for you, Danielle. It's really a question for you, Danielle Like Lindseay has been very clear and you were like, can I come over to your house? And she was like, M, I don't know That was tough. That was really tough Yeah, that was a hard watch. Yeah. Yeah So then, what is so funny is it Did you notice like they choke and yell? but clearly there's been a lot of clamoring for Katie Deluca So they show Danielle, even though she's in the foreground, they show her blurred. And this is her scene. It's about her. Danlle's in the foreground.a is like super clear in the background Hey guys, she's here talking about her It's her. If that's the one, that's the Deluca A tr. We go upstairs Its gorgeous. Yvonne stands up and gives a speech about how hard the past year has been And she's had to redefine herself with the loss of her career and how Nick's been there and You know, it's just been great and that's what marriage is all about, you know? because there are tests and things that are going to come between us. But at the end of the day, it's about us. And Kyle's looking over at Amanda like excuse me, and Amanda gives a little peekaboo finger and then laughs And he's like, oh, okay he he slurs. o okay, because Kyle's four shots deep at this point. Let's be cle there's a bottle of Don Jolio sitting in front of him, if you've noticed. J man thought he was gonna have a good time. Oh, he is in his cups. he looks over in that hatred and she sees it and goes Gatach Like she always does because he walks right into it every time. like that's the thing. That's like As much as I hate Amanda, like Kyle does everything that she accuses him of. He does he does it. He walks right into why every single time he allows her to like have Like Both of them act like they're being held hostage by the other Mhm in a way that I find infuriating Yeah, but yeah, Amanda knows exactly what she's doing exactly what she did at the summer house night dinner when they found out he was going to DJ in Vegas and they thought every everybody was like, oh, is this about to be a residency? and it was one night And she was like, I'm not gonna to say anything about that. so I'm just gonna let everybody go off on him. So it's her version of him sayaying out on I ignoring her phone calls. L like It's her. It's the thing that she knows triggers him the most just like he knows that triggers her the most. You know, like every single time both of them fall for it with the other Yeah Absolutely, absolutely The food comes out, it looks incredible. I just wan to say, by the way, if you were in like a real friend group, I was lookingucky at this dinner being like, this would be a lovely place to have a formal dinner. Everybody looks fabulous. It looks really comfortable. Like the chairs looked comfortable. I was like, that'd be a really nice like four hour long private dinner with your friends It was very pretty and I saw what it looked like before and what she did with it and it looks a lot better, but yeah, like that sort of dinner party is my shit Yeah. Danielle, Danielle, girls, everyone, go get your colors done. Get the perfect haircut Get a little tiny bit of Botoxin filler and Danielle is she has elevated her look She's always at a good style. like she is a fashion CEO, of course, but like She looks so fucking good and she looks so good at this dinner. Every time they panned her with that hair and those earrings, I'm like Okay, Bide, looking good Yeah, we were texting about this like Daniel has a really great sense of style and the fact that like she doesn't stick to things. like she always looks good, she knows how to evolve Like I can't really think about like a time where I'm like, u, L if we were to look at it back at what Danielle wore, you'd be like, this makes sense. This is cute. Trendy even not too trendy aggree. I think the hair though really takes her to the hair in the eyebrows. like like very I feel like she's gone to she's stepped it up to like a level of sophistication and it probably also helps that they're in the city and its's fall, which is inherently chic.ight. But as opposed to like sweaty in the Hamptons with her like shotgunning a beer at nine AM, which is like usually the way that I would see her, you know, to to be fair. But like she's doing it for me on the in the city. She looks so good She really looked good. This really look good Um, Georgina announces to everybody, Hey Lexi, hey Yvonne, you guys are ovulating today. And they're like, how the fuck do you know that just do Kenny then says I heard it um Andrea and Lexie, once you guys are done having sex, he lifts you up. Andrea is like, ye, I did that. I've been doing that. It's called the wheelbarrow. That's my move. Like a prosciut though. they're like, how is that like a prosciuto? I don't Andre is a real a real letd down for me on this show. I liked him a lot on Summer House. and I actually wanted him and Page to date And I actually do like how into him, each other, him and his wife are, but Every time we like pan to them, I'm like, o right, they're here. Well famously, I think Lexi only started speaking at the premiere of the show So you know, I think her vocal hoorde just still getting to workout is a lot for her. So I don't think she speaks all that much I think you're correct. And I think that he's not expected to speak so much because he's very pretty Yeah Mm, God bless him. You can't He's a John Hamm on thirty Rock in the bubble, you know, And now that I'm like getting a little more exposed to him, I'm like Yeah because that's my type, you know, like the girls love the carar and the Kyle, but the Andreas of the world. That's That's my type. Oh Oh, I mean, a tall dark handsome lovely, but you know I never like a blonde man, but he's talking a lot now and I'm I'm not that into it Mmhm I get it So Nick shows Amanda a picture of his dog at their wedding, which is kind of how this whole shit kicks off ' Amanda mentions that her dog Reese cried for the first time when she left the apartment And Lindssey's like, well, yeah, that's a new space. How is it Amanda says, Ohh, it's great So Gavin's like, but I wantan to know how are you guys doing? Like how are you sleeping in separate places and doing well? Amanda says it's been fine causeuse normally, I would have like gone to bed before him and Kyle was like, yeah, 'use you're high Okay. So By the way, I don't think Amanda heard, did you notice Danielle immediately went back at Kyle went You're drunk all the time. Yep. Nobody acknowledged that. She snapped at him so quick for that and she fucking hates Amanda. I was like, Danielle's real for that. But the interesting thing is Kyle did say, Daniee, you drink more than me, which to go back to our conversation Um, I mean, listen, I I'm gonna say it. because Carl certainly wasn't But it seems very clear in his book that he was trying to keep it cute about somebody in the summer house being very, u likeike his drinking partner M and very willing to like be in the cups with him He did not say who it was I felt like it was Danielle. We noticed this years ago and it was never a hot topic of conversation, but she would always talk about her hair of a dog and she would shock on a fucking beer at nine AM and like constantly. and I'm sorry, that is not Normal behavior in your thirties. To be regularly doing that all of the time is not normal behavior. That means you are drinking at a pretty high level. And I will say I think she's drinking it seems like she's drinking a little less when in this the city, but I think it's just because we're not seeing her in the mornings probably Right. So I did think that was there were two interesting things that were said that kind of came you under the radar. But I just mean in terms of like Danlle sicking out for Amanda, don't like I don't think Amanda even heard it. And she should have turned over around and been like, actuallyct thank you, Danielle. There's no reason for you to be sticking out for me, but you spoke truth. Yeah. No. She doesn't hear anything that like No An. She doesn't hear anything. Yeah. I really could have just stopped there. That's not that's not hearing's not for Amanda so much, Amanda just vibing through the world on her thoughts and feelings and That's kind of it, I think It's giving That's definitely what it's giving. So interestingly enough Amanda says, I wasn't falling asleep because I was high. I just happened to go to sleep before you and I only smoke at night So Danielle Um says something like Oh, did Kyle tell you this? And Kyle was like, yeah, no shit, Sherlock. So we saw two weeks ago, Kyle was playing pool with Gavin. He says, she smokes sweed every night. She's been doing that for two years. And what do you think that does to your sex life? What do you think that does to your ability to have a conversation with your partner? And I'm thinking of somebody who partakes U Neither of those things really should be a problem. In fact, it need to be an enhancement if anything. like yeah, no, I don't I'm like, I don't That's the issue. Do I think that maybe Amanda is I think especially now, Amanda probably smokes way too much weed and it hurts her and it probably does hurt her relationship. Sure. like one hundred percent Do I think that's the problem with a man in Kyle's sex life and their ability to communicate? No No, I think if if This is probably being presented to Kyle's like, I can't I'm high I'm sorry, Kyle. I don't want to do this, Kyle. and he thinks it's all about the Wi, but it's her She doesn't want to find you I I just, I'm sorry, I don't I don't understand the two of them in the sex of it all in the dead bedroom. I behate like I don't know. I just I don't don't understand what they've been doing for the last So I will ever like even just this whole season, Okaykay. Before Amanda moved out, were you at wereere you still living with Kyle? And like what was that looking like And I've been thinking for years, what do your weeaks look like When you come to the summer house, like what are you talking about? Are you talking? How are you guys just in your apartment not communicating with each other? Like what the hell' going on I mean, we were so deeply concerned about Lindseay and Carl like not speaking for two weeks before they broke up. And I think that was Kyle Neta for four years. Like I just I don't like And I I hear like Kyle's not wrong where it's like, it's bad that we didn't have sex, but at the same time, it's like Why are you in a marriage where you're not having sex? what You are You are both ing like such victims in a way that's such a turn off to me. Yeah, yeah, I agree Gavin says, listen, I'm only speaking for yourself. I just want to make sure that you guys are aligned as you're separate. Henny says, well, there's this narrative going around that Kyle drinks too much because Amanda said, well, dr my smoking doesn't keep me, you know, I don't cheat When I smoke, like Kyle does when he drinks. I don't have rumors about me when I'm getting high. Like Kyle does. I'm like, well, you don't leave the house. So there is that, but But I say. But she's also not wrong. And that is has always been her thing that it's like, I just want you to change this behavior of being blackout drunk after eleven PM every night. L like this one specific thing. and by the way, the idea that there's like a narrative that Kyle drinks too much because of Amanda, like there's a narrative that Kyle drinks too much because we of eyes and ears, and I've watched him on television for many, many, many years. Like that's why there is a narrative of that because that is the truth and that doesn't negate the fact that Amanda is like the most emotionally vacant cruel You know, like both of those things are true. Exactly. Like I think Kyle saying at some point This is not an excuse, but I think it opened my eyes a little bit more to the dynamic of Kyle saying, You're mentioning all these nights where I go out and I crash out and whatever, but these are also nights where you've promised to go out with me and then at the last minute, you say no And I'm not saying his reaction is good, but G you a ton of contxt He feels punished by her and she likes to punish him. And it's like, It's so It's so toxic and Kyle, what gets me with Kyle is that he refuses to admit any of this. Like he He is acting like he has no idea how he is in the place that he is in at all Like he simply has woken up here and that's always been this way. They got married when they fucking hated each other. Like what did he say Is somebody like I think it's okay if you get married and things aren't like great Did he say that in an episode earlier? I like probably. Like I think he said that to like Kenny or one of those people. and like his mindset is insane and he wants me to feel bad for him and it's like, All I see that Amanda's very cruel to you and I do feel bad for you, but I feel bad for you the same way that I feel bad for her because of your behavior. And both of you at any time could have called Uncle. Now another thing that happened that I feel like a lot of people didn't pick up on Katie De Luca said something in this moment Oh yeah, we then said Um Kyle, I think somebody says like, I feel like Kenny. I think Kenny says I feel like Amanda's not as present in this relationship and then Katie Deluca's like not present. He was out until three in the morning and then he brought people back to the office which is a distinction Because Amanda has been saying you brought random people back to our house, but Katie said you brought them back to the office, which is next door to their apartment I with this one, I'm on Amanda's side. I hear what people are saying when people criticize with Amanda with this and that she's like mincing words, but at the same time, I'm like I just think it's like the overall concept that like and that he like brings he's famous and he brings random people into their private space. And that is crazy to me and always has been Well, but I get like I get the criticism. I get what people are saying. I just like To me In the context of like everything we've seen Kyle do, I don't like I don't really hold him this one against Sabanda I I feel like there's more context given that this was Marathon weekend. She was supposed to go out with him and didn't. Who knows when she planned this moving thing? She probably planned it intentionally the same weekend that she knew. Oh she definitely did. She definitely did in the marathon of it all. I just mean like in general, I think that Kyle is like very weird in the way that he drinks and hangs out with St likeike it reminds me a lot of the Vanner pump rules people where I'm like, you're all too accessible. Oh, a thousand percent. However, you bringing people back to my apartment where I'm sleeping is very different than you bring them to the office next door Hey, it's Paage from Gigly Squad and I want to let you know that if you want the newest and hottest beauty products, you have to go to Sephora. I'm obsessed with the one size liquid blotting paper spray. It's the first of its kind blotting spray that mattifies for up to eight hours. It's unreal. 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Like I think do you know what I mean? Like that's their whole marriage is that they both like just accept truths and then they're fighting with each other about these truths that neither of them agree on Mmhmm Um So they're now getting into it about like Kyle's out too much. He's I don't have rumors like you do, blah, blah blah, it's a back and forth as it always is. I want to just blow my brains out when I listen to them fight about the cheating. I just I don't care.ight I don't care.'t care We have had this same fight So, Manny Hi Right. Right. Yeah, it's like I don't really know what to do with this information at this point So Evonne starts whispering the Lindsay, you got to stop this. This is my wedding Kyle Telling everybody, how good the quality of the conversation can it be if my wife's always high? I'm like, well, Kyle marry me and find out. I mean, don't really, but like you'll see there's another side to this. By the way, the slur on that line And I' get on. by what? I was like, great U At least I'm sober to this fight, you know? Like like you got like C on, keepe it together for this one, then get drunk. Gight I mean, to be fair, how how was he gonna think that a man was about to pick a fight with him at somebody else's wedding dinner? Like Yeah off course. Of course he should have thought that. Why would did you think that? Hello, I knew that would happen. why wouldn't you know that Nick was so funny. He yells to everybody, Hey guys, it's our wedding. Like can you just let them fight Nick is another one where it's like he's pretty normal. It' just watching him. just like I just love when you like get a glimpse of a normal person, just like, what's going on here? Maddie's sponsor on Southern Hospitality vibes, like where they're just like This isn't normal Mickas someomebody I would have wanted to sit next to at dinner. Like agree. Charles Oakley type of vbe. Yes. Exactly. you get it, Liz, exxactly. They're into it. Like they're they're having fun, but they they acknowledge it's insane. Yeah, exactly So this is where Kyle and Danielle are like fighting over who drinks more than the other one Always a good always a good fight. We see it on the valley see here. You know, it's always good when alcoholics are screaming at each other. You drink too much, you drink too much. Let's compare. Should we like go through a checklist and see who drinks more each day? P. Oh my gosh. Someone, I don't know who says Danielle instigated all of this and Danielle's like, no, Gavin actually instigated this entire thing and for doing that by the way That was true She was right. She was right. And this is often Danielle's issue is that she is often right. Yeah like has the worst delivery Like takes the bait every time to the point where people are like, well, we don't care about your right, which is an unfair position to be in, but unfortunately Just one like When that happens, and I think that Danielle finds herself in it a lot and still hasn't figured out how to navigate it. Yeah., you're exactly right. This is where I just had to open mouth cackle Because suddenly, Yvan, who was like, Lindy, please let cooler heads prevailm and please navigate this and scare the ship She then says Well, You know, I'm not really happy with a lot of people at this table right now, especially ones that are wearing white And Daniel's like, what the fuck are you talking about Well, first of all, Kyle's gotten up Like Kyle's now like walked away. So there's like a tiny bit of a vibe shift, right? Like everybody's like Okay. like like let's take a breath and then yeah, Yvonne immediately and I went this is what I mean. like I think maybe I don't know if Danielle AHG or whatever, if I'm just projecting, but like that impulsivity I see in her a little bit that turns people off like When she said, like, what the fuck are you talking about, bitch, like she wasn't calling Yvana bitch. L she wasn't. She was so caught off guard. She just was like, what the fuck bitch? And then of course, like, but that, you can't say that. L it gives you like you did call her a bitch. Like I heard what she was saying. I really did and when she was like, what do you mean I called you but like she didn't But you're on you can't, you can't say that, Danielle. And this is like your constant issue is that these you say these things and then you get so defensive about it Yeah Nick is telling Danielle, please don't call the bride a bitch Ivon says, What am I not allowed to have an opinion at my wedding? And Danlle says, you could have had an opinion when I texted you about it. So we see a screenshot where Danielle's wearing this dress and it's like, Hey girls, it's okay, It's pink. And Yvon's like, yeah, I love it Whose side are you on with the dress? Where do you endand I mean, listen, I kind of fe on. I think it was Gavin who was like, you know, if you had to email her or text her, Yeah, you probably shouldn't have worn it anyway. Like if you were h about it. That's where I am. I actually love on Reddit to look at this one suburb. That's called like wedding attire approval. And like if there's like a tiniest bit of white fifty year old women in Arkansas is like He will be hung for wearing that. like do not do that. And I feel like I'm usually pretty like It's fine, you know, like I'm a little more like liberal on that end, if you will. but Danielle, it's like one of those things where it's like just skip it, bam Just skip it. Like it's not just that it's that color blush, it's also the style of dress. like at an elopement dinner type of party, like that's a pretty bridal style dress too. Yeah. which like like because I I had a friend that had like a pretty casual wedding at a restaurant and I wore a dress that had white in it, but like huge blue orange patterns. You know what I mean? Like there was nothing bridal about it. Like no bride would ever be like, I'm gonna wear this, but if it's a light color and And it could be from like B DLN, whatever the anthropology like bridal line is. L you can both of those things. Yeah Let's just wear something else. let's just wear something else. Like just err on the side of caution there Exactly. I mean, I think yeah, exactly. If you not can like is this right, then it's wrong Like if she she could have worn that like for a bridal look. Like if this was Danielle's engagement party, that would have been a lovely look and like that's putut on a dark dress. You're in New York in fall also, like Come on. this is it's also a seasonally inappropriate dress actually. Let's talk about that. Why are you wearing It's also true. It's not a November dress. It's a short sleeved blush pink dress. That is a summer dress. Yeah. Like Had a Vaghne worn that I would have been like, oh yeah, she looks cute and bridal Exactly exact. It's very bridal shower, engagement party, like second wedding, like that type of vibe. and Danielle Danielle knew it, which is why she sent a text. But also Yvonne is, this is what I mean by she zigs when I think she'll zag. is that she she looked around, She saw things had turned down a little and she thought, now's my moment We have a whole second fight. I love it. I love it Oh my gosh, Gevin says like, okay, how do we move forward Kyle and Amanda, are you guys still in love? Amanda, go. Are you still in love with him And Kyle are you still in love with her Amanda says I would wouldn't be doing what I doing what I was doing. like I feel stupid sometimes because I love this man so much And Kyle's like, No, you didn't answer the question. Are you in love with me? And Katherin's like, No, she just said yes. and Kyle says, no, She said, I love him. Can I just say Gavin like clearly tried to parent trap his parents as a child? like Like what this precociousness in him's precocious, That's the word. He like 'm wrong Like I actually, I think if you know how Troy describes Justin Timberlake as a child as like a rootin and toot and dancing child I think Gavin is a little that with a parent trap vibe to it because he is like, mom, dad Let's talk like the Vibbeouse is so child trying to force his parents to be together. It's crazy. Yeah. Yeah Oh God, thank God for Gavin No, he's so good, but I will say I'm weary of his . he need he needs to be successful. to be as messy and weird as like as messy and goossipy as he is, that money better be real and restaurant tours, question mark question mark Mm. interestnteresting. If it's real, I like them a lot more Sorry, it's just my truth fair I think it's real. I think it might be real Because like if it's not real, then you're a messy and a liar and a weird scammer. You know what I mean? If it is real, then you're just like weird and funny. No, I think it's real I think it's real I hope so. because like if you for real are like You can have a very nice like you can have a very nice life, but usually I have to work a ton. And so I'm cur you know what I mean? Like I'm curious about att his age, what level he's at, and I've done no research and it You know, unfortunately there's no way at all to access this information. I could just never know. I'll just keep living the rest of my life. There's no source I could ever ask and I'll just wonder forever. I mean, to be fair, there are hints of like a little go home Roger like Kenny has mentioned He's got the key to my apartment until Whitney moved in and he just like randomly crashes there. It's like, Well,evin, where do you live? Because we haven't seen your apartment like everybody else And that could be like for real that he owned restaurants in LA and owned restaurants in New York and went back and forth and didn't care to have an apartment. You know what I mean? Like there are like legitimate explanations Yeah, but I have I just I have a yellow flag on Gavin, but so far I'm enjoying him in a different way than Kenny. whereere Kenny, I'm like, I'm suspicious of you was a person. Gavin, I'm having fun with, I just think I won't like him as much if I think he's also like a scammer there That is fair. So Amanda finally admits No, I'm not in love with Kyle. I bec oh guys, I discovered something. But the interesting thing is Theyight Kyle's like pushing for a man to like answer the question, You didn't say in love, you didn't say yesterday no to in love. but when they turned it on, Kyle, he's like, Well, hold on. I And it's like, well, Kyle, you're being equally evasive. He did it with Carl earlier We're here I want Love Bl love Amanda. Yeahah He's truly like love. Yeah I love her Have we been through some ups and downs? Yes, haveave I bed bottomed out and spiraled? Absolutely Has she? Yes. And Lindssey's like, Okaykay, but what's the answer? And he's like, God It the first time was considerered it He's never considered it. He's like, huh Okay, I hear Yeah, no. I don't think I love her. And then Linds's I mean, Lindsey's crying. Amanda asked him like a few episodes ago, Are you in love with me? And he started laughing 'cause he knew The answer was no. Yeah, like what?, come on, You didn't love each other when you got married. Wh That's a hor season. I always seeason six of Summer house is a hor season. watching that, knowing that they go through with it, it's like It's unbelievable Mhm. saxophones got louder and louder louder and louder and when it gets to the point of them revealing that her father has made him sign a contract promising to repay the cost of the wedding if it has to be called off because he got drunk and cheated again. I said That's the craziest fucking thing I've ever heard in my life Mhm And I'll never be over it. I will never be over that small little fact because it says literally everything about them in their marriage and the foundation of their life Our lives have been defined by two Incredible posted notes Um I'm sorry I can't don't hate me, sex in the city and this like very flimsy Kyle's gonna recoup all the fun from our wedding if he cheats on me So crazy. It is so crazy. That is a crazy thing. And when a man is like, I mean I will say as a fellow spoiled girl that Unfortunately for me like didn't get famous and like get rewarded with a bunch of money at like the height of me being the worst. And so like I to like figure out life. But when she's like, look, you know, my parents know. I'm like, I know they do Your parents are so fucking mad and don't give a fuck and enable this shit out of you and we'll support you no matter what you do and just every choice you make, they just shake their heads and are frustrated by it. every single one Every single one God help us, God help us U basically, they're like, no, how can we possibly be in love with each other right now? And Gvin's like, y'all can be in love and have a bad time. like par trap L they are good at each other Dayiell then tells Gavin, with all due respect, you have no fucking' idea ' because you've never been in this situation before. so you're seeing a loser like I don't even know why the fuck you're talking So Yvonne gets up. She's like, I'm out. Gavin's Ellen, Hey, can you go get me a drink downstairs? We need drinks. becausecause it feels very clear that the service, the waiters and the people were like, never mind, we're just gonna hang here I don't know, that's what's going on here. We'll pause on that third course until they Stop doing whatever the fuck is going on here So Georggina then talks about how in her past relationship, she moved out to kind of make space in the same way. And while she still would have moved out Had her hus wasas this her husband or her ex boyfriend? I don't know. Boy How you just five years Okay, had he just been like, hey, stay, let's try to work it out. It would have gone a long way inside like she still would have moved but it would have meant a lot to her. And at this point Lindseay Hubbard is broken crying and dabbing her eyes like I've never seen before As Amanda' saying, I'm moving out to save the relationship Whitney's asking Andrea, Is Lindsey okay? You' like just ask her yourself, you're right across from her, but whatever. By the way, the guy went to the gym that Georianna, like he just went to the gym when she was moving out. and she's like if had just been at home, like she's like, I still would have went, but like he really didn't give a fuck and everyone was like Okay, we under it's so By way, Danielle Be being, like, Gavin, shut up, you haven't been in here. Like imagine having to listen to a man and Kyle fight for ten years. and then someone's like, it's really worth it, you guys. You really. I think I would be like, you need to shut the fuck up. You don't know what it's like to be tortured by them for years I'm So Lindsy starts getting really emotional andion. She says in a confessional, when my baby daddy and I started dating, I thought this was going be a fairy tale I knew he didn't love that I was public, but I thought we could overcome that She basically admits I was willing to give up being on reality TV to give our family a shot, but he didn't even want to do that, which sucks. L I don't know if I believe her. I have to be honest. I don't know if I believe that she like truly would have given it up. I don't I don't think that's like the way that she is, but I think that she tells herself that I think she would have been willing to and I think You know, like if push came to shove and he was like, yeah, you gott to do that Obviously she would not have wanted to, but I think that's probably an abandonment thing for her of like, Damn, I was willing to give something up and you still didn't want this. That'. So the only reason that I think that it's the like I think The way that she like describes just cutting her mom off at twenty two, like I I just think she's a person that like, looks out for number one, and I don't believe that she would want to be with a man who asked her to give up her career and I don't really think she would offer it Hm And like I think that she like like I think in her mind, she's probably like, well,'ll just do the show and I like won't post on social media. You know what I mean? Like I just have a feeling it wasn't, but I this is not a defensive turner because he dated a woman on reality TV and wants to be private. you know know her life sued her. like you circled the block with this woman. You knew what it was about to be and you chose to do that anyway So I'm just saying, I think that this is this I'm not I'm not saying it's impossible, but Lindsey has a tendency to get into these completely impossible to work relationships and then be stunned that they don't work for the obvious reasons that they don't work. And it's like she has to figure out how to fix that and not get with these turners that are so you know, like rightite on paper or whatever, like that Like Lindseay, you cannot be with a man that is going to try and control you and not let you like be who you are. like girlie, that's never going to work. That's not you. You would She would have been miserable Are you can would have been awful It would have been awful for everybody. Me Ebody, everybody. I honestly, you know what I will, likeike I think like I think I said this earlier, like Lindseay All things consonsidered does seem to be in a pretty healthy place with Gemma and Turner. Yeah Right She does. She does. They don't, they don't fight on lotine like She's not she I did hear on a podcast like allude to her being a little more annoyed with him that she kind of sounds on the show regarding like Gemma and access to Gemma on social media, I think. because it impacts the money is kind of what I'm thinking. But overall, like She seems really mature. And this's like ye, really mature I just am like Lindsey You need to start from the beginning with that maturity Yeah and except that like Like say when you are sitting here a year and a half later and saying with a straight face like, we would have worked if he had just like allowed it to be, like that's dishonest It's dishonest with yourself. You were never going to work with this guy. likeike you got like you she just makes the same mistake over and over and it's frustrating. but once again It's kind of the thing that makes her such good TV. I it Like that thing and it also is the thing that like makes her so open and willing to share and I'm not She just needs to find someone who also wants to be on TV Right Somebody stable but also wants to be on television. There's gotta be one. Now she recently se with Matt James of the Bachelor, notot him notot him Don't you Oh, oh, you just mean no, don't be with him. I was like, I thought you meant like, no, not him another Mat James from the Bachelor and I was say there are two of them No. just don't. Yeah no, no, no, no. She needs what she really needs is like an entertainment lawyer like Like somebody who wants a Bobby Zarin Mm. She needs a bobby who just like Did you read that AMA, Bobby Zarns Ranscended like a little bit ago about you. I saw a couple things, but no The one point was he was like, no, Bobby loved Jill.' like he's like, Jill suck, but like she made Bobby so happy and he was like so entertained by her and like loved living life with her. Like this guy was saying like the nastiest shit about Jill, except the fact that like Bobby truly loved Jill and had so much fun with her. and that's what Lindsey Hubbard needs Like somebody who is Ken Vanderpump or Ken Todd. You know what I mean? Like someone who's like content to sit back a little, but like is just obsessed with you and like One is attracted by other people watching you shine L we thought um Bethany's ex was was. What's his name? I've alreadyul No, no, no, no, no. The husband. Dennis Jason. Oh, Jason. Yes. Jason number two Jason number two. When Jason really got in the beginning, he was like, Oh, this is great. It're so great. You're on talk shows and whatever. I'm like so happ. I'll be the dad. I'm gonna hold it down at home. Yeah Yeah, she needs a real version of that He does. And I guess actually what the difference between Jason is Bobby and Kantad is that they had ers and real careers and they're in money and so like their wife got to just shine. You know what I mean? L they I think I think that's what she that's why I say like an entertainment lawyers like type of guy. like someone who has the money who is satisfied in his life but is just like thrilled by Lindsy and the things that make her great and exactly. She keeps coming finding these guys Carl included, who actively dislike the things that make her great Hm W And that that's that's bad because she's a good person. They're like, you know what I mean? Like she's like, I think she could be a good partner to someone. likeike she and I could I think she could have a very successful marriage if she found someone that like it can work with that part, she just needs the right person. And I'm like genuinely rooting for her to find that person Meet you, I'm lighting my prare candle every day So as Lindsey's weeping, she tells Kyle, you guys both want the same things, but you want it from the other person. you're both trying to change each other you know I was like, yeah, she thinks I want a party girl. That so it was crazy. Who said that Why did he do that for you specifically? U because I think Amanda says, Amanda said it. Amanda says, he wants me to be a party girl and Kyle was like, that's your takeaway , I'm got to jump off the clip. You don't know me And B the way, Lindsey's takeaway when she's like, you both went from the other. I'm like, I don't think that's even true. L feel like I actually don't think they want what the other turned to give I really don't think it's like it's not everybody wants to like make it this like tragic like, o, they just can't make it work like like if they could just figure out this one thing, they'd be right for each other. And it's like it it's simply not that Yeah, Right, rightight. Oh gosh. so U Lindsey starts really popping off, She tells Kyle, shut up because I literally tered watching the two of my fucking friends demolish their relationship. And I want you guys to succeed except for instead of you guys ruining everyone else's lives around you figure it out or don't Eood enough So Th's a mom now. She's right. Kyle gets real quiet. And then he gets real shady and he goes downstairs. but as he goes down the stairs, he goes, allright, you can email me to Amanda And everybody's like, okay, Kyle, so you don't want to u I laughed so f. I actually rewound that because it was like I don't know why that made me cackle. I mean, obviously the famous seventeen page emails is always close to my heart. likeike that's, you know, never not far of mind, but it was just so Like it sums up every issue I have with both of them that when I'm rooting for one of them in a fight, they just like do something like say send me an email and it's like, Kyle What I'm wondering is This is something that came up in therapy. Ohu. L there's something abouton we can't communicate with each other, so maybe write it down in an email so we can get it this is one hundred percent like something the divorce attorneys said like thousand percent this is something specific. and it nothing makes you sound crazier as a person than bringing up an inside fight with your spouse for others. right Instead of an inside joke, it's an inside fight, you know, And everyone's like, well, you sound fucking crazy. Even if it is very pointed, it doesn't actually matter because we don't know what you're talking about. Yeah ye So Nick has to stand up again and say, listen, I respect that everyone has a lot of shit going on, but this is our fucking wedding and my wife's crying in the bathroom right now And she's been planning this at great expense and at great effort. So if anybody could just put a smile on your face for a few minutes Please Yvon, Oh please, Miss Yvonne, you just got the fucking highlight of the season at your party. Like s in the bathroom, like making sure her highlighter' right, like putting fresh powder on her nose, like. The tiniest smudge of like her eyeliner I mean, Come on, Dabbing her liip glos just making sure her combo is still good. setting spray, like D is She's ha a great Um, Kyle Do the thing that we were giggling about in our text in the beginning of the season, seeing everybody in the comments being like, Kyle's talking to the cameras in the summer house because he's trying to send a message because he knows that the cameras are watching. But then we see Kyle downstairs, noody Nobody's there and he's just muttering to himself like, look up double standard in the dictionary, that's gonna to be our relationship. Literally person is paying attention to it H favorite, he loves to walk away and do that mumbling insult. like he does it every time. You know what that actually is making me think of? Shannon Bador in Real Housewives of OC, when she's like in and out of a dinner screaming and like you never quite know like what mood she's in? Like is she coming back to fight? Are you? Yeah? king me. Is she coming back to fight? Is she not? Is she gonna say You know what I mean? Kyle, it was very bad Yeah. And that's funny to me, I'm sorry. Oh I Are you kidding me? that's where Kyle shines because it's like It's so interesting because he's he's not passive aggressive.'s he's direct and cruel and mean. so's not it's not like you're watching someone be like, okay, Amanda and then walk away and like be like, that dumb bit. She's like, Yeahah, well, fuck you, Amanda. And then he walkks away. he's like, well, fuck that. And then if I said this to her, then And so it's just funny.ight. It' not being fake. Like, o God Upstairs, they're like Lindsey, are you okay? She's still sobbing. It was actually very surprising. Like we have seen this woman broken at this dinner in a way we have never seen Lindssey Hubard before. She cannot tighten up I think that she is like must be having a true like this is the first like heavy, heavy emotional moment I've had outside of like my daughter and my ex in the last year and a half since becoming a mother. You know what I mean for now guys. Like Charlie, like Charlie and like like she's, I think she's being forced to maybe reflect in a way that she just like hasn't been because she's been focused on like, her daughter and her daughter's father, you know? And like now she does have these extra emotions for being a mom and we know that she's like a little rawn vulnerable. and I think we're seeing like Pbably as cheesy as it sounds, like what she's always felt. but like just like didn't have access to and didn't like openly feel that becoming a mother is probably allowed Hm Yep Yeah. It's kind of nice to watch. S nice to watch her sobbing and broken. Yeah It is. She's a real person. She's complex. I like it. True, true. Yvonne walks back in and Nick is like, Okaykay, everybody, tighten up. Clap, clap foron And Eon's like, wow, I am surprised that you guys even remembered that I'm a bide I was obsessed with this. She walks in and she's like And fuck you, Lindsy And Losie's like, wait, what? 'nt a conffessional I've known Lindsay for a hundred years, so I don't care if she's activated. She's just not getting activated for the right couple. Like I'm your sister and you're standing on a chair screaming about Kyle and Amanda. I need you to be on your chair and telling everybody to shut up. so that I can have my five course dinner I was not expecting her to go that route. When she said that, I was like fun. like I like her walking in and just being like, well, fuck Lindsy Hubbard. Like not even Danielle. L she's not even firing at Danielle. She's just like, well fuck Lindsey. And this is what I mean by I feel like I'm finally feeling that there are storylines outside of Amanda and Kyle because despite the fact that like Amand and Kyle were obviously the main focus of this fight, like the Danielle of it all, the Yvan of it all, the Lindsey of it all, I'm intrigued by the non Amanda and Kyle elements, which was not happening so much until maybe the last two episodes. aggreree. agreed Georggina tries to reset the move, tries to do a little positive speech, but then Kyle comes back upstairs and he apologizes and he's like, listen, I appreciate everyone's concern. Kenny tells Kyle, I do empathize with you. becausecause people come at your relationship and and you're responding And then Danielle's like, well, at least it came from someone's mouth versus Lindseay finding information on the internet. L you've been trying to find information about my man, so I hear And so we're starting up again. And Lindsy's like, whyy is this shit always up me? I was acare with the boys And they had a lot to say Boys had a lot to say about Owen, the boys And I only operate MFax. So what's the girl to do? Let's find the faxs very typical of you, Danlle. And Danielle, I thought we were baby stepping in the right direction. And if we were doing that, I would think that maybe you would text me instead of what the boys are talking about. And Gvin's like, why does everybody keep saying boys like that Hey, it's Paagege from Giggly Squad and I want to let you know that if you want the newest and hottest beauty products, you have to go to Sephora. 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We were just confused on how long he's been married And so then Kenny's like, we just wanted to make sure that there wasn't something that you might be oblivious to. whichich Kenny, I'm like, have you ever spoken to Daniielle Have you ever never went out once not A singular time. Danielle tells L wait wait it happens after this. Oh, so Kyle then says there's just confusion about how long you've been married, Owen. and Owen starts laughing and it's like, you guys don't even know me You even ask me? I wasn't gonna to come and give you guys my story, like my life story right off the bat That's not it either, Owen. like Owen is not helping I would not helping at all. He is being evasive and I would Go home and Google him too. Of course I'd be like, well, what is the truth because he didn't really say anything and now I'm even more curious. And so would Danielle, which is why I'm like, shut up, Danielle. you know That's And when Lindseay is like, what did you expect? L that's exactly how I feel. What did you expect? Yeah Yeah You're television show. You've been on this television show for many years at this How it goes. Not only actually, let me let me rephrase this, you got fired from a television show in which you were not a very popular character and you are now being given a second chance at being on a television show and you're kind of being given a big So why are you acting like you don't know what the fuck is going on, girl Sing for your supper Right, right Danielle tries to tell everybody listen, divorce is a hard subject and Lindsy's like, yeah, so is co parenting. so is mediation And once again, like what Danielle says here and what they say here actually makes complete sense. And if they had just been like, look, he has a messy divorce. He doesn't really wan to openly talk about it. They got married in twenty twenty one. They had a big w You know what? L it literally requires three sentences of explanations But here goes Amanda screaming now And she's screaming like, we just wanted to know, was it four years or two years? And everybody was talking about behind your back and I said, let me just go talk to Owen And I asked if you were legally married four years ago and was your wedding two years ago? And then we see what some event that was like unseen footage where Amanda's asking that. And he's like, there's a thing called COVID. Do you know COVID? this is like the shit that you say, Oh, and this is why I don't like you Just say he has If the truth is the truth then like, He should be letting everybody else look like an asshole, but instead they're fighting. And like, yeah, Amanda is fucking weird when she goes up and interrogates people. L it is weird. So instead of like fighting back with her because no one ever wants to watch a man fight with a woman, just like likeike refuse to meet her level is what you need to do. Like in that situation, you just need to refuse to meet their level to make them look crazy. him fighting back. It's like I'm suspicious of you Mhm. Right Danielle asking why it matters is like, well because it does. okay because it fucking does, because we all care and we all gossip and you would care too. Okay? Which is why Lander doesn't need to say it doesn't matter because it does. That's why you ask him. And you being like, I was just giving him an opportunity to clear the air. I mean fair, and he did not take it well is that sketchy I know I just said like Amanda is very weird when she does this but I think this is maybe almost like what you were saying with Lindseay, where it's like Amanda iss like, we're filming our show. Okay? Everybody has been talking. and so now I'm gonna give you the opportunity to talk. And like a normal person is like, why are you attacking me? whereere Amand is like, I'm just like giving you the opportunity to clear your name. Why would you be defensive about that Yeah. And they're like, because that's not how conversations work. And she's like, but we're on TV whichich is exactly what happens because Danielle's like, I feel like you guys are trying to catch him in something and you're acting like he's dodgy or like he's lying. And Amanda says, I just wanted to clear his name. and Daniel's like, whyy does he even have to do that? And Lindsey's like, whyy is he on this fucking show then? whyy are you on the fucking show And an nails like, Oh There it is. That's what it is That's it And Linday's like, no, I'm just saying if y'all want to talk about your life, why are you here That is the most classic Danielle thing, by the way, where like Everybody is yelling at her about something and she hears something else. and it's like, o, okay, and everyone's like gets even madder because that's not what they're mad about. And she like starts insisting it is. That was the whole thing with like the engagement party fights. it's just like, Danielle just like hears something and everybody else is like, what are you talking about Right Right. She thinks that this is purely wrapped up in Lindsey not wanting her on this show which I'm sure there' a ele bit of merit. S Sure, it's not that it is impossible But if Danielle was being truthful She would have been from the beginning like Lindsey, I know you don't like me and I think that you're trying to make me look bad. And yeah, I want to come on this show and be honest, but I refuse to give you the satisfaction in doing that. You know what I mean? Like she's acting like she I had no clue this would ever happen. You came on reality television with a married boyfriend. Itch like Hello ldly like we're gonna have to talk about it, babe And you can't evenatter I to see Owen and your mama It matters because it matters. That's the answer Yeah That's it, That's it I don't know what else to tell y. It just does, girl and we're gonna talk Yeah. ye. It matters because you're crying about it. You told us it matters. That's why it matters because you're gently weeping about it at night We didn't come up with that Lindsy's telling her like You guys don't want to answer very simple questions. And it's insane Nick starts pounding on the table And it's like, listen, If anybody wants to know our timeline, Von and I got married. we had our wedding a year and a half ago and we got married last week and today. If anybody would like to remind you why we're here today. He goes, and you know what, ever since then, it's been like one long party. L he says something like very like wedding speech and everybody just starts laughing because it's like It's so smooth and stupid, you know, like very I don't know. he's just How anormal Like a normal non reality star but like charismatic guy like takes control of the room. Fully, fully Amanda keeps it going. It's like nobody wants to calm down. Amanda then keeps it going because now she feels like she's hurt in this situation. It's like it's just really weird how defensive you guys are. I'll just say that So Ky was like, owen speak He says I got married in twenty twenty one and I had my wedding in twenty twenty three and that's it and the divorce is filed And Gavvin's like, you could have just said that from the beginning. That's really easy In the beginning I'd be shady when I ask you a direct question. So Danielle's like, well, there are legal things going on that we can't talk about. So if you think it's he's being dodgy fine, I don't care It just matters that my future, like we don't talk about specific things. that are regarding his divorce Which by the way, everyone would understand on then she just says that. They all like that is that makes total sense. Like yeah, he was married for four years. It's pretty messy. He doesn't want to talk about it because he doesn't want it to be an issue in his divorce And everyone goes, okay Yeah, she's telling Amanda, if you had seen the email that I get You would understand exactly why. And it's like, well, we don't need to see that. All we needed was what you just said. It's messy. We can't really talk about this So that, but also like You can talk about the timeline. That's fine. You can say I' like I'm married No one made your married boyfriend come on reality television. Baby to be people . like that This isn't my choice to talk about Ewen. L I' way. You know, By the way, speaking, this is a second married Irish boyfriend O Dravo and not that long of a time Oh wait, whos the other? Ohh, Polly? Dolores. Yeah How crazy is that?. Weird, random, but like, I didn't ask to meet your married Irish boyfriend And I actually seemed thought he seemed pretty fine until he was weird and then called Lindseay a fucking bitch. L You' whispering like all this fucking bitch What? That you have a mic on, sir. you have a microphone on and you have made the wrong choice each time you've had it on. So even if I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt, I'm looking at you sideways right now. pereriod pereriod Danielle keeps going on and like nobody wants to even know anything about Oh and, nobody knows his last name. Nobody knows what he does for living. Kevin's like, his last name's Heeve. I know that parent trap precocious All you guys care about is this shit, but I know the truth and I'm very happy and that's all you need to know. and it's like I' never happy Yeah very then after screaming after having Danielle two iconic moments in this dinner in which one and she had a fight with another alcoholic in which they screamed at each other, You're the alcoholic, no, you're the alcohol, No, you're the alcoholic. No you're the alcoholic. And then she screamed, I've never been happier with my married boyfriend It's your tough moments, I'd say Let's him gets a lick in about Danielle, Remind yourself how you treated me when I was engaged to Carl And D I was like, you don't even care about my wellbeing. It's insane And Lindsy's like, well You haven't changed, so thank you for proving that in what you just said Why did Danielle think Kur and Lindsseay would be friends again? I don't know. And this was her other mistake that's been annoying me all season as she walked here being like he mad at me. I haven't I spoke to her once after she had her baby and then I've been responding to her and she hasn't said anything, She hasn't replied and now we're on this show and she's still not speaking to me. What could the problem be I just can't imagine what it would be Oh, was it all the shit that I said when she was engaged to her? Oh And even beyond that, the two of you are not like friend like you shouldn't be friends actually. Like your dynamics were weird and like never very positive for either one of you, I don't think. Like Daniel What is something that I feel like Lindseay could also say about her which is that you only wanted me to be in this space a little bit below you and not doing better than you. and now you see me happy and both of them for sure Yeah, I fully thought I had this thought about both of them. At one time, like I thoughtw the same thing when Danielle found out that Carl and Lindseay got engaged. she felt like, oh, this pitch isn't supposed to be doing better than me because she was still with Robert at the time. And she was like, I don't care about getting married. I don't care about getting engaged, but like can we get a dog? Can we buy an apartment? Like there was obviously that was right before they broke up too Right. Like that was bad She didn't want to be like, we're not she knew that they weren't getting engaged because their relationship was bad, but she did want something to solidify them. And she was scrambling And and I clocked that at the time. I think she also knew that with Lindseay in a series partnership Lindsy's not a person that has like a million very close people to her and like, What is Danielle's role for the television show if Lindsay has a husband? You know what I mean? L? These are two girls that were like, they met each other single, they met each other Tactittity relationships. and it was like, ye, we can be besties through this, but like Yeah it's like you get a serious boyfriend. it's like, hold on. And I will say personally, I feel like that's more of Danielle's issue than Lindsey's I think so too, but it's because I think Danielle feels a little more than Lindsey. I don't I think that I think actually what it is that Lindseay is more friends and is like more popular and satisfied in her life. And so Danielle feels a lot more. I think Danielle feels very insecure around Lindseay in a way that Lindsey finds Danielle very annoying and like unhelpful to her and disloyal. And you know what I mean? Like And I don't necessarily I think that both of those outlooks for each other are unhealthy, and that's why they were not good friends Fully, fully agree U So yeah, I mean, there's really no resolution there U I mean, there's really no resolution anywhere. which thank God, thank God, what's a resolution? None at all. Danielle says in a confessional, I was Lindseay's Rider dy for years. and then I started grow out and I think that's where we started having our fall falling out because she doesn't like when you're not like radiating positive reviews about her And here's the thing, Danielle's right, but at the same time, it's like Yeah, but what does that say about you? Like why were you like sucking Lomsy's ass for years. Like you have no reflection in that at all. Do you know what I mean? Like it's like, well, She doesn't like it that I'm speaking up now. And it's like, okay, so I want you to fall like finish that thought. Why were you not speaking up? What's different now? Do you know what I mean? It's just a very like Bad Lindsay, me good Yeah agree. Where it's like I think I do think Lindsey, like I'll never forget the famous blindsided podcast when she went on Nick V's podcast. And she was like, it's really nice to have Danielle like back in step with me. It's like yeah, I know that you feel that way. Like like she does do that with Danielle Danielle is not incorrect, but I think that Like actually I think Yvonne is kind of a good example of like her and Yvonne met at a similar time, but they seem to be real friends and like actually navigating these life changes where Lindsey and Danielle just fought and like blew up at each other and like they didn't have a true friendship underneath and they don't like each other underneath. whereere I think like Lindsey Yvonne like each other and want to figure it out Mmhm Yeah, I fully agree Oh gosh. they're going to Mexico though or wherever they're going. They've, you know That's where they end. They go, we all hate each other but we should take a trip I think we're going to Connecticut Oh, I don't know why I said Mexico. Connecticut will be nice actually. It's fall. I like that. I like that vibe. Of course they didn't get an international trip. What am I talking about
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