Second Date Update and Parental Approval

on the IHart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. J Hollywood, to you. Thank you for listening to us, Ryan Seacrest. Seac Crest. On air, O air, O air with Rryan Seacrest C Claudia. Good morning. How are you? Good morning, I'm good. How are you? Well, we're here to help. I could say that. So your chiropractor is doing what So it's getting very weird. I've been having some back issues and I've gone to a couple of different places. None of it's really doing much until I finally meet this guy. It's been going really well. I'm in much better place with my back and the pain that I've been having But now he found me on Instagram and he's been DMing me. He's been sending me really inappropriate memes He's just it's getting a little sketchy And then I also realized that he's married. So I'm not sure what to do. I don't really want to switch chiropractors, but this is getting a little uncomfortable. What are the means that he's sending you? Oh well he's sending me like stuff like if we're like going on vacation together. like just like stuff like level to like the beach and like, but it's like stuff like I don't even know how to explain it. It's just it's random very random because it's like People in bathing suits and like people kind of stretching and he' like, this could be us, like people stretching on the beach and saying like, this could be us Does he say any of this stuff when you're getting your adjustment Well, I haven't seen him lately since he started getting a little more aggressive, but I'm due to go back this week. and I am just really debating if I'm going to go or not. My back hadn't felt this good in a while. and I don't know if it's because he's taking a liking to me or if he's just good Right theseese means of people on the beach kind of stretching each other out is reallyally uncomfortable, especially because now I'm realizing he's married So I think there's two options here. A quit him or B tell him that he's being inappropriate and you're going to quit him if he doesn't stop or C T his wife I didn't know what your sea was gonna be se called say be the mistress. which direction she was gonna go with that sea. I really did not know where that sea was gonna go. Yeah, I mean, look, if''re uncomfable.'s layer to it Yeah is that I'm also married and I don't know if I should tell my husband about this. Yeah, tell your husband. Of course you should. So you don't want to keep this between, I didn't know you were married U This is weird. It's very unprofessional and I would be out that door. He should lose his chiropractic license Do you think it's worth seeing someone else in the practice But I still have to cross him. I don't know. No, I think there's so many great whereere do you live? I can find you's a great chiropractor. I could break your back. I'll do the research for you. See stuff like that that he's like I could this could be us. L here's H's one you got to learn in life When something like this is happening and you're uncomfortable, you address it and don't feel bad about it or you just stop going. But once you address it and you see another person in the practice, you don't feel bad about that? cares. Just now move on Don't carry any guilt about him. This this guy's making him uncomfortable. Yeah. Yeahah, this is not okay. Totally Well Claudia, thank you so much for listening. Good luck Thank you. All right I mean, massage therapists ctors, dentists, chiropractors. You got to have that wall of real professionalism. You ever make it seem like you're there's something else going on. Yeah also like what if you're a single dentist? But you can still be friends. I'm still friends with my dentists and we follow each other on Instagram and there's nothing inappropriate. But What if you're a dentist and you're single and the love of your life sits down in your chair Are you not supposed to act upon that No. You technically know, it's against your license.'re supped to hit partner or your partner your patient patient Yeah Dentists want love too So do I, but I'm not hating when everybody comes in here. Oh gosh I mean, Tona, I mean you have in the p. Oh really? mean. I became your girlfriend. And that was one time and you gave it for three years. That's unane though. Like just because you have a certain job doesn't mean like if the love of your life walks in that you shouldn't act on it. but the fact that She Listen Tomato, tomato, tomato, potato, potato It is Seaacrest with you. Isn't it amazing if you have not had your coffee and then you have it and how the day just changes Yes, it is. Mine was perfect this morning Not tempted to put almond milk in it or regular milk or sweetener or anything. J you ever? No, but as a as a young remember As a young DJ Who had who had the awful task of me to get all of our coffee? Me T. I know Ryan Seacrestp through his evolution. It wasn't just me. everyone true true true But I know you through the evolution of your coffee order because what was the best era? The best era was when you were in your mananuca honey era. You No it was matcha because he was like it was when he was dating, you know who? And he was like all in his matcha era and we had to put like manua honey in it and you had to make it like sa That terrifying. You I get it right. That one was like the worst. The rest were very easy ' it was like a black coffee era. I learned about all that stuff through that person that era. There I would not even know about Manuka. There was like a splenda Stevia era. Then I read about that. I a lot of with you. You're a water snob, like all these things that we I'm a chameleon Yes. Yeah, Y secretary is adjacent. Oh, interesting And what does the saagittarus adjacason mean? They like morph into whoever they're dating. like they take on some of their things. From what are you cancer. cancer Yeah. So what is it with you and cancers? What's the deal with cancers in their cars? Why do cancers in their cars have to be such a battle? What is it it's fun of. is What is happening? Oh, you want me to tell you what this is T? What is this all about Tona This is age Oh can't say the A word. This is what it is. Not alled to say In our twenties, we didn't care about stuff like this, but now when you're like, who's parking in front of my house? Like who is that? You look through the window. It's' parking. They're parking in my parking spot It's like that's my spot on our street like it is sorry, is it the street O is it a p It's a public street. But this is where I parked. I have been parking my car every day there for the past three years of my life and it's on the border of my house and our neighbor's house. So it's like It's not in front of our house. because someone else now is parking in that spot in that space a public street? Yes And so then I got all D you see her nostrils flare? Yeah Her nostrils I got so upset by this that I then started perking in front of my neighbor's house because I was like That's gonna show him. You move yourself over there. So then he came in front of my house because he's older than you are Age That's totally. And I'm in this battle with this car that's next to me And whose door is it? It's this neighbor and like we have this neighbor that just keeps rotating. Like I don't know if there's like a lease in this house, but like they just Why can't you park in front of your house? Because I like to look outside the window and not Well, just FYI I think if you go to the handbook on this, you should most appropriately park in front of your own space notot clear the way. So you take you're actually ballhogging the street. No. You want a clear gap in front of your bay window and you also want to park conveniently close to your home. Yes, but I am technically still on my property with just like tail into there. This is so beautiful. This is the actually out is the street But Sisney made a good point. there. This is the beginning of all the complaining that's going to come with a because I do it all the time. Th make a complain because the neighbor next door doesn't mow their lawn enough. What's taking so long? Why are you walking on my lawn? All the things that you get to complain about, this hurts I'm not a complainer, but like' park in your spot. Oh this is a beautiful moment ol evolve into it. Or just look at your own car Huh I' ever seen your nostris forare, That was fun. Andike my dog likes to sit out there and like watch the animals You know? What animals are roaming through your neighbor? Wh What kind of zoology is coming through the mood there Is that a camo U so We have talked about the Laboou craze There' little dolls and Tisney's very possessive Tony about her little laboou doll. I am U She will not share her kids She's very possessive. And we have an intern first time in fifteen years here. This is Amy, our intern for summer only. You're going to be sad when you leave, but you've been here for a couple of weeks now, Amy the intern Boston Coege, right? No, Boston University. Very. Yeah, Boston University. Those are our rivals. She is very different. I don't know the difference. I didn't either. I was like Boston College.C and B, they're like total rivals. goodood to know. I will file that in the record. Would it be like USC versus UCLA Exact. Yes Okay So you've heard us talking about labooooz and it got you inspired to tell us about blind boxing Yes, yes. you guys talk about Loos a lot, but they are not the only blind boox collectibles that You know, people are going crazy for it right now on the internet. Okay, Amy the intern Elighten us. What is blind boxing All right, so You guys have rrouten your li boo boos a few times, you know, the smiley little monsters and blind boxes are buuy something without really knowing what you're getting. So you know that it's a laboooo, but you don't know which one, which color or what name it is.. And it has this like element of surprise that makes people like proud of it. Like it's my laboooo You know, like, you have your Loooo I like one less choice in life. I don't need to decide if I want strawberry, raspberry, whatever they are. I just want it Right is one ice cream It surprises me. Yes. All right. so what else is out there? Right So there's sunny Angels, which are like they're small like cupie babies. they have like various hats, headgeear, animal outfits like Just like various themes. And then there are Simiskies, which are my favorite. I actually just bought one. there's one on my desk right. What is a Simisky? I've never heard of a Simisky. Little Low in the dark people that come in like different poses. So you can post like hold up your pen or be like sitting on The side of your desk Th These things frighten me Like I little glowing doll and it would scare me. Wait, Th these are the the little naked ones or the green ones. Th the little naked ones are the sunny angels, the little green ones, which are my favorite are the Sisskies. They're like little cartoonish people They have that like remember the clown when you were a kid that scared you? These things have that potential. No. I mean, when I used to see Sonny Angels in shops as a little kid like in like the like Japanese stores in the hall, they did use to scare me and then they just blew up n TikTok I remember I was like talking to my mom, I'm like, rememember we used to laugh at those? or're like little naked babies It's so interesting how you can take this concept of like not knowing you're going to get and paying for it and just call blind boxing and all of a sudden it's so popular, right? It's like you would think that wouldn't be so popular, but it's just the packaging of calling it a blind box, right? Yeah, I mean, it's like it's the thrill of it all. There's so many different blind boxes like hello He There's some called Biddy Bop, Skull panda, Pucky Un Unicorno. My kids love Unicorno and I's like he's like giant gg unicorn eggs, and you just don't know what's going to be inside. It's just a bunch of random slime and little figurines and you're like and they love it. Right yeah, it's like opening a Christmas gift, but you bought it for yourself Okay, so I'm going research these what are these scary things called Samiskis? I'm going look that up a little bit and deep dive into the Samisky. So cute. All right, blindboxing. Amy the intern from Boston University. visit Well, not viting interning, I guess. Yes.. Thank you offvent Are you going cruising anytime soon I mean, they are fun. Oh you can eat, you're in different places. I do love a cruise So this sort of just popped up into my feed and I don't know, maybe they heard me talking about that Richard Branson newew Virgin Cruiser or something and this thing popped up If you go on a cruise, do not Do not wear camouflage patterns Okay. It's illegal in a lot of territories to wear camouflage. Wh why Because it's illegal. It's part of a military uniform and even camo patterns with nontraditional colors are basically treated like impersonating a police officer. So you could be taken for trying to pretend to be an official. Interesting. So like when you get off the ship And you explore the the c no cama. No cama. Yeah. And I' camel cargo pants. You do? Oh yeah, you do. I don't know that I've seen those The joggers Yeah, I have those too. Oh wow, you have two bears. Yeah I have a lot of camo. but not on the cruise. I just thought that was so random, right? And I would never ever think about that B best part of the cruise is that all you can eat. Now here's the quote today. Don't set your roots in places meant to be stepping stones. Interesting Do you got it? I get it? Yes. It's almost like lily paddting Ka Kiss onene at two point seven, kiss FM. All right, Tanya, let's get to the headlines. What's happening this morning? KissFM headlines with Tanya Rad. Well, LAFD says the Boyle Heights warehouse fire could be fully extinguished as soon as today Hundreds of air purifiers and thousands of masks have been distributed to people in that area. 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And so then when I went to text them and I went to go look to see if they weren't not coming through. So I go to see his text messages And I'm like, wait a minute. he has like all these pins. L, you know, when you go to your text message, do you have like your favorites? I would assume they're like your favorites U like I have Michael first and then I have like my sister and my brother and like so He has I don't even know who there, but then I see Mariana, who used to work here pinned as one of his pins, Fedx. L I I'm like, what is this? like How I not one of your pins? And he was like the way you say it, like you were very defensive about not being a pim. was I was offended. I was like I'm your wife. I should be at the very first bubble just like you're my first bubble. I would be mad. I'm mad, but I'm like a little on alert. So I secretly recorded him. That makes zero sense. That makes zero sense that you don't have like your favorites pinned. L you're my favorite on my pin. You're looking into pins in a different way than I do. Well you have FedEx pinned but you don't have me pinned? No, because I text you so much that you're always in my top b ing I you Oh me No we should to pin you. Like I had to pin Marana because after like four texts. like Marana pinedin. L to two texts and Jingleball, there's all these other people and I lost her text and I was trying to search for her name. Oh my gosh, Tinder. You are always there. I don't need to pin you. It's literally like I will not lose your numberers. Wait, it's like I'm under your couch listening to this in real time. Yeah. It is he's right. I understand the rationale. He's he's he makes sense with that though How you feel about you secretly recording him and playing him back early in the morning? I told him afterwards and he's like, cool, I'm glad I helped with your topic. That's funny. You know, in my real life too, I'm always like, canan you grab me a pen fast? I need to write that down tomorrow. And can I make a note? That's a great topic. But he didn't know I was recording him until after But he's he's a giggly little bubble, isn't he? He He's a joyful little bubble of. he's a good time. He's a good time. I saw someone on TV that reminded me of his essence. Was't an actor from Sex in the City No. Oh, okay, because he's gotten big before Doesn't that look like big? My sister tells him all the time. Oh Mr. B, Mr. B. No They' from Son. Yes. There's no way my glasses. Okay,, you know he's also gotten Michael Sarah ye She doesn't like Michael sister. I about bet your sister's pin compliments like that. know that like When Michael was younger, he used to be like a child actor, and he would lose roles to Michael Sarah So if you were to see Michael Sarah out in the wild, would there be tension? No. All right Anyway, that made me thank you for taking us into your home last night. You're very welcome. I felt like it was necessary. was yeah, I was happy to hear that when Mark told me and she's got a recording, o The second date update, if you're out of the dating world, it's just not great. I mean, until you get past the first few dates you just it's just not fun. It really isn't. I don't want to hear it is. It's not And Once you get to two months, you think you're kind of golden at least you're comfortable and you're dating. know you know what the vibe is So Victor says, Hey, brol, I met her on hinge. We dated for two months. And then this is what's interesting. Let me bring Victor in for this. They met parents. So Victor, good morning and thanks for coming on Oh, the struggles of dating in LA I feel you. I feel you, Victor. West Kovina. So you dated for two months And then she introduced you to her parents Yeah You sure? Okay. So she' her pare. And how was that I thought it was great. L we had dinner with her family and it I thought it went really well, you know, It was like after that that she ghost to me And what do you like what happened with the family? Do you think was the family feeling you I mean, I thought I was like cracking everybody up. like I'm really good with parents, you know? And she told me that too actually. L she mo afterward, she walked me to the car, like kissed me. She was like, that was so great. like text me later. like and then I did And That's when I was like, no response That's strange. And then you wanted her to meet your family. So things were, I mean, in your mind, everything was clicking Yeah, like, I mean Yeah, absolutely. I mean, at first I thought she might have got like busy for a day or two. So I was like tried some like good morning texts and finally I just like sent her question mark and like nothing, you know I don't. Something was said. There was obviously something that happen. Did you think her parents didn't like you You know what I mean? Like Maybe her parents said, I don't get this guy. But I just can't believe that that's like she would like I don't know, that's And two months is a ride. I mean that's a long ride. And it's also kind of crazy for her to ghost you after two months. It was a date or two, maybe, but two months is like it's rude. Guys are invested R right, so dude, her name is Michelle, is that right Yeah. Okay, bro. So hold on one second. We're gonna get her on the line. You'll be just silent and listen in. We'll try and find out and get to the bottom. this why she goes to you. All right Okay I think the parents didn't like him. And then they had like an intervention with her and Yeah, and they said, we don't get this. I'm St, even if that was the case, why ' about face and like the ghost him. Diving right back into it. We are in the middle of a second date update. Victor met Michelle on hinge. Great. They go out for two months. thenen all of a sudden she brings him to meet her parents He had plans for her to meet his parents after that But after the parental meeting She blew him off He doesn't know why like Ghost did after two months, which is very interesting to not give any explanation after two months. And he says that night, she was like, that went great Text me tomorrow, all that. I'm worried that her parents may be D didn't like you, Victor, and I don't. I don't know, but that seems like The most likely scenario, but we have Michelle on the other line. So Victor. ust be very quiet. You can hear everything, all right? Okay, let's see if we can find out why she blew you off after two months when you thought everything was going perfectly Hello, Michelle, you on Yeah, hi, this is Michelle. Hi, Michelle. Thank you for joining us, Ryan C Cst and everybody here KissFM in the morning. So we are calling you out of the blue about a guy you met on hinge named Victor Oh, okay, what about them What did you like about him I mean Like listen, we we dated a little bit like you know just casually. And, you know, he did seem like, you know, a nice decent guy, you know, just overall Okay. And tell me about the dating and how how did it go? Where does it stand? Well, okay, so just casually like for few months, but the thing was is he like, you know, we did actually kind of meet like some friends and you know, I did actually have a meet like a little bit of my family, but it wasn't like extremely serious. We were really just having a good time together and, you know, overall, again, he was just a really nice guy. And what did your family think of him? that's kind of a big step. Well, again, kind of like on my end, they all thought he was really nice. And it. The thing is, even though he was really nice, overall, it's plain and clear, my mom just didn't like him Okay, so he was nice, he was decent, it was casual, but your mom had something against him. What didn't she like I mean, okay, so my mom was always right when she had feelings like this. Like when I was in high school, I was like, you know, I would like about it and be all dramatic, but she was always right. And the thing is that she sted to me that she thought he was too like slick or too smooth. I don't know. She really just compared him like a snake. A snake? Oh wow. After one meeting, after one dinner Yeah, again, she's got this really great intuition. So I kind of feel like I'm also at a point in my life where I really do need to trust my mom because clearly I'm still single, so I have no clue what I'm doing Okay. Well no That's a very quick to judge moment for your mom. wouldn't you say Yeah, point I my mom has a really good judgement on people and especially like where I stand in this process. But I I mean, I guess I do feel like maybe she was a little too quick to judge, but again, like it's your mom. She, you know, your mom's there that maybe you don't see. Yeah, but you are the one that's dating this guy. How did he make you feel? Was he slick? Was he too whatever your moma was saying I mean, I mean, do you really want to S let me why I don't want to see him just overall, even though my mom kind of conveyed Yeah, that would be great Yeah, that'd be great. Okay. if you want to. All right, fine. He is a decent guy. He had some members of my family, I just won't be seeing him again. I just Overall, if my family doesn't feel like he's the right fit for me, then he's just not the right fit for me Okay. Well, Michelle, this is probably hard for Victor to hear becausecause he's hearing it right now U He's on the other line, Victor, would you like to respond to what she said? Yeah, I just I just can't believe you're serious. like you told me that it went great when we were at my car I mean, I thought it did go great, but when we had our post, you know mortem and my mom just said she didn't like you, okay I have to say you were tit other than not. You're kind of like not the what's the right word, Cisiny?ice hand with a little bit of care. I guess nice is kind of the word. I feel like you're not being so nice to Victor after dating him for two months. Don't you think that there's like a little TLC that could be used here? Or a conversation you could have had rather than ghost him Yeah. Well right now where I feel like I have to really just focus on myself, but also where I need to trust the instincts of others. Listen, he was, you know what, you were really great. I won't lie. I felt like you were very, very well received. It's just Yeah. She got a sliny v sliny vibe. Okay lookook Victor, here's the deal. This is not meant to be. let's just call it. All right Yeah stop. Michelle's not vibing. I don't even think she's warm to the idea. Victor, at least you've heard why. and let's move on. Don't lose sleep, Victor over this Michelle, thank you for being transparent. We appreciate you doing that with us on the air this morning No thanks. Okay, Victor, hold on for a secondc She's not the one bro. No. She's not She's not so nice to you I just can't believe that she like would just listen to a mom like that. L that's like I' know. I think I blessing in disgise. I think so too. Imagine this down the roadord and say thank you. She always need Mommy's approval for everything going down the line. Forget it run in the other direction That's the second date update. There you go. On air. On air with Ryan Seagst Ever been O doing your exercise. I got out my jogging path and there's this guy that first I saw him at the gym. then I've seen him now out on my path out in the wild running Chherl looks at me Yeah He's cirtless. I'm a little bit jealous of him to be honest with you. I've already clocked his whole narrative in my head You know, I'm not a guy and I also am jealous of shirtless men running. Thank you I'm happy that you are jealous of you yourre. Yeah It looks like I cant you have a great body. but like you need to be like shirtless out in the middle stududio city, like running through the neighborhood wherere like are pushing their babies That's what this guy is. So let me tell you about this guy I mean, I'm almost like, you know what? Hble it up a little bit, bro. I get it. I'm jealous. Right. Ninny, then he looks at me So that he knows that he's registered his jealousy with me Okay. now did this happen? Are you making this up in your head? No, this happened. And let me tell you what the guy does when he so you know, you can see someone coming. So I have now seen him twice this third time, actually once in the gym two outside the gym Now this third time this last time because he now knows that I'm jealous of him. He side runs He does a side run, a side straddle run Yes, So he passes me going like, p bl, p blop, p bl, sideide running. Does he point at his abves? No, he puts his back to me Oh he's got a great back and that's annoying. That's annoying too So I don't understand why guys, I get like we keep don't take your shirt off every single time And don't stare I'm already jealous. We get it. Everybody gets it. You don't need to make eye contact and then side stradle run to show off even more with ask me with your glistening bulging back understand the shirt being off, is it really that much better? Like are you that hot that you have to like not like not like hot like hot good looking like It's like hot like sweaty. Right are you that sweaty that you and it's not like a shirt He didn't even bring his shirt. Yeah didn't bring your shirts. They're just like and their shorts are like tiny. Left in the car. Wow. shirts in the car. L, I'm gonna to take my shirt. that thing's hanging off my waist somewhere. Okay S passes me What your shoots on for twenty six, guys Put them on and stop side running. I love it. I'm here for it. Right now we have to deal with a matter That is our intern Sophia And she's seeing a guy named Skeletor 's his on air name because you met at a Halloween party. She met the guy. They've been together two months. Things are going great. Very happy, all good, but they're in the gray area. Right And you have not had a conversation about Eclusivity yet, right? Not yet And you don't want to yet, what's the deal? Well, I feel like I shouldn't have to have the conversation becausecause if he's like a man, he should have the guts to ask me like officialation. Yeah. don't know. Vo for what you want. the gray area of the skeletor. I am skeletal M. I don't even know that real name No we don't want to know I know Robby's real name. I knew Robby's real name, but we just Socrates That was his nickname. I can't even read philosophy books anymore without thinking of that guy All right, so let's explit this. I just said to you, you're in a very dangerous area because the longer you stay in the gray area Sophia The more opportunity there is for disappointment Right? Because what if you learn that he's still on a dating app. wouldould it bother you I think it would because arere you on one? No, I'm not But do you have accounts? Maybe somewhere out there like you yourre accountive, but are they like I don't know how it works, but if you delete the app, is your account still active, like there, it's there Oh, is it? I don't know. I gotta go back. I don't know I'm What if you are at a restaurant? And he went to the bathroom and asked you to order his meal. Would you say to the server boyfriend would like to have Oh He. I think so Maybe I will just be like, he will have he. Oh, ' I do I've done this sometimes where I'm dating somebody and just to cut like dialogue down to make it easier to understand. I'll say, and like if I'm booking an appointment or I'm ordering something, I'll say, and my girlfriend would like. but it's not my girlfriend really Hm. Well, when it was his birthday, I was buying candles for a cake that I got And the cashier was like, Ohh, like somebody like you just turned like this age and I was like, oh, no, it's four My friend Wow, you couldn't even tell that Cashier Rphs. That's where you can totally say it's my boy. hesitated because I was like, u No, it's for my friend Do you think like what if he posted a shirtless photo Sll like a thirst strap Yeah, with that b Honestly, I don't think so If it depends on where he's at. If it's like a gym like a gym photo Okay. But if he was in his bedroom, selfie style in the mirror Definitely not. I mean, that would be cingy in general. I feel like I' would run if I was Sfia. You know, it might just happen naturally. That's how it happened for Michael and I. his friends actually gave us our title, if that makes sense. We were was fourth of July and they're like, Ohh this is Michael's girlfriend. And then we wereing. And we had because we hadn't talked about it, but then after it was an easy out. Yeah. was that night I was like, so am I your girlfriend? And He's like, I guess you are. like Perfect. Look, that's a great way to make it happen. Just We'll leave it at that, but I'm just warning you that like if you roll into R ninety one on Spruce Street and you see him at sushi with another person, it's gonna bother Oh yeah, don't put that into the universe He needs to be there with me That's right. All right, welcome then get out of this great area. you guys, I can't work for everyone. Can't do it all. Not class class Rosie is amanabllo this morning. Rosie, how are you I'm good. I'm good. How are you? Super good. So Rosie, I'm going to stop what we were about to do. I wanted to take your call getting on the air because Sisney was telling us the other day about. Hey hangers peoplee who text hey and then say nothing else. L Hey, full stop. It can be infuriating, right? And exactly frustrating. And so your son does this to you So the other day when you guys were talking about it, I just I'm like, o my gosh, my bys, what they do is they go, mom So then I'm like, yeah Let me text you mum. Yeah. and then they don't nhing for like A long time sometimes. and I'm just like, are you serious? L what Hello. Don't yell back Yeah And it's just now I go, what? And I put an exclamation mark And that still doesn't give them like a sense of urgency. Why do they say they do this They just they get preoccupied or they get a call or or they're scared that they because they're going to ask for money and like Tanya said, they're not sure like Okay, let's see what mood she's in. So if I answer yes, then they're like, Oh, hey mom. Oh they're testing the waters before they ask for the gift. They're put out feelers here's the thing. Rosie, I do want to just pointint out one view And that is, isn't it better your kids are texting you mom than not texting you and doing their own thing without checking in? I like it as a check in to be honest. Okay, Silverlane. You know what? The roow there they kick in. They're older. They're twenty five and twenty three and Yeah, They' mama boys. That's good though. That that age For being that age and checking in with you is really good. I don't know that I was checking in with my parents when I was in my you tellell them your boys, your mama's boys from another mama's boy. I text my mom M all the time, just MA and have nothing to say I just say M. M. He knows it. knows it And she knows that I'm just like, Hey, I'm here you're there Yeah. It's like, you good Yeah Yeah, yes. The other day, my oldress was like, you know, mom and I'm like, what? And then it took him about fifteen and he's like, I messed up And then I'm calling and I'm like, what? like answer. And then they don't think like I can't right now. Rosie. Oh my God I'm celebrating The relationship you have with your twenty three and twenty five year old boys because I love a good relationship with a mom. I love it have it. I want it. I need it. If you don't have it That can be difficult, right had a road, but now we're good. Well, that's what That's what you want to. you're like a spot with your mom Better to go ahead and Bridge that gap with momom. A M is important M who brought you here Exactly. said like you know, we had a row, Tenager years are child No no, that's not don't your. 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