Reflecting on the Results and Advice

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So before we get to what you did, the new thing you tried, I always like to invite people to share just a little bit about themselves, whatever they're comfortable sharing so that listeners have an idea about the person and not just the activity. so Becca, share Sure, yeah, I'm a late thirties, Cis bi womoman living in Europe, lucky you. Yeah, it's treated me well Where are you from roughly originally? Fr from the US. Yeahah. From the U.S. It's a good time to be away from the U.S., isn't it? Absolutely. Watching it all burn from afar, not that Europe isn't combustible itself All right, so why did you want to come an after action report? What is it that you tried you wanted to tell the people about So I was actually inspired by some advice that you gave. But I decided to do the opposite. A wise course of action Yeah, so I tried poppers for the first time. Wow. And what was it about the advice I gave that inspired you to do poppers? and how was it not taking my advice? So what I remember was you were speaking with someone who was asking if maybe she should take poppers when having sex with her husband because she was having a hard time like reaching orgasm with him And From what I remember the reason you gave was like you should maybe avoid it because like when you're having sex, your muscles are like tensing and like you need that and the poppers work against that And I heard that and I thought That sounds like exactly what I need. You need. So in my own defense, I wanna say that I've spoken to so many women and people who are signed female at birth about their orgasms and how they get there. And it often involves the tensing of certain muscles. The tensing of the thigh, like the lower abdomen poppers, of course relax muscles. That's why people who love anal deupoppers because relaxes a sphincter most importantly, alsoso induces a kind of state of euphoria, a little bit of a high and a lot of people, a lot of men you poppers to relax the sphincter and for that euphoric and temporary momentary but it seemed to me just, you know, no science, no data set. seemed to me that poppers might interfere with What I had been told is kind of the gradual progress of a woman along those plateaus on the way to orgasm. but in your experience not So essentially what I find is like sometimes if I've been like using a toy for a while that I am so tense that it's working against me and I can't untse. And so I thought, well, maybe this is worth trying I mentioned it to my partner and he was very Ready? he went and sourced them without even consulting me In Europe, where do you get poppers in Europe Well, I know we got them online, but I don't really know where. They're readily available in Europe just joking. I have been places where poppers are readily available that are in Europe. So your partner got his hands on some poppers. hopefully quality ones, not mystery meat, video head cleaner poppers. And then did you know how to use them correctly? Did you look up tutorials on YouTube I can't say I was that responsible. Because poppers come in these little brown bottles and there have been cases recently where people saw those little brown bottles and thought they were like those. fiveive hour energy drinks you get in truck stops that you're supposed to knock them back like a shot and drink them And that's a problem because you're just supposed to smell poppers and not for very long and not drink them. And people been hospitalized because they saw the little brown bottle and thought, Oh, five hour energy, Poppers. I'm going op this down my gut into my gut, pop this down my throat. and people have been injured doing that. So I'm a little concerned that you got your hand on poppers, but you didn't have a coach Well, I generally knew how they worked and had some conversations around it, but I didn't go super into detail. So set the scene It's the first time you and your partner are going to experiment with this notorious, gay coded sex drug Set the scene for us. Was it exciting the first time you werere gonna do poppers? Like what was the buildup? How did you fold them into the sex that you were having with your partner Yeah, I think like I wanted them particularly for these sort of stuck moments, but because I knew I was trying something new, we didn't really hit a stuck moment that time But yeah, so just like started with a small sniff to see how that felt and then tried a few more times as we were pulling around and Like the first one I did such a small little sniff and I got a bit of a headache I H had a friend tell me something similar happen to her, so I it seemed to be the trick was to go not too small You want to knock that headache out of your head with another hit of poppers, I guess. That was always my problem with poppers. we just instantly giveive me headaches. I never really got into them. So you have had in the past Tension which would derail you on the way to orgasm. Tension would get in the way of climaxing. Were you able to climax with the cstr from poppers and was there a noticeable difference? Did it make it noticeably easier for you to get off It was really interesting actually, like u I I can't speak for everyone, but I feel like I have such a spectrum of what it feels like to come or orgasm and like those aren't even always the same things, you know Until I had discovered these suction toys that I know have changed many people's lives, I had an entirely different experience with Orgasm coming, whatever I thought which one was and One thing that I found really interesting when we tried the Poppers was that I felt like without having like I kind of like squirting has become like the ultimate release. and I felt like even though that didn't happen, I felt like I finish likeike I felt that like release at the end, which is such a rarity. So that was pretty cool. So you had a really good Orgasm. Yeah And it sounds like you have different kinds of orgasm based on the types of stimulation or sex play or the duration of the sex play and the kind of sex toy you're using So a vibrator does one thing, but these vibrating suction toys do another thing entirely Yeah. and was it the suction toys that helped you begin to squirt or Definitely and This new superpower squirting Are you able to control when you squirt? Becauseuse I hear from some women who they squirt for the first time and then they squir it every time, but that hasn't been your experience No, not no that's good because a lot of the women who Learn to squirt and then can't stop squirting complain about having to change the sheets every single time they want to have an orgasm So superp that you have that you can decide when you want to have a squirting one and when you don't I guess to some degree, yeah I feel like I generally don't have a lot of control. So that first orgasm with Paoppers, it was a an A plus orgasm This was like not the ultimate, but it was like pretty pretty good. It was like likeike it because I didn't squirt. and so squirting is kind of the ultimate. but it was like Pretty close to the top. So have you used poppers again Yeah, so I did hit that like kind of stuck moment I wouldn't say it necessarily got me to a really good orgasm, but it It did get me to kind of tick off another thing I had been hoping for. which was Sher to kind of squirt onto my partner A Well, that's what partners are there for. They are for squirting. Yes. O Partners should be diving under the squirt, in my opinion When the squirt happens, male or female. It sounds like Poppers were fun. It was a bit of an adventure, but they're not somethinghing that you're going be doing all the time didn't It wasn't such an aid to you getting past that point of tension that you're going to have a bottle of hoppers on the nightstand forever. I mean, I don't know. I feel like it's still kind of early to know, but I do feel like I feel like I had two pretty distinct new experiences with it and that that's worth trying again and seeing where it goes. So poppers also,h my God, there's so much porn out there where hoppers make people like the The gay porn tropes as papperas turn you into like a desperate comeome hungry slut. And was that true of the second time that you did it that did Poppers have a disinhibiting effect that squirting on your partner? that was new and different. You hadn't done that before, but squirted before. Did you have a hangup about squirting on your partner? Were you selfconscious about squirting on your partner? and Poppers helped You turn into power slut where you didn't care where the squirt landed. What did they do that second time Uh, yeah, I don't know Like I think, but I think it was like physiological more than Well, mental. I guess it's always mental. Like it was something I wanted. I didn't feel hung up about it at all, but like I just I tend to like it's everything's going to be easier for me when I'm really relaxed, you know? And so to be on top, I'm not very relaxed. so it's a lot harder. And poppers helped you relax while you were on top think so. All right poppers Ridating on a scale of One to ten, this new experience, what number would you put on it far like it's not like the ultimate sexual experience I've ever had, but I think as far as like whether it's worth a a try, I'd say like an eight Okay, and Listening to my advice and then doing the opposite, scale of one to ten How would you raate Generally, I wouldn't necessarily rate it very high, but in this case, it worked out very well for me. This case, it's definitely a ten Yeah Deca, thank you so much for coming on After Action repeport, it was a pleasure chatting with you. Thank you It's been really fun And Thankk you for not taking my advice. It's Like I always tell people, it's not binding arbitration. You're free to ignore what I had to say. try it your way and I'm glad that you tryed it your way Yeah, thanks, me too Thank you, Becca. If you have something new you tried and you want to tell the world all about it, write it up, send it to us at Q at savage. lovev and you might be my next guest on After A. Afterion This episode of The Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Load Boost by VB Health Load Boost is a supplement designed to improve the taste, the volume and the overall health of your semen If you're already putting in the work, why not make your performance unborgettable? Made in the USA, NSF certified and produced in an FDA registered facility. Thousands of guys across fifty states and forty five countries swear by load boost. If you want bigger finishes and better reviews from your audiences, if you want better taste, better mouth feeleel Go to loadboost. com today and use code Savage for ten percent off or click the link in this week's episode description