Magnesium and Cortisol Management

I've had many leading experts on this show, including Matthew Walker, and they've all said the same thing about sleep. They've said it's the biggest positive investment you can make in your own performance. You can have the best strategy in the world, but if you're consistently tired, poor decision making will follow and eventually cause other things to fail in your life. So if you're looking to optimize your recovery, you should start looking at what you're sleeping on Our sponsor, Helix, makes high quality mattresses tailored to your body. It doesn't matter if you run hot, sleep on your side, or need something firm. Helix has a mattress for you. And I asked them recently to send one to a member of my team, and Juan received it. And we travel a lot. So when he's home, quality sleep really matters. And he told me he's getting the best sleep of his life. and the data backs it up with eighty two percent of people in a Helix study saying they saw an increase in their deep sleep. And with a one hundred and twenty night trial, you've got four months to prove it to yourself. You can get twenty seven percent off at helixsleep d. com slash diary. That's helixleep d. com slash diary concerned that melatonin is becoming more and more popular as a way to solve lifestyle issues or sleep impairment. Because I'm seeing loads you know, I'm an investor, so I see lots of companies now pitching me different products that have Mlatonin in them as a sort of day to day sleeping supplement I think I'm really trn. I've been on both sides of this argument and push it about it for two reasons. The first is in pediatric populations here in the United States. Pediatric? Yeah. 's use of melatonin in kids. is increasing. So in pediatric populations increasing exponentially. And in fact, if you go down the sort of the supermarket aisles here in America, often if you go into sort of the health sort of food section. There's this big purple section, that's the melatonin section. And a large proportion of that is the dedicated to gummies for your children with melatonin and There was a study that was published about three years ago that showed Here in America, over the past ten years There hass been a five hundred and three percent increase in poisonous overdose admissions to hospitals of melatonin in the past ten years, five hundred and three percent increase. Firstly we've got to be a bit careful The second reason is that Melatonin is a bioactive hormone And it's also involved in reproductive development. And those studies done back in the nineteen seventies, I think where they were looking at juvenile male rats, which is to say male rats who were going through adolescence And they were dosing them with high amounts of melatonin And what they found is that that stunted development of the testes of the testicles and it caused testicular atrophy. Now these were very high doses to be a little bit careful. we think we say, well, melatonin's a natural hormone. so anything natural is safe. Melatonin overall, in terms of its safety profile is very safe. It's actually a very good antioxidant 've got to be careful because things like, for example, testosterone supplementation in males, what we know is that if you're injecting Testosterone. After a while, after maybe eighteen months or so, the testicles themselves will stop producing their own testosterone. And even if you stop the administration of the exogenous testosterone, the injection The testees never returned. their function of producing testosterone Now we don't have any evidence yet that that's the case that if you keep taking melatonin at a high dose, your body, the fear would be, shuts down its own natural production of melatonin. I've seen no evidence of that. In fact, I've seen evidence the country that even after about six months or even twelve months in certain small cities, when you stop melatonin, the production starts again naturally. It seems fine Problem is People haven't been taking melatonin for just twelve months. They've been taking it for years We've got no idea what happens after years. That was my hesitation when the first time someone offered me meelatonin is from doing this podcast and speaking to smart people like yourself I've come to learn this sort of principle that If you start making something for your body in terms of a hormone, if you start sort of it consuming something externally likeike testosterone, your body will say, fine, I don't need to do this. It'll try and return to that level of balance quuantities in your system are maintained which means it kind of learns to shut down. And I always think about the case of testosterone Because men know that if we start injecting testosterone then we're going to have to pretty much do it forever. Yeah if we want those levels to be the same. Yeah, that's the worry is that there are no free lunches in biology and usually if you fight biology, you typically lose. There's always a trade off.. So when my friends often talk to me about like these miracle things or this thing or take maphanol and everything will be fine and d I givece the trade off, and I get most concerned when they say there isn't one Because when I go shit, we don't know it. Yeah. you've got to be careful because absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. U Be very careful when you Do that deal with with your physiology So to come back to the sort of the three things, the first thing we were mentioning is digital detox And don't worry about the blue light Worry about light in general, I'll come onto that because that's the second, but Michael Gradazar is saying, what he found is that the blue light doesn't really disrupt your sleep combination of first, these devices that we use are attention capture devices And they are designed to fleece you of your attention economy and they do it ruthlessly well. They've spent tens of millions of dollars designing these products to do that. So what happens is that these devices become hugely activating. And as a result, they essentially will be a mute button on your sleepiness. So you could be there, you get into bed it'il eleven PM. You think, I am so tired. I was falling asleep on the couch watching television. And then you get to bed, you start going onto social media and then you start doom scrolling. and then you get into this what we call bed rotting, where you just sit there. and now you look at the clock And it's no longer eleven PM. it's one AM And you've just done sleep procrastination now, it turns out that it's yes, that, that these are attention grabbing devices that will mute your sleepiness But you have to be of a certain personality type, he found. Not all of us are vulnerable to this sleep disruption of devices You have to be someone who is perhaps neurotic, someone who has high impulsivity, or someone who is perhaps high anxious If you are of any of those kinds, you should be really careful about your use of technology in the bedroom. Now for me to you know sit here and say, look, putut your phone in the car in the garage in that way. know that's what I would love because What we've learned to do in this modern era is the first thing when you wake up, what is it that you do? No comment. lots when you.. It's just you and I, Ste. I grab my phone before my eyes are even open. And what happens is this sort of small tsunami of anxiety washes over you Because as soon as you unlock the phone, it's everyone else's agenda for your day, but your own And it's a terrible way to wake up. Have you ever had the experience where You've got to wake up for an early morning flight and it's a critical flight You know that that night is not going to be a good night of sleep. It's going to be a shallow kind of sleep It's what we call anticipatory anxiety. You are anticipating an anxious event in the morning And studies have shown that when we create this anticipatory anxiety, the amount of deep sleep that you have drops significantly. You don't sleep as well And therefore, if we just do this little sort of version, this LITE version of the morning flight, which is we know that when we go to bed and we put our phone down, We know that when we wake up every morning, we're just going to open it up to that hit of anxiety every morning. No wonder our sleep can start to get shallow. I'm not going to sit here and say, well, Don't take your phone into the bedroom because the genie is out the bottle and no matter what I say, it's not going back in anytime soon. And a friend of mine, Michael Grenda has got this beautiful framework where he says, you can take your phone into your bedroom. It's fine But you can only use your phone standing up What's his name? Michael Grand,'s mind his own businessis. And what happens is that you're there and you think after about seven or eight minutes, I'm just gonna to have a bit of a sit down here. As soon as that phone goes away. so I would say that Digital detox is the first friend that will really help your sleep. The second is regularity, and we'll come onto regularity when we speak about what really makes for good sleep If you were to only do one thing Not three things, but just one thing, goo to bed and wake up at the same time, no matter whether it's the weekday or the weekend. Regularity is king. Okay, so that's the third pillar. That's correct. Regularity. Okay. When I looked at the science, for me, I created this framework of the four macros of good sleep. You've heard of the three macros of food, macro nutrients fat protein carbohydrate. To me, there are four macros of good sleep and it's QQRT, QQRT and it stands for Quantity Quality Regularity timing Think of it less like pillars, but the four legs of a chair. And if any one of these becomes unstable, the chair will topple over. So I'll probably start with the one that people have heard me bang on about, which is quantity, seven to nine hours. This myth of eight hours is nonsense. It's a wonderful range, seven to nine hours And what we know is that using that sweet spot of seven to nine hours, when you get less than that, the shorter your sleep, the shorter your life. Fuck. short sleep predicts all cause mortality. Now, we say that there's the minimum of seven hours of sleep. And some people have argued perhaps correctly, that look, if you look at these mortality curves There's not much of a percentage difference between sleeping six hours versus the seven that you're telling me is minimum. So six hours is just fine. so all of this nonsense and rhetoric is silly from you And I think they've made a conflation because Seven hours is the minimum amount of sleep that you need to survive Because the way that we quantify what minimum is is based on whether you die or you don't prematurely The amount of sleep that you need to survive is different than the amount of sleep that you need to thrive and people will conflate the former with the latter. So you've got to be careful when people are sort of touting on social media, they're saying, well, no, but look, there's not much difference between my sort of survival rate on six hours versus seven hours. You may have just as much of a long life, but the quality of your life will be very different. So that's quantity seven to nine And does it change for parents, by the way? becausecause I've met so many parents that seem to be functioning better than me and they've they're having like four or five hours sleep. Did evolution not give parents any leeway or anything when they have kids that suddenly their brain changes and now they can survive with less sleep? The evidence doesn't suggest that once you go through parenthood you get some magic sort of, you know, immunity shot makes you you know resilient and not vulnerable to a lack of sleep. And in some ways, you could argue, because we used to live as a collective tribe and we would share duties point. You know, Mother Nature doesn't really worry too much about you now Because you've already procreated and you've passed on your genetic code. So you are now the sort of you know the not particularly well know cred for individual through evolution, it's your offspring gets. So it sacrifices you in a way. I mean, that's what we see in the animal kingdom. D you see that documentary about the octopus? Yeah It was, I mean, I thought it was a beautiful documentary, but the TLDR for anyone that hasn't seen it is once the octopus and I'm going to completely butcher, so please ignore. onnce the octopus has given birth dies basically, doesn't move out of that hole and it dies. Is that rough? Well, I don't know if it dies, but it itss a level of active life. I searched, does the octopus die after reproduction? and it says yes. Female octopuses die after their eggs hatch After laying eggs, a female stops eating and devotes all of her energy to protecting and oxygenating them until they hatch. Once they do, she dies shortly after process called semi parity meaning they reproduce only once. This death is triggered by hormone changes from the optic gland similar to mammalian protituruitory glands And males die shortly after mating as well, usually within a few months ild In some ways, know it's tragic and it reminds me, I'm so glad that I'm not an octopus But but coming back to it. so There doesn't seem to be some you know magic cloak of invincibility that you put on when you go through parenthood. Certainly what we know is that The number of individuals who can survive on six hours of sleep or less and show no impairment either their brain or their body rounded to a whole number and expressed as a percent of the population is zero So quantity matters, but it turns out that we got it wrong in thinking that was the only thing because Then came quality. so QQRT. Qality is defined in sleep science as two things. The first is something that your sleep tracker will measure, which is the continuity of your sleep, meaning, do you sleep in one or two nice long bouts throughout the night? That's good quality of sleep, nice continuous bouts. versus your sort of sleep is very fragmented by all of these awakenings. That's very poor quality of sleep. And the way that you can measure it in your sleep tracker is just by looking at the app and there'll be something called sleep efficiency Sleep efficiency is defined as the following of the time that you're in bed percent of that time is spent asleep And what we'd like to see is you north of eighty five percent or above. So this is kind of like the user's guide to sleep trackers What I want to see is eighty five percent or more. If you're less than that, we need to have a conversation That's number one good quality of sleep. The second which is sort of what these trackers can't really do. but I can do in the sleep laboratory when you look like a spaghetti monster because I' put electrodes all over your head. measure the quality of your big, deep, slow brain waves of deep non RM sleep That is a second measure, the power of those big slow brain waves. That's a second measure. And quality seems to be as predictive as quantity in making a difference, not just to your all cause mortality, but quality even more than quantity. when it comes to mental health has been showing the bigger signal. So again, it's not that quantity doesn't matter. You do have to get sufficient amount of sleep. but quality as much as quantity should be paid attention to. And I haven't said that enough. The next is where we came to in our sort of three things that I was saying. The first is digital detox. then the next thing I said is regularity This is somewhere where I've also changed my mind on. I've doubled down on regularity. There was a study that also came out of that same data set that I described. It's called the UK Bioank data. And now they didn't look at ninety thousand individuals, but they looked at sixty thousand individuals And they decided that they were going to compare and split them into quartiles. So the most regular to the second most regular to then sort of the third most regular and then the final quartile was those who were the least regular. And what does regular mean in this context? Good question. Highly regular individuals plus or minus fifteen minutes in terms of going to bed and waking up at the same time. In other words, a total wiggle room of thirty minutes. Oh okay, so if I'm always going to bed at nine PM and I do that five days in a row, I'm regular timing really. So it's regularity in terms of when you're going to bed and waking up. So you're right, it's timing in a way But I'll come on to why there is a separate T for timing in just a second, but regularity here was okay, plus on my. So let's say you go to bed at eight forty five PM one night and then nine and then nine, ten PM and then you're back to eight fif. That's beautiful tight timing. I like that. Whereas those people who were least regular, they were ninety to one hundred twenty minutes disparate. They were going to bed, let's say at eleven one night AM the next night, then they were going to bed at ten thirty PM and then they were going to bed at twelve thirty. They were all over the map. So what they found was that those people who are most regular versus least regular. So they compared the extremes of these two. Those people who are most regular forty nine percent relative decrease in all cause mortality. So they were forty nine percent less likely to prematurely die than those people who are least likely to die. They had a thirty nine percent cancer mortality risk reduction they had a fifty seven percent cardiometetabolic. disiseease risk reduction That was stunning, that regularity was incredibly powerful as a predictive signal of your different forms of mortality. That wasn't the best part of the paper though. They'd also measured quantity as well as regularity in these same individuals. So then they decided to say, well, I'm going to take our measure of quantity and regularity and we're going to put them both in the same statistical bucket and do a Coke Pepsi challenge to see which one wins out in terms of predicting or cause mortality We all bet in the sleep field or at least I did, it was going to be quantity. I was wrong. Regularity beat out quantity in predicting all cause mortality and by quite some margin. Now that doesn't mean that you can now go away and say, I'm going to start sleeping four hours, but incredibly consistent four hours. You need both quantity and quality. But goodness, does regularity seem to carry a m ive signal. So coming back to those three things, I would say digital detox Go to bed and wake up at the same time And the final thing is light. In this modern world, we are a dark deprived society We get what I call junk light at night. So you've heard of junk DNA. Well, we get junk light at night We don't need all of this light and it fools our brain into thinking it's still daytime outside. So no wonder as a society, we have some struggles with sleep at night. Now that's due to many reasons, stress, too much caffeine, alcohol, THC. But excessive light is one of the easiest things that you can do. for next seven days Do me this experiment if you can Set an alarm one hour before your normal bedtime When that alarm goes off, turn off and I do this myself, turn off almost all of the lights in your house. When you say all of the lights, do you mean the little red light on my smoke alarm or? No, that's fine. But you know so my wife and I, one hour before bed, almost all the lights, we've got sort this little set of this sort of light that goes around the television, the back of the television, so it kind of looks like the television's cool and illuminated. I will set that down to about five percent brightness all of the rest of the lights out. So you can kind of just still see some illumination. So I'm not sort of, you know looking desperately uncool in front of a when I'm tripping over things because it's complete black. you know, Th then start cooling the house or the room as best you can to around about sixty seven, sixty eight degrees Fahrenheit we werere about eighteen degrees Celsius. We can speak about temperature, but just do this experiment for the next seven days, one hour before bed, the alarm goes off. You switch off all of the lights Ask the following question, Do you feel sleepier? Is it soorrific? Does it make you feel more sleepy As a result Don't stop there What you've gone and done is the first positive experiment, which is you've gone from The no intervention lightights are on to then the Matt's intervention, which is now the lights are off for one hour before bed. donon't just ask, is my sleep better when the lights were out for one hour before bed, Once that seven day period has finished, Go back to doing what you were doing before, which is keep all of the lights on and ask yourself, did my sleep get better when I did the intervention? And did my sleep go back to being worse when I stopped? Because I'm trying to teach you bidirectionality in the experiment. Does that make some sense? Yeah, so you get to basically do an AB test. Correct You get to see both sides of the equation and with that it's more proof positive than just one direction alone because who knows it could just be a placebo effect So regularity coming back to it is critical. So we've spoken about QQR, quantity quality, regularity. reggularity reggularity point Why? What's going on in our brain that's making it from a hormonal perspective or other That's making it important for us to sleep at the same time. It's a prettyoody great question. People don't respond to rules. They respond to reasons, not rules. So let me try and explain the reason behind sort of the rule. When it comes to regularity, we have something called a circadian rhythm that we've spoken about And there's a clock that sits inside of your brain deep in the middle of the brain. So We have, it just turns out A brain here. Lovely. Okay, so we've got one of these hemispheres here and then I'm just going to take out what we call the subcortical sections. So these are the areas that are below the subcortic. So here is the brain. So this is the front of the brain, the back of the brain, top of the brain, and here's the brain stem. And it turns out that right in the middle of the brain, right here there's an area called the hypothalamus Now, here, this structure here, this is the Thalamus. This is the sensory gate of your brain. So all of your five senses, sound, touch, taste, smell, they all flood into this gate calleded the Thalamus And then the thealamus will decide whether it sends those sensory signals up to your cortex And when it sends theake signals up to your cortex, you start processing them and you become consciously aware of the external world as we're falling asleep, just as an aside what's interesting this gate, the sensory gate B Thalamus Once we start to fall asleep, the gate close shut Now your eyes are technically still seeing, your ears are still hearing Your tongue is still tasting Because the gate of the Thalamus, the sensory gate closes shut those signals that are coming into your brain no longer sent up to your cortex. so you stop perceiving the outside world, which is just simply a different way of saying fall and sleep ypothalamus. you've heard of hyp sort of hypertension or sort of you know hypothermia that means lower. Here's the thalamus. This area here is called the hypothalamus And it's a tiny structure, but within that structure contains a nucleus. And that group of cells, the nucleus has a fancy term, and it's called the supra chismatic nucleus. The superchismatic nucleus is your master twenty four hour clock Every cell in your body clock inside of it. But this is the master clock. It's like Lord of the Rings. There's one ring to rule them all. Well there's one clock to rule them all. And here in the superchismatic nucleus, you get the twenty four hour rhythm of being awake and being asleep, being awake and being asleep. How does your brain keep quartz like precision twenty four hour clock time? How does it do that The way it does that is that it uses signals such as light and dark. From your eyes. From your eye And so when light comes through the retina, it tells the hypothalamus it's daytime And therefore you should be awake. and its rhythm starts its awesome sort of upswing and temperature can do this and feeding can do this all sorts of different things. but for the most part, light is the principal governor that essentially acts like electrical, I should say, photon fingers, that pops the wristwatch dial out and resets it precisely twenty four hours every single day Because if you're left in the dark with no signals of light, your clock isn't precise. It drifts to about twenty four hours and fifteen minutes. so you start going forward a little bit every single day if you go into a cave and people have done this experiment. The thing that keeps it precise is light. So you need light to keep a beautiful twenty four hour rhythm But One of those things that's under the control of your twenty four hour rhythm is your sleep wake cycle. What if I'm doing exercise? Exercise is a wonderful entrainer of your circadian rhythm as long as you're doing it at the right time So if you're starting to exercise at three or four in the morning, That's not good because that's an activity signal that's going to confuse the brain into thinking, it's the active period, which is normally because we're a dienal species, the day And it's the same thing coming back to my point of regularity using light. best way to help with that regularity because light If it's artificial at night fools your brain into thinking that it's daytime still outside. I mean, is there any such thing as non artificial light I mean mean I guess with the sun, but I mean, is there a type of light that I could use at night like candles or something or Yes Below thirty looks is not going to necessarily do you a disservice. Probably below fifty looks. Now Ls LUX is just a measure of light intensity. And you can download on the App store a free Ls meter. And if you're an idiot nerd like me, you're going all over the house at night and you're sort of putting it in different location and you're seeing if any kind of white spots here where you know the looks is too high, You need to drop that Looks, by the way, it's a great way if people would say, look, my REM sleep is deficient. How can I get more RMSleep? There's a great study where they did something similar to what I'm telling you now ninety minutes before bed, turnurn down the lights to below thirty looks pull out all of the blue light And just that trick of dropping the lights down ninety minutes before bed Below thirty looks making it warm, yellow light inccreased their RMsleep by eighteen percent. Wow It's a huge margin, so no need for pharmacology But to your question, why is regularity importantm. Well, I told you that light is one of the signals that can create regularity. It turns out your behavior is another thing that will tell your brain So meaning when you go to bed and wake up at the same time It acts like an anchor It anchors your circadian rhythm and it tells you Almost like a scene in a movie, this scene is now complete, a new scene starts. This scene is complete, a new scene starts. So every time that you're going to bed at the same time and waking up at the same time, you are feeding the suprachismatic nucleus, the massive twenty four hour clock in your brain. You're feeding it signals of regularity And when it feeds on signals of regularity it improves the quantity and the quality of your sleep Your circadian rhythm likes consistency. It likes regular signals. When you feed it signals of light, of activity, of waking up, going to bed improve the quantity and the quality of your sleep That's the reason behind the underlying rule. So having a TV in your bedroom is a terrible idea, then, because if behavioral point if I'm getting in bed, but then I'm staying up for three hours watching Netflix My brain is going to be quite confused about like the behavioral pattern what I'm doing in my life It's not going to associate the bed with sleep, it's going associate the bed with movies. That's one of the problems that we call it's called conditioned arousal, which sounds a lot more salacious than it actually is. It's a term that we use in sleep medicine which may explain insomnia With insomnia, let's say the first time you go to this thing called a dentist and you get in the chair and it's kind of cool. you recline back and You know, you think this is fine But then after about fourteen or fifteen visits When you get into that chair You are no longer looking forward to getting into that chair, are you Why? Because you've learned the association that being in that chair typically leads to a bad outcome The same thing is true with the bed, if you start associating the bed with anything other than sleep and we give you a pass in terms of sex sleep and sex, anything other than mad, you start to learn that this thing called My bed is this place where I'm awake, where I work, where I eat, where we have conversations, where I watch television And so you know if I were to, and again, I'm stealing Michael Brren's point, but if I were to say to you Bed sleep, bed sleep, bed sleep, bed sleep, bed sleep Okay, if I were to say bed scroll, bed, eat, bed work, bed sleep, bed TV, bed You've confused. Yeah. Because there's no predictive signal. You've never bound an association Now the way this works to your disadvantage . Insomnia is the following. The insomnia event that begins the insomnia is typically not the thing that maintains the insomnia. So let's say that I had I experienced a really difficult bereavement And that triggered a form of insomnia where I couldn't sleep because of the bereavement Gradually the bereavement is not the thing that's going to maintain my insomnia. It's because every time I have been going to bed over the past month I have not been sleeping. I've been wide awake in my bed. So now because your brain is such an incredibly associative device, it learns the association that my bed is the place where I'm always awake And what do we then do? We need to break that association in insomnia. So what we do is we say the twenty minute rule, if you've been in bed for about twenty minutes and it's just not happening for you, D don't worry. Don't listen to idiots like me that doom and gloom and disease and sickness and one bad night is not going to be a problem. It's just not. So just say, look, tonight is not my night. I am not, however, going to lie in bed awake becausecause very quickly my brain starts to learn the association that my bed is the place where I'm wide awake you need to break that association. So go to a different room in dim light, just read a book, listen to a podcast. Whatever it is, and the rule of thumb is the following, only return to bed when you are sleepy And so there's no time limit. And that way you gradually relearn the association that my bed is the place where I always get consistent sleep because otherwise it's the dentist's chair You walk into your bedroom, And you look at your bed and it's your nemesis and you convinced yourself even before you get into bed, I'm not going to sleep because that's the place where I always don't sleep. And by the way If you suffer from the three M awakenings, my first question is, how do you know it's three AM That's your first problem. Looking at the clock does two things It makes you more anxious Yeah And second, because your brain is such an incredibly associate device you start to then decide that three AM is the time when I need to wake up. If you keep looking at the clock, you keep reinforcing that it's three or four, and sleep at three o'clock in the morning is like trying to remember someone's name. The harder you try further you push sleep away, sleep is something that happens to you. It's not something that you make happen And so at that moment, the best advice if you don't want to get out of bed is do any one of the following meditation Just do a guided meditation, you can download apps. Next, if that's not your thing, that's okay. Do box breathing. know you can sort of inhale for five, hold for six, exhale for seven. There's all sorts of different numbers, but you can do breathing exercises. The third if you don't like that is a body scan. So close your eyes, start at the top of your head feele as you know, do I have tension in my forehead? Do I need to relax it? What about my neck? Do I need to move through your body and gradually go down? How my shoulder blades feeling? I just relax down into the bed and gradually down into the chest, into the moveove through and just relax If none of those things feel fun. The next thing you can do is take yourself on a mental walk. There's a great study from my university at the University of Berkeley, California And we didn't do this study. Alison Harvey did it By the way, counting sheep Bad idea makes your sleep worse It turns out. Why is that? Because well, with every kind of little bleating cotton wall ball with a strange look on its face that leaps over the fence that you're counting, you're reinforcing every minute of sleep that you're not getting. and it seems to make matters worse. But what she found was that there was an alternative If you think about a walk that you know in great vivid detail, so for me, it's going to be walking the dog. So I go over to the shelf, I open the door, Is it the red lead or I'm going to go with the blue lead today. So I clip the dog in with my right hand, I open the door with my left hand I take a left down the stairs. I'll look. It's that level of I want you four K detail in terms of granularity And what's common about every method I've just described, meditation, box breathing, sort of a body scan, going on a mental walk, all of these things have in common that you get your mind off itself In that particular example where she asks you to vividly think about a journey that you know, what did she find in the study? What she found is that that increases the speed with which you fall back asleep. Significantly becausecause as I said, it's so you know, her work to me demonstrated that it is so like that name because The moment I stopp trying to remember someone's name What happens You remember? I remember it. And so when you do these types of exercises where you're getting the mind off itself The next thing that you typically remember Is your alarm clock going off in the morning Is this why people listen to very vivid sleep stories and why I listen to serial C documentaries Serial killer documentaries Tue crime documentaries I should say that's a bit more Nice to pallte. I don't know of them. My suspicion is that they may be doing your deep sleep a disservice. Anythingook up for me in the comments. If you listen to true crime to fall asleep, please write it below in the comments section. If you find it subjectively, wonderfully pacifying and call me And there is not death. I aaming Blood and limbs being distributed at high velocity all over the scene, I would say it's great But if it looks like a Quentin Tarantino movie or sounds like one mayaybe harm and foul rather than just in my ears. But yes. so We forget that to the best of my knowledge, the meditation company called CarM. Now I have no affiliation with them. They were doing somewhat well But what they realized is that they wanted people to sort of meditate in the morning. when they looked at their usage statistics, people were meditating in the morning. But then there was a huge swath of usage right before bed People were self medicating their state of insomnia. and then through a stroke of genius, they realized When we were young, We used to love falling asleep to our parents, reading those a story Why is that any different when we become adults? So they created sleep stories. And they went from struggling as a company, I think, to becoming the first or one of the first billion dollar valuation health companies out there. They became a unicorn And now they've got people like know Matthew McConaughe, they've got Harry Styilles, and then occasionally they've got an unfortunate British sleep scientist with a bad voice. But you can listen to these sleep stories and they are wonderfully suporific. Why? Because they get your mind off itself We talked early on about melatonin and there are other supplements which people talk a lot about. One of the ones that's become really popular is magnesium I've heard Ashuaganda and I've heard magnesium a lot.. Is there any efficacy to these are these useful The first thing I would say is that if you're suffering from sleep problems and you're looking to supplements you're stepping over dollars to pick up pennies. Okay What you need to do is think about the fundamentals regularity Whatatch your caffeine intake Make sure you're not drinking too much alcohol getet regular dim down half of the lights, digital detox, any one of those, but especially all of them combined, are going to get you log orders of better sleep. than reaching for the latest supplement bottle of whatever it is. The second thing to say is think about it from a logical standpoint. If there were really some supplement that promises to be the changrillar of all resplendent sleep at night, The drug companies would have been all over it decades ago. To put it in context, it took George Lucas, I think about thirty years to amass something like four billion do in revenue from the Star Wars franchise. It took Ambien twenty two months That's how big a business sleep farmer is. Ambi a sleep pill? Ambiian is a sleep pill. Magnesium, if you dig into it, and I did a deep dive about three years ago because I kept hearing it too, this magnesium, magnesium. The first thing to note is that most forms of magnesium, magnesium oxide or magnesium citrate, most of these forms of magnesium Cross the brain barrier sleep is produced by your brain. So how can something that doesn't get into your brain affect brain process number one. There is one form of magnesium that seems to have some evidence in favor of it. It's called magnesium L three hundred eight. But if you look at the literature, where did this story come from It turns out that about thirty years ago they started looking at people who had disrupted sleep and they would assess their blood work. And what they found is that some of those people were magnesium deficient And when they supplemented them with magnesium and they became magnesium normative, their sleep got better But that's very different than saying, look, you and I were currently magnesium normative And then dosing myself with high volumes of magnesium, am I imagining that that's going to make my sleep better? The analogy would be, let's say I developed this incredible new oxygen saturation machine And you say to me, well, but Matt, my blood oxygen saturation right now, looking at my device tells me it's ninety eight point six percent It doesn't matter how fancy or good my machine is, I'm not going to get you past one hundred percent. You're already at ceiling level. And that's the problem with magnesium supplementation. If you're magnesium normative, all you're doing is creating probably expensive urine at that moment in time Now there may be an indirect benefit of magnesium in that it does seem to relax muscles And when the body is in a state of relaxation, it sends a signal of relaxation back up a branch of nerves called the vagus nerve goes up to the brain and signals to your brain, you're starting to relax down and you get this state of quiesence And that's very helpful for sleep. So magnesium may still have an indirect benefit on sleep through its relaxation kind of policy that it instantiates in the body But overall, magnesium not really moving the needle. if you look at the studies Ashwaganda is different, Ashwaganda and another compound called phosphatidile serine phhosphid aline and Ashwaganda, both of these supplements seem to help do one of two things. They either ratchet down the fight or flight branch of your nervous system And they can also reduce the amount of cortisol. body is releasing That's important because I see a lot of people coming to the sleep center where I'm at and they have what I call the tired but wired phenomenon But they come to me and they say, I am so tired I am so, so tired, but I'm just so wired emotionally and from a nervous perspective that I can't fall asleep. And let's say that you've done let's say, you know an on stage event and it's incredible. You've got that on stage buzz, You come off stage until eleven PM and normally you'd be fast asleep But you know you are so wired, it doesn't matter. You are tired as tired as can be, but you're so wired, you can't fall asleep. That's the flight or flight branch being switched on and youre just can't f as sleep, you need to push it back off Phosphetidalcreine and Ashwaganda will both push you back over into the more quiescent what we call parasympathetic nervous system branch. That's good However, they also will reduce cortisol. and cortisol is a wake promoting hormone. Cortisol is fine. It gets a bad rap. You need to have your cortisol start to spike a few hours before bed And it helps with the waking up process It's wonderful. Every day we have a cortisol spike that starts happening before we wake up. It's one of the things that helps us wake up And then it builds us to this beautiful crescendo mid morning where you should be awakeen not needing caffeine. And it drops before bed. And then it starts to peak in the sort of middle early afternoon and in fact usually peaks at the late morning hours, I should say. And then it will start its awesome sort of downswing And what you see is that right before you go to bed Portisol should hit its lowest point, what we call its Nada, its lowest trough What's interesting, by the way, just as an aside, is that Insomnia, we can classify usually as at least one of two different types. There's actually multiple, but let's just say there are of those multiple, there are two types One is called sleep onset insomnia. I can't fall asleep. The other is sleep maintenance insomnia. I can't stay asleep when they've looked at people's cortisol On a thirty minute by thirty minute basis on the twenty four hour clock face, we go through just what we described. Just before we wake up, we get this rising cortisol. It peaks late morning and then it drops down and right before bed