Motherhood Challenges and Irrational Fears

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Which one of your kids is most likely to humble you in public All of them, but mostly I would say Lux. Lux is my third son. he's absolutely unhinged. so What's the pettiest thing you've ever had to block someone for? Pettiest thing, Ooh. someone said that they never had beef with anyone It' always ugly girls and I had beef with that person, so she was calling me ugly, so I blocked her. So you're calling me ugly. Yeah. Be. And you're not. She was just jealous. Well what's the most unhinged assumption people still make about you from teen momom days They think that I am a serial cheater, that I've cheated on everyone that I've ever been with, which is completely false Do you want to clear the air? Yeah. I mean, I cheated on my boyfriend when I was nineteen Okay. I feel like that's a pass. Yeah. like I was a teenage. and then the way that it played out on Ten Mom was I had to retell him on camera, even though we had already talked about it in real life, but they weren't there for it. And so people have assumed that I have cheated on every single partner I've been with since and I literally haven't. J because of nineteen. I don't know what, I don't know where the rumor came. That's the only thing I can think of. Yeah. but I literally live in that You've been loyal. Yeah. Okay. so they just Yeah, move on. Move on. Yeah. Like if I'm with somebody and then we break up and I date somebody else, that is not cheating.. And then we happen to get back together That was just a toxic relationship, but I didn't cheat on you. Do you know what I'm saying? And so that's frustrating for me. Definitely. Have you ever read a comment about yourself that made you laugh out loud instead of getting mad? Yeah, actually, my best one of my best friends that I do Karma in chaos with, they said that we were in a secret relationship. Oh, we made out one time. We made out one time. Honestly, I feel like that is not normalized enough. I feel like a lot of best friends makeake out Make out. Yeah Maybe that's a hot take, but in my experience, like I've seen it that. Maybe not guys, but no gl. Yeah, what where was it? Oh, literally on summerhouse. Yeah, no I don't think guys do it as much. They might just But I honestly, I think they like they dabble. Yeah, they dabble. You know, like when you're like so close with your boys, like How you not? Don't talk to D't talk to your homebys about how you can't stand your girlfriend and you'd rather hang out with your guy friends. You were probably making out with him. No, literally I was starting rumors on. I mean, come on When I see my friends out and they're drunk, they'll like kiss each other on the cheek. Yeah So they're taking it a little bit further than that. They just don't let us see it. one hundred percent. what is your biggest mom fail moment that you can actually laugh about now I can't really think of anything My kids humble me every day. so like I could lookook up and not know that I messed up. Do you know what I mean? Like I could really mess up and I have no idea. What's the most dramatic group chat you're currently in? The one with my children. The most dramatic group chat is the one with my children. They humble me every single day. My son is eight years old and he felt my boyfriends And so he got five o'clock shadow. And my son said, This feels like your legs. What? It was like prickly? Yes. So you're saying I'm a cave man, that my legs are hairy. You're eight years old. You don't get Oh, that it feels like your legs. bald head feels like legs. Oh my God, I think about his leg. No, and I'm like, please S. giveive your mom some slack. your mom a break. What is something people think is glamorous about your life that is actually exhausting? The entire thing. The entire life. my entire life is an SHIT show, like genuinely and truly. What's your most irrational fear as a mom of seven? So I have a pool at home. I've always had a pool since I've had kids and I sat straight up. Have you ever woken up the middle of the night and you're like, whereere's my bir certificate? Yeah. I did that about the pool gate I sat straight up and I said, it's the pool g closed as if my kids are out at midnight trying to go swimming. No, they're not. And I also have an alarm on my door, but irrational fear is like It's rational on a normal day, but sitting up straight in the middle of the night, probably irrational. Yeah. Do you what I mean? the door should be thinking about these moments the what if? Yeah, for sure. I know, that's rough. Very normal though and just shows how you are on top of everything. What's the most chaotic morning you had recently with all the kids U Usually my kids beat each other up in the morning and a lot of times it's in the backseat of my vehicle or Ike's vehicle and so that is chaotic every day. Yeah. That's. As you're driving, like mother's driving stoping. And if I yell or if I look back then Im distracted, so I just have to ignore it, but I'm like, they could be giving each other a black eye and then they get to school and they think I did it. Do you know what I mean? Like I can't I boys are wild U What's one thing you absolutely refuse to argue about online anymore Anything I'm not arguing in the comments. I will literally say your mom I'm twelve years old and I will literally comment and say, your mom, because I'm not doing this with you. You need to get a grip. The amount of energy that people put into hate on the internet, you could be doing something so positive or creating your own content. You don't have to hate me for my content. just keep scrolling. Just keep scrolling. You don't have to say anything or you can make your own. And I mean, listen, you're clearly doing a good job so I mean, I don't know, my views are low lately. Everyone Everyone's views are low lately. TikTok is really messing me up right now. No Eone's views are Okay fair. It's you know, it was so funny. My friend my friend was like, my views are so low and you know, that heel chat that heels trend that everyone's doing showing their favorite heel right now No, what is this tr? I don't wear heels. It's basically like walking into the camera like wearing heels, but just like your feet are shown. Okay. So it's like each step is like a different pair of shoes. Oh So people are showing like really cool heels that they have whether it's like these Gucci or YSL or you know, really like cool heels that they have And my friend was like my views We were're going down so much and all I needed to do was he my feet in the video. I did fe good. eightighty five dollars a pop for feet picks. I mean, just Squish some smashed potatoes between your toes. She could have put that video on Feetfinder. She could what I mean? She her.. She has nice feet too. What is your most toxic trareat when you're overwhelmed Everything has to be cleaned off the counter If I'm in a bad mood or you see me start to tweak out, clean the counter. Every off the counter right now. because somehow our counter in the kitchen has become the drop zone. so everything is on the counter and I cannot handle that. So immediately, clean the counter What's the most, I can't believe this is my life moment you had recently It could be a good thing. it could be a bad. I got to narrate somebody else's audio. like they wrote a novel and I got to narrate it for Audible. Oh, that's super cool. It was my first time, so it was challenging for me, but I'm like, okay, if this gets to be like I get to do these regularly, like this is my life, I get to read books and get paid for it. L this is amazing. So that was for me I can't believe this is my life. What's something you secretly judge other parents for? You hate the iPad. I hate the iPad. I understand it to a degree, but you feel like you're just distracting their brain. I think I'm gonna go I don't. I don't like it either though. I can't disagree with you. I feel like the screen time and that much screen time to just shut your kid up. It feels like and there's kids that are neurod divergent and I understand that.. I also understand I need to make dinner Here's an iPad. I understand that