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Hey, it's Monday, june twenty ninth, and you're listening to a repeat episode of Behind the Table . This one's from when I sat down with Joy Behar right after our interview with her new best friend, Vice President JD Vance. Enjoy, and we'll see you back on Behind the Table Monday, july sixth Bonjour, I am here with Joy Behard, back from Paris, back from London. How are you? Madame Janowitz. Oh my dad were calling me there. Oh, really? Yeah. Do you get recognized in Europe? No, it was my pleasure. No brazier , no makeup , hair , you know, natural, that the way I look natural. Yes. All right. I want to hear all about your trip to Europe. And let me tell you we did, miss you for sure. But first, I think we have to talk about the show. We just finished . Of course, it was the most interesting show with JD. It was JD. You're on a first initials basis with him . So JD Vance was our guest on the entire show today . And how do you feel like it went ? Well , I think that we could , you know, we were actually kind to him, I think. I thought he was, I have to say very genial . He came on, I think he came on in good faith. You know, we had that conversation with some of the hosts before and we've talked about this . Often people come here looking to disrupt . Here's my theory about JD Vance . That running he' fors president. Totally running for president. But he became Trump's boy , Vice President, you know, like all of them are, not just him . I mean, look at Lindsey Graham. They all have been the body snatch ers got to them. Right. They were much more open minded. They did not have a cruel streak. You know, he wrote a book called Hillbelly Elegy, where he talked about how poor they were, and he was actually a different kind of person. And I said to him during the break, why did you call him America's Hitler? He didn't have time to answer. And I wanted to ask him on the air, but we just ran out of time. So time and let me finish my theory. Yes. So my point is that I think if he were president, he would go back to being more a kind of person that Trump is the one who's who's not kind. Okay, so is this an endorsement of JD Vanceman? No, I'm going to know because I'm not voting for him anyway, especially if he runs against one of the good Democrats that we have out there. Right. I've never voted for Republican. However in my life? How did he seem compared to how you expected him to be, I guess, is the question. I expected him to not have a sense of humor, and he did have one . I started back wentstage and started doing the tumulting with him. Yes. You always you popped in backstage. Up and disarmed him immediately. Here's what I liked. He came on willing to face there were no rules on this interview. We were able to ask whatever we wanted. We were asked him. And we asked tough questions. He answered. He definitely deflected plenty of them. Right. But at the same time, he was willing to sit with you guys and have this conversation with sell a book and he wants to run for president. Let's be real. Yeah , I think for sure. What I really like about it is I think now the bar is set. And I think if you're running for president, you got to come on the view like JD Vance did. They all will. They have to stop here. They want the female vote. Yeah, I'd love to hear them even if they're most of our audience is not. I'd love to have Marc Rubio on. I'd love to have put them on with Anna Navarro. That'll be interesting to watch. Sure. Talk about a cage match . It wouldn't be. It would be a respectful display and a nice discussion of ideas. But it is like, you know, it's always exciting when someone who's in office is here because of the secret service and everything like that. I mean, does that bother you to have the Secret Service sol overo you? No. I didn't even notice them. No, really? Yeah, we just had to come in the building on a different entrance. That's why I was setting you up for your joke and you lost an entire Oh it's the most action I've gotten. Oh the pat down. Yeah , yeah, what happened to that this year? You didn't get patted down? No , and I was waiting for it. Oh, I'm sorry to disappoint you . Bring on another, you know, important guy so I'll see what we can do. Get the pat down. I got wanded. All right . So was there any question that you asked that the answer was different than you thought that you were? You know, I think this was the first time he basically admitted that these conversations took place in the situation room at the New York Times reported. We hadn't really had that confirmation before. So that was really interesting. On the Epstein stuff, that was really powerful. I loved Sarah's question talking about how he reconciles his faith and what some of the tone of the administration and some of the things that are happening in the administration What was your takeaway? My question that I didn't get to ask , my husband sent me a couple of questions during a break. And one of them was booked for a month and a half. One of them was why is the budget for Ice bigger than the budget for the FBI? I thought that was a very good question . And he kind of, I mean, he's talking about worrying about crime. Well, the people who are here are committing crimes. Why are you worried so much about immigration? Worry about what we have here. Well, crime is one of the things that I think got them elected. I think tough on crime, borders, things like that. Scapegoating them. Scapegoating craces every autocrat, including Donald Trump and you know, all the rest of them all over the world , they find somebody to hate. They tap into that part of your brain that wants to believe that. Well, the problem with this always is we don't have enough time to get all the questions. I've got a list er. If he'll come back, I'd be happy to have him. He'll come back. You think so? He wants to run for president. Believe me, he'll be back. All right, so I won't give away any of the questions we had. But I know you were disappointed to not get to ask about the meeting the dogs and eating the cats. That was something. I did. I mean, he apologized for saying that stupid remark about the cat ladies. Yes. And I said to him, why didn't you apologize for that? I said these off the air. Yeah. But because these other cow kid owns let me get a word in Edgewash. I know, I know. It's the curse of the view. Whatever. You know, some questions. Have them on again. All right, we'll bring him back. We'll have him co host. Get Trump on. By day Fridays with JD Vance. Let's see what he's got when he's to sit there and talk about Handers. Yeah, I think well, listen, he talked about his giant head for a while. I enjoyed that . All right, and then and he sat down with a joke. I thought it was pretty good that his press team told him that this was a table of Maga Republicans. Yeah, that was funny. All right, let's get into your and then apparently I'm getting a note here . You told him during the break that he should run for president because he has a good vibe . I think that even though for a Republican, mind you. I'm not a Republican. Yes. You're not turning. I think possibly I voted for Michael Bloomberg once for Mayor who was a singer. Like Bloomberg. Supposedly he was a Republican . I don't mind a Republican on the city level because it needs a little discipline . But on the national level, I want somebody with a good heart , and those are more in the Democratic Party in my opinion. They care about the poor, they help people. The Republican Party is much more about saving tax es for rich people. So I'm not a Republican. One thing he said backstage, and I think he said it a couple times today was that he was more nervous coming on the view than he was for the vice presidential debate against Waltz. Well, he should be because we're, you know, the girls, the other girls having many receipts. Yes. Sunny, she's got all the receipts, you know? Yes. And Sarah likes to, you know, bring in the kids, which is always like a low blow and they get scared of that . But sincere, I thought she did a good job of that. Truthfully, as I said to you in the beginning of this conversation, I don't think that he's a bad guy . So if he runs against Gavin Newsom, that will be an interesting debate to see those two because they're both intelligent. You know, and also he says things like this guy, Joe advance something about how he called him America's Hitler because the media, he blamed it on the media that they were just misrepresenting Trump. Don't give me that. See that, that's whatever I draw the line on the guy. Right. Don't blame me for the fact that you went to Yale Law School. You can't read which you can't watch something and discern what's what's going on . He definitely is good at spinning. And the thing that the things that he said that seemed to bother the audience because I heard them murmuring were versions of, well, that's not what he said when people have seen tape of it. And I think that's the thing exactly. And that was George Warwell. Don't believe your eyes, just believe what they tell you. Yeah. And then the other the other part of it that people anytime he referenced Biden as a result of the groaning. Yeah, the groaning fight really, I had to almost jump out of my seat when he did that. Please, that ship has sailed, okay? Stop bringing it up and Trump does it constantly, bringing up Biden and Obama . Yeah, yeah. The blame game. Do you think Trump was watching the interview today? Please don't Trump? I do. I think so. Yeah. And how do you think he thinks he did? Well, you know, the thing about Trump is he gets jealous . So if he thinks that we liked Vance more than we like him, he's gonna be upset . He's jealous of Obama. Oh my god, you can see it every time he mentions Obama . Well, he should be. I'm a little jealous of Obama too. Well, who isn't? Yeah, sure. Today, I want to tell you about our friends at Cozy Earth. Can you remember the best night of sleep you've ever had? For me, oh, it was last summer and the Amalfi Coast. It was unbelievable. Ocean breeze and just the best sleep I've ever had. Well, good news. You can give yourself an amazing night of sleep every night by upgrading your bedding to Cozy Earth. 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And I said, you know, because I break the fourth wall because I can do that. I said, Oh, you know Staten Island? And they were like, yeah, kind of . I said, Then I said, this is what I pulled out of my Braz ier . It's like Grimsby. Huge laugh. I have no idea what grimby. You don't have to know. All right, there you go. They know . Somebody beforehand, I said to them, What's the equivalent here? Gave me that little note killed. Killed. Amazing. Yeah. Amazing. we had a British actress doing a southern accent. I said you like Vivian Lee in Scarlet O'Hara. Yeah . And she also did a British version of an American. You know, Sherry Shepherd gave me one of her she gave me an interview about her one of her exes. Oh, really? Yeah. And she I'm saying this because she told me she doesn't tell people because I've done this for a while and we've kept it secret. No, no, no the others are secret notes. Okay, so she doesn't care. All right, so we're breaking the news here. Okay, so a British girl did the Sherry Shepherd interview. Oh, and how did you do? How'd you do She was great this girl. So all these stories for those who don't know. And if you listen to this podcast, I can't imagine you don't know, but these are all start in true life stories of women telling about their first ex husband. That's right. And one of these stories we're finding out for the first time is based on Sherry Shepherd's true life story. Yeah. Some things changed, I'm sure. Well, I'm the writer. So I interview these people. Interview somebody. They don't give you a whole monologue. Yes. You have to. And then I also made it funnier than you do, yes. And you know, things like that. But they are true all true stories. One of the highlights you said was the woman who came to London from Lebanon. Can you believe that? Just because she had to see the show. She came over she went to Steve who was, you know, came with me and she's like she came all the way he had to bring her over. He said, You have to talk to this woman. I took a picture with her. She's brought it back to Lebanon . And she came all the way from Leban on to see me in the show. That's great. Because she either hears me on this on your podcast. Yeah, so you did hear from some Bry Guys, I guess. I heard from Bry Guys and Joy Boys. That's amazing. Yeah, they happening to be in London.. Some of them They also see it on YouTube. Yeah. They see the show. We need a signal for like when someone's a bra guy or a joy boy, when they see you in the wild to give you like a little signal, I don't know what it should be. Like, you know, well a, lot of gay boys were there and those are the joy boys. Okay. Well, no , yeah, I think that's great. Thank God they were there too. You know, they're my best audience. Yeah . They know everything. They know all the references, they laugh, they have a good time. Maybe they can like, you know , like that. Mbeay that's a sign that you're a bray or that boy. You saw it on the podcast. Enough of you. All right, it's a signal. They can just tag their ear. Carol Burnett's name. So what we can steal it from her. Yeah. I don't know. She's still alive . All right, so one thing you said today and you got a little pushback at the table about. Oh yeah, you did not enjoy the food in Paris. Yeah. I'm kind of with you on that. I don't like French food either. No, but I like French food. Okay, I just don't have a sophisticated palate, but you don't know. Maybe it was the neighborhood I was living in because I went to a lot of different cafes and I just didn't couldn't get into it. And I said, please give me some Italian food. So we talked about this. You were writing in different French cafes that live up to the dream of was? Well, it so much fun. First of all, I went with people that I know. Right. One of the people in the class has written fifty two children's books. That's insane. fifty two. And you've written none. I've written two children's books. No, I didn't know that. You've written two . She took Kakapoo myself. Oh, yes, that's right. Of course dog and the part two. All right . I think we should write a children's book about a little kid that gets a podcast. What do you think? Oh God The food , I went to a very one expensive restaurant because a certain friend of mine who has a lot of a lot of money invited us to go Vazzy? Yeah , to this particular place. All of HBO was there.. Yeah even there it wasn't that good. Like one place the duck was practically quacking . It was still alive. You don't want that? No, no. I sent it back . And the chicken is too much sauce . But it's the funny thing about it is and I don't really mean to dissip it because to me, Paris is the most beautiful city. It's called and I'm Italian and Italy is beautiful, but Paris, like I said today , even the Nazis would not bomb Paris because even those pigs, those Nazis knew how beautiful Paris was. Yes. Well, of course they wanted to overtake it and live there . But they didn't want to knock it down. I mean, the boulevards, the trees along the boulevard absolutely gorgeous. Architecture, you will not see that anywhere else. The ironwork . And yet there is so much graffiti in that city. It is everywhere . And it offended my sensibility. I felt. It's like taking a beautiful statue and putting paint on it. Speaking of beauty, you mentioned also the attractive men . Oh my God, there were so many gorgeous French men there . Yeah. I took pictures of all them. I was a shameless flirt. I was like Mrs. Robinson . Oh, Pierre, can I take your picture? And they would be okay, Madame. Oh there you go. Oh yeah . And took because I thought I'd bring it back to Todd and different gay boys. How did the men compare London versus Paris? There were some good looking men in London. The British men I like the way that I know you do that's your type. I like that type. They're tall, skinny, they're my type. The French men were like Italian guys. Yeah. Beautiful women in Paris, I remember, but also when I went to Italy to Capri, I don't think I've ever seen more beautiful women than I didn't notice any beautiful women. Not one. No. I was only looking at the men's. Of course. No, you know, to each to their own. You also were with John McNroe, I found out. I was. Why were you with him? Was that this dinner this particular dinner ? Because they were there for the French open. You should have had him return your stuff. He can do that. Yeah. He yells, he returns things. He's great. I know, but he was very sweet. Yeah . And his brother Patrick McNroe was seated across me and we're pals now. We write to him. That's great. Yeah, I like him. It's great. Did you met John before or no? No, I don't think I've ever met him. Yeah. Although he acted like he had met me. You know, this probably been on the show. I'm so bad. I told you the Steven Spielberg story . Yes, twice now. I mean twice on this podcast, but it's okay . No, I mean, that's the thing. I mean, honest, honest to God, I could not tell you who was on the show last Friday. You know, I can't remember things when I'm in them. Yes. But if I'm watching, I remember. Right. I remember every movie or television show I saw in the nineteen eighties, but I can't remember anything about this show from last week. Right. Because you were immersed. Yes. Drowning was there. Christie Everett was there? That's a good one . Yeah. All right. So tennis crowd. All right. And did you come back with charged, ready to dive back into the view? Well, I started to miss all my friends here. There we go. That's what I was. No I, did. Like I was yesterday, I was thinking good, I'm gonna go back to work tomorrow. I went I mean, I always joke about this, but you're never more engaged in the show than when you're not here, I found you're very interested. You know, we every night for those who don't know we send these things around these stories about what we should talk about the next day and the host all chime in or don't chime in. Joy doesn't chime in weeks at a time. First day of vacation, you write. You should talk about this, this and this. What? You're not even here . I'm a natural producer. You are. I can't disagree. But you know, but the show I was looking forward to this show because I like a show where you have somebody important on. Yeah, like JD Vance. You know, I may not agree with him. Here's the thing I was saying to somebody about this whole JD Vance thing. And also if you had Donald Trump on here , I don't hate people with my heart . I don't. That's why I'm nice to these people that would disagree. I disagree with them vehemently. Yes. I vehemently disagree with what they're doing in this administration. But when I meet them face to face , why are they just another human being ? This is why it's funny. I always laugh because there's an idea out there that you guys are like shills and that like you're being speaking programmed things . You all just feel what you feel and that's why it's so hard to manage everything . I would not try but I told you what Bill Getty used to say that he must have been a wife abuser in another life because he's getting abused here . God knows what my sins are, but I'm sure there were many in their former life. I told you you have a different way of doing it. Yours is an amiable way of doing it. Yes. You know, like I have a way of disarming these politicians. Yes. You have a way of doing a similar thing. I try. I try. And it works for you and it works for me. So don't ever change. Well, the key for me changing dramatic please me the trick for me is just to be completely transparent at all times. That's well, you can't help it. No, that's who I am. You can't. I am who I am. This episode is brought to you by Progressive Insurance. 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All right , you get very angry when you're hungry. All right, there's a new trend online that has women saying it's helping them point out glaring red flags on dating sites. Oh, really? Yeah. Like what? Well, a woman said she started asking men their favorite animal and why. It seemed to really show who these men were when they answered it. Like saying dogs because they're loyal, sloths because they sleep all day, pandas because they're cute and stupid . What would you compare yourself to? And what animal I would compare myself to ? Well, I'm not a dog. No , because I don't think so because I'm not one of those. No. And I'm not exactly a cat because I'm more gregarious than a cat. Yes. And extroverted. What else do they say? Well, they say like a panda. You're definitely not a panda. What's a panda like? Like cute and stupid. Cute and stupid No . What kind of this is your cute to say, well, you're half right. You're just cute. Yes, of course. Sorry, I was late on that. Well, you tell me what kind of animal I would be. What kind of animal would you be? Well, you definitely can you can definitely both be cuddly and also slash at some point. Oh, so like a lion. Maybe Lioness. Yeah, a lioness is a lioness who protects her cuddly. I think that's right , but also pursues. Yeah. I think it also will scratch your eyes out if you come near her . Exactly. Yeah. Exactly. I think that's good. All right, so what is a cat? You're a cat. Yeah. I like to think of myself I'm more of like a fox, you know, I'm like a fox cutting and slaughtering. You're not a fox, Marion. No. You just said that you're transparent. How could you be a fox? And you're not a wolf, thank goodness. So what the hell am I my sheep? I think you're more like a panda. I'm a panda c ute and stupid. Yeah, you know what? I'll take the compliment. I'll take the cute. You know, you know, what you're doing is a game that we used to play all the time . What if you were a huh, what would you be? And you have to, like, let's say, I don't know if you have time for this . Let's say you pick. I got all the time in the world. Let's pick a celebrity. Like the game celebrity you're talking about. Think of a celebrity. Okay, I got one. Okay . If that person were an animal, what animal would is it a female or male? A female. What would she be? A horse. She would be a horse. Okay, if she was a flower, what would she be? An orchid . Oh , interesting . Delicate , yet horsey . Strong . If she were an automobile Corvette. A corvette . If she were a language , I think possibly French . Possibly French. Yes. It's Southern American, isn't it? Isn't it? Oh, so well, you don't want to give it away too much. But anyway, we could go on with this for hours. That's the game. Okay. And who is the person? Julia Roberts. Julia Roberts . She's a corvette, a horse, and an orchid. She's a beautiful horse. All right, so all right, moving on from that, but I enjoyed part of that. We could play it some other time. Yeah, I like that. All right, there's a story there's a new story about dreams that I wanted your take on. A new survey found that one in four Americans says a dream or a nightmare led them to making a change in their life, like quitting a job or breaking up with somebody. Have you ever had to make a life decision based on a dream or a nightmare? No, no. If you don't believe in the prophetic nature or insights found in your dreams? Yes. I'm a Freudian psychology major is person. Yes . And when I was in out therapy, I would be lying on the couch. I did it like that. And we had re associating and telling about a dream and she would come up with stuff. What was the last nightmare you remember? You know, I don't remember them anymore. I don't either. I was going through a bunch of them and I can't remember details anymore. Yeah, but just things that felt so incredibly real that they were still real for five minutes after I woke up. Really? Yeah, like it's really intense. So what was your last nightmare? I'm trying to think something with my wife was mad at me for something. I can't remember the details. I knew that this was going back to Heather. It's always going back to Heather. I did something bad, not like cheated or something, but I can't remember exactly what it was. You better not. I would never. First of all, transparency is your middle name. Exactly . I'm an open book . But whatever it was, like it was I did something wrong and I was wrong. And she was really mad. And then like I woke up, brushed my teeth and kept thinking like man,, how do I make this right with Heather? And then you actually believed you . I believed I did something for like five minutes. And I'm like, wait a minute, that never happened and I would never have done that. Yeah, it was one of those things. Strange. Did you ever get a song in your head? Yeah. I get songs in my head constantly . And I used to bring that to therapy also . And she'd ask me like, why that song? There always is a reason. Give me an example of a song I don't know the reason for this though, but gloria I kept hearing gloria Gloria It was all about you hanging out with Anna Varro talking about Gloria Estefan all the time. I could have been. No, but that song is about delusion. Yeah, about a delusional woman, right? Yeah, I think so. If everybody wants you, why isn't everybody calling ? Yeah. Did you really don't that was one? That's interest ing. And then Steve and I wrote a song about George Bush one time called Thanks for the Enemies instead of Thanks for the Res. Yeah . And so that comes into my head. Bob Hope kinda, yeah. Yeah, like that. Yeah, that's pretty cool because after he went into Iraq , we had enemies all over the world. So we wrote a song and thanks for the enemies. I like it. Yeah, I like it. But so that goes in my head . But you have to think, why are you, why that song? It could be that you just heard it in a commercial. Because my kids are in the theater, they're just singing all the time. They're singing all the time all the time. Like it is, it is, but it's always it's always like, you know, my daughter was in Sweeney Todd. I don't need to hear, you know, that swing your razor wide, sweetie over and over again. That was too much. Saint the one the song that you know I love. I can't use it on the podcast. I will do it. Where are you tonight ? Are you sitting home? Or are you out? Or are you out having ? That is a song that somebody you know sings. Yes, thinking that he's so cool. Yes. No, he thinks he's Sinatra reborn . All right. Someone wrote into an advice column saying that her boyfriend won't propose to her until she's shown that she's better with money. This is interesting to me. She thinks this is un fair because although she doesn't earn save or invest as much as him, she can support herself and has never asked him for financial help. What do you think about that? Is the boyfriend right to be cautious? How old are they? It doesn't say. Yeah . Well, I do think that it's definitely an of the reasons people get divorced over money. You know? Yeah, for sure. Infidelity, probably in laws, maybe . But that's one of the big reasons. So I think it's a good idea. It's a good idea. And I think , you know, I mean, it's funny because again, I got married when I had no money and either did my wife . And it's simpler in a lot of ways when you do that because you don't really think things through. But that was my first marriage too. Yeah. But you know, tastes also change as you get older and things like that. Heather was very frugal when we got married, not so much now. Yeah. But money gives you independence and women should have their own money. Yes. You know, like my husband and I with the first one, my first ex husband , it was his call because first of all, he was a man. It was the sixties. Right . And he gets a job to go to Rhode Island, right? Teaching. Yeah. He's a professor . And like I didn't want to go , but besides the norms that were happening at the time, I also didn't have necessarily a way to be independently wealthy. I needed two salaries. Did you feel like you were under his thumb because you were n't under his thumb? I was under society's thumb. Right . And so I went. But I think like maybe if you have your own money, you might say, well, you know what, I'll see you on weekends. That's interesting. I don't like that though. I don't like because you're being slept around, you know, may not want to leave where you're living. You're doing great where you are and now you have to go somewhere. It's not Now women do that to men. They do. No, they do for sure. Yeah, I definitely having daughters, it's important to me that they 're going to inherit a whole other world. Good and bad. Yeah, good and bad for sure . All right, on that note, that's it. Yeah, I feel like it's a downer to get out on what are we doing? Okay, well, let's trash somebody. Yeah, let's trash somebody. Put you got . You know what? Let's do our game. , but think of one of the panelists. Let's see if you can guess which one it is. Okay, so you're looking . I'll do it. All right. Okay, I'm thinking of okay, I got her. Okay . What kind of animal does she resemble? Or is she? I think I think a deer. A deer. And what kind I'm already down to two. What kind of flower ? Um , oh my goodness. More like pansies like those. Pansies. What kind of car? What kind of a car would she be? A chevrolet ? Alyssa Faragriffin? Yes, yes. Good for you. Good for you. I had it at a deer. You had it at the what? At the deer. The deer. Yeah, that's a good animal. That was a good animal for her. Yeah. Let's do another one. All right. This could be how we end every part. You do one. All right . I'll do one. You can only do it for five of us. Okay, I got it. All right . Okay, not Alyssa. No, not Alyssa. All right . A motion picture. A motion picture. It'll give it away. All right, a style of song, a musical style. It'll give it away. Well, you have to know it's Anna, and everything's Latino. So I can't. Oh, that's why I didn't pick her. I didn't do it. I didn't pick her because I knew you'd get her to do it. All right, I'll do one. Do one more. Okay There are only three left. All right, that's fine. You can do any part any host in view history. Oh, any host in view history. Oh , wow. Yeah, okay, I got one. All right , give me an animal. She could be a pit bull . That doesn't narrow it down every host in view history. Okay. All right, give me a movie. A movie . I can move on. I can't think of one too A song? A song . Gloria , gloria A delusional pit bull. That's what we have so far. She's not delusional, though, that's not right. These are hard. Yeah. That's why you can't do it on the television because you have too long. You tough to think a flower, let's say a flower. I would say she is a sunflower And a car . What kind of a car? An SUV maybe a lexis . So I'm feeling Meredith, but I feel like that's not a pit bull no star. No. No You said anybody, right? Yeah, I said anybody . Hasselbeck? No . Rosie O'Donnell. Rosie O'Donnell in a in an SUV, okay? Yeah, all right. What movie though are we'd be she? I can't think 's in a lot of it. I feel like a musical for her. It would be a musical musical comedy. Yeah, yeah, that would have been good. She's in it's not what they've done since nothing they're in. It's not what they're in. No, it's representative of them.