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We gather here tonight to bring women back to their rightful place. The Testament's a new Hulu original series from the executive producers of the Handmaid's Tale. It's easier to accept a story than believe that the people around you are monsters. The battle isn't over. There comes a time when you have to take action when you have to choose your own destiny ? Watch the new Hulu original series The Testaments Streaming on Hulu and Hulu on Disney plus for Bundle Subscribers Terms Apply. Lovely Taylor Swift to invite you to her wedding. I can say nothing . That means it's happening. I've signed so many NDAs. I don't want to know anything about this. You don't yet, I do need to know more. Oh, Graham you went there.. You said it I know it I didn't think you would go there . Greetings and welcome one and all to Wanging On . I'm told it's a podcast and it's presented. I know this by me, Graham Norden and look, Maria McCurlin Howard . How are you my dear? I've got a cough sweet in at the moment. Oh yes. A sort of authenticity because I have a cough. I have a Vincent Van Cough . Well done you. Are you okay? Is it gone to your chest? Oh, it has, isn't it? I did that on purpose too . Yeah. Touch the graveyard in that. There's a lot of flu bugs going around this year . Oh, there are, there are any move for a flu bud . Do you get the flu jab? I do. Do you? I don't. Oh. I know it's stupid of me because I'm in my sixties and you know, anything could kill me, but for some reason I think I could still survive the flu. I don't know why I think. I know but it can go to pneumonia. I get the pneumonia jab too. I didn't know there was a pneumonia job. Oh, okay. Okay . Well, why get the job? I get the living till ninety jab as well. Great . But just like that, not being able to do anything, wouldn't it be awful? Can you unplug me if that ever happens? Don't you worry ? I don't need to be asked twice . So this is the worst bit of the winter that we're up to now, isn't it? It just feels like it's been going on forever . No, no, I think there's worse to come. Is your glass half empty? No, no. I'm old. I've lived through this before. There's things like you start to get the odd warm day or you'll see a snow drop and then you'll think, Oh look, it's all we're nearly out of it. And then there'll be snow or something awful , your boiler breaks, you know, there's more to come. You're not really safe till the end of April, I'd say. I know but we can see light at the end of the proverbial tunnel. Not enough light. Not enough light . I might take this out now. Okay. Isn't that great? That's cute. Pop it there. That was a very quick cure. Well, not really, but I found it was getting in my way. Oh no . Yeah . And speaking , you never see a newsreader with a coffee sweet in, do you? No, you don't. So I just wanted to try why that was, and I found out. This will be fascinating for the disclosures. Now I'm going to cough. Now Graham , yes, you are nearly at the end of this session of chato. Oh, we've got a few more weeks. End of Feb is when we check out. Does it feel like you need a break now? No, it doesn't. You know what's so good? Because I used to do a thing where we'd end up February and then we'd have a few weeks off and then we'd come back for eight weeks in April Maine. And about five, six years ago , I got rid of that bit and now it's lovely. So we're on for about half the year, off for about half the year. And it means that by the end of February, I'm still really enjoying it, I'm not bored by it and then I kind of miss it and I really look forward to coming back at the end of September. Sometimes I think to myself when not when I see you doing it, but when you've done it for such a long time and you haven't done it for a long time, you trained as an actor. Do you feel you have to rely on your acting skills more and more? To find people's stories fascinating or kind of talk to them about their book, film, play? Here's the odd thing. Yes, I do kind of favor , but what I can't make happen is that I can't make an audience find that story funny. I can't make an audience find that story interesting. So I can jolly it along , but if a guest is boring, they're boring , you know, or if they're what they're saying isn't funny or interesting , I can't make it funny and interesting . So yeah, I probably do put a slightly more interested face on sometimes, but the audience aren't doing that. Do you have to sort of no, you stitch it together really, I think, before you do the show so that each story kind of leads into the next thing. I mean, it always feels so seamless. That's what I quite like. Of course, we have to give credit to your editor, whose name I forgot. Yoon. Oh, well, Yoon's a series producer and then a guy called Perry does the actual editor because that is really very good. Seamless. Yes. No, it is really good. So this season , what would you have you had a favorite thing this season? Do you know what the biggest surprise to me all season? Yeah you're still alive? It was what I'm still alive , but also Kim Kardashian . Oh , I had a very different impression of her before I met her. Which was just that she was a reality person who was famous for no good reason and you know and now your impression is what? That she is very driven, very ambitious and kind of a talent for that, a talent for building a brand. And I mean, her skims brand with , you know, holding with girdles. They used to be called, I believe , is like worth billions. Yeah, well, I think when she was on the show it was worth about four billion and by the time she left the show it was worth about five billion. I mean, it goes up all the time. Goodness. Yeah, I'm mad. People need a lot of holding in . They do, but even things like she did that show Paul's Fair on Hulu. That's why she was on with Sarah Paulson. And there was no viewing link. I couldn't see the show, which is always a bit of a that's odd.. Tells you something Yeah. Anyway, then it did arrive. It got the worst. You remember, it got terrible reviews. Terrible reviews also were commissioned. Well, because it's the biggest show Hulu've ever had . People can't get enough of it. What does that tell us that it doesn't matter about the content? Well, well, what it tells us is that actually those critics were looking for something that the people who liked that show weren't looking for. Yeah Story, plot, good acting. I know, it's got lots of plot . It may not have so much good acting. But it's got Sarah Paulson and Glen Closen. Yeah, you know, they're really good. What do you think about Kim Kardashian? And I can't really ask you that, can I as an actress? Well, you can ask me. I mean, don't tell me. Well, I don't know. back on your show I haven't watched it. Oh, well done. Very good. Yeah, yeah, they're excellent answer. Excellent answer. You're a check show host. What about my favorite Taylor Swift? Lovely Taylor Swift who invited you to her wedding. I can say nothing . That means it's happening. I've signed so many NDAs. Have you signed one of those things where she can't take your money? What's that called? An NDA? No No . When, you know, if you marry somebody in the world, prenup. Prenup, have you signed a prenup? Because you're marrying her, aren't you? That's right, yes. Travis, Travis has kind of stepped. That's just a front. No. Travis is a front for you. Then on the day surprise . That is very, very exciting and I'm very much looking forward to coming with you. Over my husband's dead body. I know . That's the funniest thing. That is the funniest thing. So how many more years will you truck on with your chat choice? Well, we signed a thing saying three more. Wow. Yeah, it'd be ninety by then. I know. You're doing well though. Ah, grace. Sure, no, it's all that fit work you do have to get rid of those steps onto the stage. Just a little ramp a low ramp to get me up there and I have those shoes with a sink with a wheel in the heel . I thought you already had those. And I can just scooch onto the stage and go, Hello, welcome . The guests will introduce themselves. And will your cue cards be a bit like Boos four size so it's just one word on it, the person with the cue card is the next part of the show. Well, I remember going to see a strict come dancing years ago when Bruce was still hosting. And the floor manager had to wear white gloves and wave his hand so that Bruce could see the white thing. I felt so shall I tell you before that happens to you? I'd say it's too late for you to tell me that You haven't told me yet and I think it's too late already for me. Let's move on. Dilemmas are in the offering. One's coming up next. 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If you think you might be struggling with OCD, go to noscd to book a free fifteen minute call. They are here to help . Maria, I know you're itching to get into a lesser, so please open an envelope. I' itmching . There's never any money in these, which is annoying. I know. You're so thoughtless . Dear Graham and Maria, a few months ago one of my flatmates started leaving. How do I see this? Residue after some trips to the toilet. Hooray, toilet ward. British people love talking about wee and poo poo . I finally managed to confront them about this and they were naturally embarrassed and promised to improve things, but they didn't . It kept happening. And after confronting them yet another unflashed toilet bowl, they said this is stressing me out and I don't think there's anything else I can do at this stage What do I even say to that? Any help much appreciated and that's from Anonymous, I see why, but I love that. This is stressing me out and I don't think there's anything else I can do at this stage. I tell you what you do . That's what you do. Yes, but I feel like I guess ? I don't want to know anything about this. You do and yet I do, need to know more . Well, there's a package that was sent in as well . I know sometimes we get photographs. This time there's a package. I haven't opened it . When your flatmate says, This is stressing me out, I don't think there's anything more I can do. They need to be in a home. I mean, and when you say anonymous, I don't even know what to say to that. What you say to that is, what do you mean? It's a very simple thing. When you go to the Loo , flush whatever you have got rid of because it's unpleasant for anybody else to have to see that. It's like this young person was brought up in a very lovely home where parents or whatever just did all this for this person. You know, so they would just do their business and then drift off and, you know, pick up a magazine and you know, they just didn't think about it. Well, they're not in that home. No, exactly. So they need to, you know, join the real world where once you've done something, you must then get rid of it. Yeah. And if it doesn't go away first time , then you wait and you go again . I mean, flush again. Don't add to the problem . And fill up the bowl . Oops, I've done it again. It sounds to me anonymous like you may have gone in too hard at the very beginning of this dilemma and you know been accusatory about it and now you've mentioned it again . So this person is getting stressed out by it. Are there other people in the flat? Do you think it's only the one who what if it's somebody else and this person is getting the blame for the residence? I feel anonymous has probably now got to the stage where he's hovering. He or she is hovering out waiting outside to make sure because those kind of things a bit like bins in the wrong place become get into your head . I remember when the chat show like way back in the nineties when we were doing the chat show, we were in these offices in Coven Garden and it was kind of a shared we had one off of the floor and there was another office on the other probably doing Timesare hholidays or something . And there were the men's toilets and there were cubicles and every day , every day someone would leave, honestly, every day, it looked like a fruit loaf . It was just this enormous thing in the toilet. Never flushed away. Probably couldn't flush it away. It was so big. And I don't know why we had a polarized camera in the office, but we did. And we started taking a picture of it every day . And the notes board has ended up with rows and rows. A fruit loaf of pictures of the fruit loaf . So do that anonymous . I mean, you know that thing we say at the end of the program if you need expert help. I feel I'm not qualified . I hope no one is. I can tell funny stories about people scooping out poo and chucking out the window, but I can't help with anonymous problem. But also it's not a problem. The thing is designed to get rid of the residue. That's what the toilet's for. That's why we don't kind of poo in a bucket anymore. We got ta miss those days You know, I miss those days when you trucked out the window. Oh yeah Gardelu ardilu that's how Lu came because you know come, was Gardelu coming out or something like that. Look out below something . Oh, regard yeah, regard, regard up there. There's some poo coming on your head. I'm discussing poo and I feel like I'm seven . Yeah. Well, I mean, you're chucking out a window in a minute. That's all they used to do with Victorian games, but that's not now, is it? They're living in a fancy flat with an indoor toilet , but he's not using this. He's he's not noticed that it's not a bucket anymore. So this person is there's something wrong with them, I would say. I'm relying here on the Wangers because I don't think the Wangers would have much sympathy for the Phantom Poo Bisurpus. No, but they might have some solutions, and I'm hoping for that because we have been hopeless, which is unlike us. Shall I read them? Yeah. David from Preston says, Oh dear , this is not good. First of all, everyone has accidents and misses a spot occasionally . But this is unacceptable. You can buy those auto flush cleaners. Can you fill the basin with soap every time you flush, which at least we help'll remove some of the residue . See, now we're talking residue which, from my understanding, bits down the side. Streakage. Streakage versus actual ploppage. Yes. It's the coast versus islands. Either way, no, neither of which are acceptable. What the hell's what's this auto flush thing? I don't know. I've never heard of that. They're those fancy Japanese toilets. They're very good. No, I find them terrifying. And they wash you as well. Well, they try that's if you remember to stay sitting. If you don't, then suddenly there's a whirring noise and the water's everywhere Nasty. Ross says that is disgusting, but I have very occasionally done this very thing. Oh Ross. It was purely accidental. How beautiful of Ross to share this to make himself so vulnerable. Own up. Thank you, Ross. It was purely accidental as I had fl ushed the toilet, but the water pressure of the flush hadn't carried everything away. I was confronted by an angry flatmate who was similarly disgusted and we both agreed to take a second look after every flush. Not only was it the savior of our relationship , but it highlighted some dietary changes that we both needed to make. Fruitless. Convince them to check after they've washed their hands and maybe provide a copy of the Bristol Stool chart. Now you've just gone silly Ross, haven't you? There is a Bristol Stool there. Yeah, which tells you what's healthy and what isn't? Yeah, and it's like clouds. They all have a different name. Cirrus. Cumulus . I've done a cumulus poo . Oh, storms a brewin '. All right, well before we're all sick , let me just thank Anonymous for sharing that problem. As you say, no problem too small. You share your most pressing dilemma. Everything sounds wrong now. With Maria and I just Evell weagging on at this in Dakota UK. We'll have another dilemma in just a moment . This episode is brought to you by hotels dot com dot Make your next trip work for you. Hotels dot com just rolled out a game changing feature called Save Your Way and it's as simple as it sounds. When you book a trip as a hotels dot com member , you decide how to use your savings. Choose to take the instant savings now or bank the savings as rewards for later. It's your call. Envision converting discounts on this week's day into rewards for a luxurious beach getaway next year. 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Oh, there it is. I hope it's of a higher color . It looks very official. Dear Graham and Maria, my partner met a new friend at work and this is more like a Thank goodness we know where this is solid ground solid I'll just consult the chart . The Bristol chart . My partner made a new friend at work and I'm not a big fan of her. My partner works in a coffee shop and this new friend is one of her regular customers . Since they become friends, this girl shush , this girl has started giving my partner extravagant gifts . She spent hundreds of pounds on gift cards, beauty vouchers and very expensive merchandise to specially personalized birthday and Christmas gifts. And she always picked stuff up for her because she just thought of her. Bertie's comments. I'm starting to feel like it's very inappropriate for this girl to be spending lots of money on my girlfriend and I'm thinking she has more than friendship on her mind . When my partner's car was written off, she offered to buy her a new one and has even tried to invite her on a girly holiday together with all expenses paid . I don't know how to approach this topic because it makes me feel hugely uncomfortable, but I don't want to tell my girlfriend she can't be friends with someone as that seems controll ing. I don't have the same income, but I do want my girlfriend to feel special. And I'm starting to feel like this girl is spoiling my girlfriend when surely that should be my job. Please help and, that is from Sarah. Sarah, I think you're right to be suspicious here , but I think what you have to do is meet this girl, yourself. Oh , you have to say to your partner , she's a good friend of yours, she's been very kind to you. Invite her over for dinner so that this girl with designs on your girlfriend , obviously , can see that she is in a loving relationship and needs to keep her big trunk out of your business . On the other hand , are you certain, Sarah, that your girlfriend isn't keen on the giver of gifts? Well, I think girlfriend is probably keen on gifts. Yeah , but I would say, Sarah, here's the thing. Thank you for writing in. And I'm with Maria. I think you are right to see a problem here , but actually , it's your girlfriend's problem. Your girlfriend needs to sort this out and your girlfriend needs to set boundaries with this woman and kind of go look, lovely to see you every day. You know, yes, you like a chi grande or whatever. But these gifts are too much now . It's embarrassing, it's kind of weird . Thank you. Let's just, you know , it feels like it's a little bit late for that. She's accepted quite a lot, hundreds of pounds of stuff, Christmas gives, birthday gifts, invitations on Posh holidays. It's like she wants all of that. She's taken all of that. So it's a bit like after the horse is bolted, saying, Oh no more, I couldn't possibly accept that rolling. Is there a weird thing where she's going back to Sarah and kind of going , you never want. She offered to buy me a car today. That is a weird thing. I mean, shut up about it. Yeah, so she's kind of rubbing your nose in the dirt about not having a lot of money. So there's something in this relationship that is not sitting well with me, Graham. Yes, I think Sarah's girlfriend is enjoying this too much. Well, who wouldn't enjoy? Well, no, because it's awkward because if you're not interested in that person, you don't want those gifts because the more gifts you accept, the more you're saying I'm happy to get the attention . And the more kind of hold they have over you. But so you can of course talk to your girlfriend and I think that is essential. But I feel like thats has also that time has passed too. So I would say I would want to know who this woman is and what she's like, and I would want her to know that my girlfriend and I, and then you can catch the dynamic also, Sarah, between the two of them , so you can see if there is anything to worry about. And also, if you haven't met this woman, meeting her might reassure you . Yes, that's true. You might go, Oh, this is no threat. It's just gifts. Yeah You know, it's just free stuff. But it's still wrong. It's wrong of your girlfriend to be accepting this. Yes, if there isn't something that's wanted in return. And let's face it, there is always something that there's no such thing as a free gift card and birthday present and car and holiday with the girls all expenses paid. I mean, you know, this is too much and it should have been halted a while ago. And if this woman , to your point, if this woman is a friend of your girlfriends, why isn't she inviting you along ? Why isn't she saying, Oh bring Sarah blah blah blah that's because it's like she's trying to take her away. Yeah. I think there's a way that Sarah can talk to her girlfriend about this where she's clear that I'm not jealous. This isn't about jealousy. It's about inappropriateness . This is the fact that you are indulging this woman in this way is , you know, it's wrong because you are lying it makes me want to say what is she playing at? Yeah, what is the girlfriend playing at? She's playing them off against each other, running home to tell Sarah about the holiday and accepting the lovely gifts. And you know, it's like you can't have it always . You need to sort of find things out. And if you can't speak to your girlfriend about it if you feel that that's controlling, then just say, Hey, invite her around for dinner. I feel like in this instance, I know what you mean. In this instance, I don't think it is controlling because I don't know, there's just something a bit off about the whole situation where you know, we all have friends, we all make nice new friends, but they don't bombard us with gifts. I mean, it's like Sarah's girl friend is pretending to be clueless. She's pretending to be so naive . Oh, she's so generous and like no, you know what's going on here too. There is something that she . Oh Graham, you went there you said it. I know but I didn't know you would go there. Should we see what the Wangers have said? Okay, can I also just say? Yes, you can. What sort of coffee shop is this? I mean, it does seem it does seem like quite a high fallutant coffee shop. It's a knocking shop. Is that what it is? What about if Sarah went along to the coffee shop and just spent the whole day there and she could then just check it out for herself. Anyway, Lisa says, I always felt that I was happy for my daughters when people in their life loved them, whether it was on my ex's side or mine or their friends or partners. I just think that if you love someone you'd be, happy they have good friends. Maybe you suggest that your partner hints that you're happily in a monogamous relationship , just so this person is not wasting her money in vain entertaining romantic notions. Lisa's quite naive for a mother. Yeah . I'm sort of amazed that Lisa just thinks, Oh, is that nice people in their life that love them? I just know. I wonder if Sarah's partner has even said to this giver of gifts, I've got a part ner at home. Her name is Sarah. Anyway, Kathy says, I don't think it's a competition between you and this new friend. It is very controlling to tell your girlfriend not to be friends with someone. We've accepted that. I think you're jealous of your girl friend having this new friend who treats her things. Girls like to treat their friends when they can. It's not fair on your girlfriend if you have a comment or you put a face on every time she talks about her new friend , maybe you should realize it's not all about you and how you feel and let your girlfriend enjoy her new friendship. Am I missing something here? Kathy has read this letter to Luke because yes, I agree with you. Telling someone you can't be friends with someone is very controlling, but equally you can acknowledge something's off here. There is something slightly predatory and odd. This isn't about just girlfriends treating each other when they can. This is about a wealth y woman shoving money at the woman in the coffee shop, trying to impress her and it's working. Okay, Rachel Im Ride says, Well, someone's interested in having their marshmallows and extra cream in their coffee, aren't they? I like Rachel Okay. How do you tell your girlfriend? Well, you sit down at home and you say being open with each other is part of being in a good relationship. Tell her how you feel , ask her if she's happy receiving all these extra vagant gifts. Obviously this new friend wants more and your girlfriend is enjoying the attention. She is the one who should stop this brackets if she wants to. No, don't get your milk all frothy. Just give her a double espresso. Now you see you've gone too far away. It was cover to begin with. Again, then we didn't need to loop. We had to stretch it. Yeah, we didn't have to loop it. It's never good. But thank you, Rachel Mide. Lou in Perth. We love Louisiana Pers. Ask your girlfriend to accept the car and the holiday on conditions she takes you along as well. Then everyone's happy for a little while. That for a little while. For a little while you're only ever happy . You're left in a lay by no head . Catherine says I would be very honest with your girlfriend and state that you would like to be the one who makes her feel special and that this other rich bitch is making you feel very uncomfortable. Also, if I was your girlfriend, I would have set boundaries with this girl giving gifts. Maybe she is enjoying the attention too and it's not all the other girl's fault. Love the podcast. Hooray . Thank you very much, Catherine. Ah, that's made me feel a bit icky as well too Icky Muslims. Sarah, she really has divided opinion with that problem. People had lots of different thoughts on it. It's interesting, is itn' howt people could see it as so differently? Because you kind of think that's clearly off. Yeah, no, there's red flags all the way on this one, I feel. And it's a twofold, two pronged solution. Speak to your girlfriend and find out about the woman. If you're enjoying this podcast on Spotify or YouTube, please feel free to leave a comment below. We'd like to read them. We're almost out of here, but time for the final Am I weird? No, I mean the final final ever, just Yeah, not the final ever kind of the end of this video. Am I fired? No . Yeah. Today's Am I Weird comes courtesy of Jason. Go on, Jason. Graham and Maria. Whenever my husband and I go away for weekends or longer trips, I always do the packing for both of us. My friends will mock me because I do what I refer to as photopacking. Photo packing means I lay each day's outfits one by one on the bed, photograph it , label it with a day etc , and send it in the WhatsApp for us to refer to during the trip . My friends all think I'm bonkers. My husband is fine with it, although that might just be because he's lazy. He does like to mess with me by swapping the odd outfit here and there and wearing it on the wrong day. What the hell? Oh my god, this doesn't bother me at all. By this point my work has been done and he can wear what he likes Am I weird? And Jason has indeed included a photograph so we can see what he means. you If would like to explain it, Graham, the photograph . I mean, I do love this. Let me see, let me see, Mosi. See, Jason Saturday, Jason Wednesday. You see, I think everything's all right until we get to the WhatsApp because you've got to store the photograph somewhere. Okay , but you can just check you can just check the photographs yourself and say it was Tuesday you're wearing the Poker Dot. But Jason's got to be able to see the picture his boyfriend. His husband, yeah. Well, can't he just go like that with the phone? Well, they live together. He packs for a holiday. But there's a WhatsApp group. He's like, there's enough WhatsApp groups. Are you live with this man? Have you done his packing ? I think Jason is wasted. He should be doing the fashion segments on this morning or something. Let me have a look. Let me have a look. See doing the fashion segments. Oh yeah, says the lady dressed as a superhero . Jason Wednesday, Jason, Saturday, Jason Sunday . I'm not sure I'd wear any of that. Would you? You're not Jason. I know. Jason loves that flower shirt. It's from Paul Smith. Do you remember ? Do you remember they got an uncomfort garden? That Saturday ? Do you remember and my wallet got stolen? Is he weird, Grim? No, I think he's a genius. We all need a Jason in our lives. That would be so great to go on holiday and not have to think once about what to wear. You just go drop here it is. Yeah, I played out. A Jason, one thing, you're infantilizing your husband. He doesn't do it in life, he just does it on holid.ay Holiday. Does he do it in life? We don't know. Well, he doesn't say he does. No, but I think that's where he's heading. No, I think, Jason, you're not weird. You're an unsung hero. That's what I'd say. I think you' youre a genius? I think do the packing , lay things out if you like for each day . But you don't need the WhatsApp. You can just tell him when you're on holiday, that's Tuesday's outfit. You're wearing it. It's Wednesday . But I don't think you should go any further with this . Do you remember? I think we had a problem was from a woman and she hated what her husband wore on holiday. I do remember that. Yes. And well, Jason has the solution. You don't let him choose. You just pick all the outfits, take photographs of them and go Brian, it's a Tuesday. You know what you're wearing? Yeah. What if his name's not Brian? Well, then that's be going aw tokward. You're on holiday person. I'm worried, I'm worried, oh no , we're okay. We're okay. No because I was afraid that maybe it was, you know, every day you had to do day into evening because one of the pleasures of going on holiday is coming back to the room ready for dinner. Ready for dinner. But I noticed they're different . Jason has a Wednesday outfit, but then he's got a separate outfit for the whale tour. Does it say it on that? Wednesday the thirtieth whale tour and it's a nice nautical stripe . I think he needs coloshes and a grace darling coat for the whale tour. It might be very choppy and a harpoon. Jason I do feel you're inventilising your husband and I think he's bit of a lazy git. I think you're a genius, Jason and your husband is very lucky to have you. Please . But you're not weird though. There are issues here, but you're not weird. Yeah. Don't go thinking you're weird . Yeah. When you've just got issues , controlling issues about what people wear. He's organized. That's all. He's organized and gifted. Would you like Jason in your life? Yes. Oh, no, you wouldn't like somebody telling you what to wear. No, what I've done is I've reduced my wardrobe to nothing. Okay for all my socks over time. All my underpair are the same. I always wear a white t shirt under whatever I'm wearing. It's just a uniform. And then I put a couple of things on top. That's all. I don't want to think about what I'm wearing at all . So I'm so with Jason. I mean in fact he's overdone it . It's too much. It's too fussy. Too fussy, but not weird. No. Maria, that's us the end of another glittering edition of Wanging On. It's over or bother crying . I feel I have something to say. Oh you do. You do, lady. If you need genuine help with any of the problems we discuss on the pedod, you should seek it out from the pro per channels and there's more on our Instagram at Wanging On And we'll be back next week, hopefully some more tony problems, so have a marvelous week in the meantime. Wang On with Graham Maria is a listen production. Goodbye . There's a reason . They say snap judgment changed the sound