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Makeup is looking gorgeous today. Glowing skin. Thank you very much. They knew shoesies. Well, I got them last year and I never got them out. And then I was clearing out my shoes and I was like, oh, they forgot about those. Hello. It's like finding some money in a pocket or a bag that you didn't know you had, which actually never happens anymore. Or like a new lip liner. I watched this girl with her lip liners, she's like, I snap them in half. So clever. So if I lose one, I only lose half of it. Don't know if you can do that with Charlotte Tilbury, can you? I've not tried and I don't want to because I don't want to risk it breaking. It was a Charlotte Tilbury one, but she snapped in half. I'm sure it was. Oh my god, and I tried this the Charlotte Tilbury stick today. Which one? The glow stick thing. The foundation sheer tint glow stick. I've got that right now, it's so good. Yes. Yes. It's like it's like flawless silti in the stick. When I went out for coffee this morning, I just did on on the top of my cheek and down my nose and I was like, Oh that's so nice. You've got a nice tan from being away. I literally didn't want. But you do look a nice colour. Do I? Yeah. You look like you've got you've been away in the sun, not in England for sure. That's nice, thanks. England's horrible. Well, what's going on with that? We were outside just now and it started chucking it with rain. Then it was hailing the other day. I'm really hoping this weekend I've got a wedding all outdoors. Have you? She was messaging me about your exy Etsy witch. Which brings us on to our next topic of conversation. We need to discuss this. She says your Instagram DMs blew up after this conversation. So she's alive and well guys. She's still here. She um someone messaged me saying, You sent me the link last year and she emailed me saying I've actually moved website to my own website from Etsy. She's no longer an Etsy with it. She's she's an on. She's got her own website. Okay. And my friend then heard this conversation between us was getting married this weekend. She was like, I need to know more about the Etsy which one to use, like was it good, blah blah blah. And then I sent her the link and then she was obviously browsing on the website and sent me all these screenshots of these other spells that she does and it's like it's like love spell XX strong. And then it's like spelling obsession spell es spell. They're all about three quid and I'm like, do we just try the map? But no, she's really working at the moment. She's working over time. Wow. I've had a lot of DMs saying it's it this is really scary. It's worked in twenty four hours. Fantastic. I know. But people are using them for uh things other than the weather and I'm like, oh gosh, I really hope it doesn't come back to me. 'Cause No, no, no. I really want to know. I told you did I tell you the one about the girl that's just recently DM'd saying that her boy she wished that her boyfriend would tell her the truth. Yes, you don't do what you need to tell. Okay, no, it's not funny because it's actually really it's really scary and it's quite like um it's quite spooky. Basically, she used the Etsy Witch that I posted last week when I found her and then she messaged me saying, I'm I have used your Etsy Witch to make my boyfriend tell the truth because she thought he was up to something. And she said 24 hours later, he calls me and he tells me everything he's ever done in our relationship. And the girl that he cheated on with, then messages her twenty-f hooururs later after the wish. When it happened six months ago. So she made the Etsy wit witch wish. And then 24 hours later, her boyfriend and the girl that he cheated on with both message her. So she didn't know that the boyfriend had cheated. The truth had like she suspected something. She said, I've always asked him since that night. Like I've always asked him. Oh, okay. And then he always said, No, nothing happened. So I made the wish six months later, and then he tells me. Best three pitch she's ever spent, if you ask me. And she was like gonna ask her, make a wish to make me rich. And I was like, no stop. Oh my god! That's actually such a good idea. But yeah, she's really working over time. Wow. I know. Someone had their wedding this weekend and said like it was meant to be raining and it was all sunny. I made that wish on your Etsy witch. Oh no, I'm really no for the I wish you could get commish on this. But you're right. I'm like, you know like on vampire diaries, right? When you like ask the witches to do too much, you're messing with the bal Does it mean like if you have a 60th birthday party all outside, it will rain on your 60th? When it might not have done. Is it like sort of like you've swapped your sort of future karma for weather, essentially. Hopefully. I'm hoping that's mine. I'll take it. Yeah. I'll take it. If it rains any other day of my life I'm at one. Yeah. Fine. Um but yeah, I'm really hoping that people that have used it for their weddings this summer really get the I hope they get the weather too 'cause it did work for yours. It did. And I'm really hoping this weekend I don't so my friend Livvy hasn't used it yet. She's I've got her on standby. Okay. But the weather is looking sensational. It's all outdoors and it's in Norfolk. So um fingers crossed. You were talking to me about the Fury wedding. Oh, we were just talking about this outside when we were getting our coffees. Every swipe of TikTok, I've got Venezuela Fury's wedding on my TikTok. Her tan, I wanna know what she was using.. The town I'll just go back to the spray town shop like three or four times. Later, later. Yeah. It was seamless. The bridesmaids, they look so cute all together and then matching dresses. Really cute. So the icon was amazing and the veil. She was wearing crocs. She was wearing white crocs underneath that dress. See I'm really on the algorithm. It was so raw and like candid and like chill like when the the door of the church opened and she walked in. I'm like, Paris' not nervous. Paris Fury looked incredible. So good. I love her. Yeah, I just think she looked like all the photos of her, beautiful. She is gorgeous. You know, she's only 37. Hasn't she got seven kids? And aren't they all called prints? But there's one called Adonis. Adonis. Adonis. And then Venezuela and Valencia. Valencia. She's iconic that one. They're really taking over my whole algorithm at the moment. So I'm gonna watch the show. I'm gonna watch. I would skip series one, no point. Just go straight for series two. Is the wedding on series two? I think the proposal and everything, I'm about to watch that episode. I mean fair play for sixteen years old getting married. I just yeah. It's commitment that I was thinking God if I married the first time in the middle My life would look very different now. I'm also I was just telling telling Bronte I'm also watching One Tree Hill and I am just I i it's completely taken over my life. Like completely taken over my life. I also need to watch that. You're missing I don't know how I've not watched it and how no one's really told me to watch it before. I don't know how I've gone this long. That's a good show to get into. I was watching it on the tube on the way here. And when I was walking, did I mean it played out loud just as you sat down. I can't put it down. It's nonstop. Are you the kind of person that can have a show on in the background the whole time? Oh I have to. Really? In the shower, it's on. What about going to sleep? Do you have it on? I have this country on the TV on low. It's like a lullaby before I go to bed. No no no, as I'm pulling a sleep turn off. Or Toby normally does, but now I'm by myself, I have to do it myself. I have to have complete silence. Nothing. Oh, it's so good for the brain. Yeah. Probably it's quite good for the brain. It's not good having Carrie Maklow just gnashing my back . It's quite niche. I don't know why. It's like we've just got into the habit of doing it. It used to be for me before I was with any with anyone. Like when when I was single and like forever it was always friends. A lot of people fall asleep to friends I've heard. Or like Harry Potter audiobook. That's quite a nice one. Oh my god, sorry, Matt is a huge One Tree Hill fan. Is he? Apparently that's why he shaved his head. Because it was like Chad Michael Murray. Wow. Toby's like, has Matt replied to your story yet? And I was like, no. He was like, he's such a fan of One Tree Hill. I mean, he does like that genre, like he loves 90210. gossip girl. But Chad Michael Murray is my number one. Okay. He's so fit. Also, the broken nose thing. Have you seen photos of him before he broke his nose? Everyone's like he's not good looking before. And then he broke his nose and it like made him into this stunning man. He looked so different before and after. I also watched a recent interview of him just to confirm if I still fancied him, but I still do. How old is he now? Forty five. Married kids? I don't know, but he used to be married to the girl on it and then he cheated on her and they got divorced after five months. So tragic. I know. And then like and then it's like mirrored in the programme and they have to get back together after they've divorced in real life. It's really dramatic. By the way, this is the best ice latte I've ever had. That's a big statement. But it is just literally a full jug of milk. That's why it's so nice. You surprised me that you drank f hot like dairy milk. I did go down the raw milk train at one point. What do you mean by raw? So yogurt is like boiled, it's like homogenized and pasteurized, but raw is none of that. So you get all the amazing bacteria, it's like sensational for you, but they can't sell it in supermarkets because there's a risk of E. coli , but that's only if you get it from like a really like grim farm that's like not clean. I have to check if everything is pasteurized at the moment because of course when you're pregnant, you're not allowed unpasteurized. It's parmes an, parmesan. Parmesan. Most parmesan is pasteurized, but you can get unpasteurised parmesan. You can't have like cam and bear, brie, you can't have any soft cheese. Oh, the soft cheese. I know, luckily it's not Christmas when I'm pregnant. Otherwise, I'd be missing out. God. I know. I know. What's the thing you miss the most? Parma ham. Oh my god. Parma ham? Or I be ruco ham in Spain. I said as soon as that baby comes out, please can we have just packs of parma ham in the hospital? I can't wait. And like raw salmon, like sushi salmon. Oh my god, I just felt the baby kick. Really? It's really cute. I was at the um King's Trust Awards last week and Chessie and I were both sat there and both the babies were kicking at the same time. Oh my god. She was like, hold this, not a little bit. I saw your video of that. Honestly, it was it's so weird. Yeah, they just keep kicking. Oh I can't wait. I'm not sure they will until I know. It's quite nice, quite reassuring to know that . I know someone else is saying that, yeah, that they they they kick all night long, but they were like, I'm happy I'm fine with it because I'm like I know they're having a great time. And they're healthy. Yeah. Yeah they're fine. They're doing good. Does it ever hurt? No. There was one the other day it was like three really intense kicks and I was like Matt quickly and he put his hand over and it was such a thud. Yeah, and he felt it. Oh that's good. Is that the first time he said it? I know. I want to talk about the Jacob Ballordi and Kendall Jannah Double Date situation. Jacob Alordi, Timothy Chalamet, Kylie, and Kendall out on a double date. Iconic. So fucking iconic. They're all hiding though. They're all really trying to hide, but like the Paps, like, no, we know exact ly who that is. Also, why are they trying to hide? Like maybe they just you know haven't. They are lollying. They are lollying like highly in the back. It's so good. Oh, it's so good. I would put Jacob and Kendall together. Me too. That's I don't think they is there has been created a better, well, like well-suited couple. Yeah. I agree. So fucking cool. They're both tall. They're both stunning. He is that is his type down to a tea if you look at the track record of ex-girlfriends. Very specific look he goes for. Him and Timothy must be like, wow, look at the cars. Also like the double dates between the four of them. Because I guess Jacob and Timothy are good friends. Because they're just, you know, cool. I'm surprised that Timothy and Kylie have lasted this long. They do. That's great. I'm low-key expecting her to have a baby with him, like really soon. I don't want it's so her brand and it would just be amazing. Did you watch her podcast recently about her having her two kids, and it was so nice to hear like the behind the scenes of what she went through when she was pregnant with both. I didn't listen to the full thing, I just watched the kids. It was really it was such a good podcast. She came across so well, so genuine, so relaxed. So fun. Yeah. And she was saying like how much weight she gained in each pregnancy. And I was like, it's so nice for someone that really their whole thing is like they just look perfect the whole time. To talk about like what she went through with each pregnancy. And I was like, oh God, it's so nice to explain each other in a like light way she was like yeah I was like 25 pounds yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah heavier or something yeah I did see those clips so she's so fun oh my god also have you seen this thing this X Factor quote. This made me feel so old. No, what is it? And it was like it makes me laugh that the old school X Factor had an over twenty fives category. And I used to think that was really old. And they were like being sat there as a kid thinking they were so brave to achieve achieve their dreams at such a ripe old age in life. And I'm like, it's so true. I used to literally think, like, oh no point in you trying at 25, guys. I used to skip passing over 25. boring. I'm like, what's happened? That's scary. Isn't that terrifying? That's really I I in my head I don't I always thought it was like over 40s. But they were always so boring. Yeah, they were. You know what's really weird? I'm like I went to the pub on the weekend and there was this group of kids that were obviously like 22, 23, and I was like, fuck, that's just not my category anymore. No. Sometimes I walk past girls like ready to go on a night out and I'm just like, oh, and then wait, no, what I'm pregnant and 29. 28. I always hate for myself. But yeah, I do look at like that like 21, 22. No. And I'm I always think that's me. And it's just unfortunately not anymore. It's really sad. It's uh we're getting old. And I always hear my grand my granddad and my granny, who's ninety five and she's like I still feel thirty five inside and I'm now like I can start to relate to that now because I still feel younger than I do but 'cause you're now you're in the over twice. Okay, should we do some dilemmas This episode of Wednesdays is brought to you by GiftGAF. Right, guys, let's be honest, we all love a phone upgrade when the time comes. But the prices for brand new phones can be genuinely eye-watering. 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Digital precision, host red authenticity, and performance data that proves it worked. Don't fight for attention, buy it with ACAS. Learn more by visiting acast.com /slash advert ising. Okay, right, dilemmas. Dilemma one. Hey, absolutely love the Porsche I'm also getting married next year and would love your advice about who to invite to the Hendu. In my ideal world, it would just be a weekend away with my closest friends and my mum. But I feel guilty not inviting my future mother-in-law and my fiance 's three sisters. Oh. I've thought about doing a separate mum' celesbration and then a friend's only hen, but I think my mum would feel a bit sad missing out on the main event. At the same time, inviting my mother-in-law and sisters-in-law would definit change the vibe, especially as none of them like being around drunk people. I'm tall on how to go about this, trying to keep everyone included, would love your thoughts. Lots of love. I would say. Did your mum go on yours? My mum did come to Saint-Chope and I loved having her there. Did you? It was the best thing ever having her there. And even when we were like dancing on the tables in a beach club, she's getting loved. She was whipping the napkin around. She was loving it. And she doesn't drink. We were all doing she would pour us all shorts. Oh my mama's shorts. Yeah, she did really did get stuck in. But it wasn't a big like party hen and we weren't going out till early hours of the morning. Fair as well. I don't really like go out and get really, really drunk. I just like enjoy a drink in the day, have a party, and then in the evening we'd all go back and have like a wholesome evening together. So nice. Yeah. So like it was perfect for my mum to be that I understand if you're going on this big hen where you're all going out till early hours of the morning so drunk and the next morning you're all so hungover, not really the right environment for your mother-in-law, your mum . But the three sisters, the three? The three sister-in-laws, they also don't drink, I don't think don't really like being around drunk people, is what this says. And if you're going for a big hen, that's not the right environment to have them in. What would you do? Do a separate hen, but I I d but then she's having the toy she really wants her mum there. Your mum's your mum. I don't think that your mother in law would also be upset by that. I think if you do another a mother's hen do two hens but have your mum on the actual hen. Yeah my friend's sister just did two hens. She did a massive hen with all her friends who got so drunk, they had the best n time ever, dancing till like 5 a.m and then they had a really wholesome dinner in London with the mum, mother in law. Sweetness. Yeah, and that was she said. Like a bridal shower. Yeah. You can long these things out, honestly. You just have endless events. It's just ridiculous. It's so good. I'm not considering a bridal child with mum's vibe. Because my mum's not gonna come on my hen. I had my mother-in-law, Matt's auntie and two cousins who are basically his family his closest family and at my London hen and I loved having them there. That was nice. It was so nice. And my mum came to that as well. My cousins came to that. And I felt so present and I was able to really like I had all my friends there. But I loved having that separate to my Saint-Choye hen where it was just my closest, closest friends. It's a lot asking your bridesmaids to come to an abroad hen, a London hen, and an abroad wedding. Sure, no. So I had to really be like, by the way, this is like treat this as a holiday like it's not we're not gonna be like major hen vibes like we're gonna go Sanchez and have a lovely holiday and a few of them couldn't come. So yeah that was like nine of us and I loved that 's a nice amount of people. But it is it is a hard dilemma. Weddings are so hard about like invites and Hendus and I've sort of like paused that. I haven't even sent out save the dates because I'm like Who's gonna organise your hand? Your sister? Kind of, but and me because was I saying this to Georgia last week? I can't remember I was talking to it, but I think because I just know what I like now I.'ve been on a quite few. Yeah. I know what I like, I know what I don't like. I know what my friends would like. Because I want ultimately I I want them to have fun too. Like they're gonna you know but you would want to celebrate somehow with Toby's mum. I think having a separate date because celebrating you will regret not celebrating with your husband to be family. I think it's such a special time, and to like involve them in it is really important . Okay. Having experienced it. Okay, really. I think it is because you only get married once and like it's so nice for them to come in on that happiness on your side it's not like they're gonna go on his stag no you're yeah you're not wrong actually it was really like I just loved and also they met all my friends before the wedding so then they connected with my friends and they got to know them. So maybe just organise like a small thing. This is to the dilemma, not to you. You can do it. This is to both of us. Bronte's giving great advice to both of us. I would I would organise something small in London or wherever you live, even if it's just like a nice smok nice small day. You could do like a bridal and groom shower joint. And then like because I don't know if your dad or your few fiance's dad , and if there's brothers involved as well, if they're gonna go on his stag or not. If not, then you could also do this joint, which is maybe quite lovely. That's nice, like a joint dinner together. Just a lovely meal at home with a chef or just like a chilled pub lunch. Something. You've got my brain going now. I'm like, God, that's another thing to think of. Well that's the thing with the baby shower. It's like I don't really want it just to be me. I would love Matt to have some of his friends there as well. Because it is his baby too. It's funny. Yeah, and normally it's just the girls and all her friends. Yeah. But I'm like, I want that to be there and him to experience that as well. I think that's lovely. And his family to come and then they also, you know, it's just I agree. I like the idea of a joint husband and wife, like groom and bride shower for their families and like some friends. Right. Right, dilemma number two. Hi Wednesdays, I need your help because I've got a situation with one of my best friends and I genuinely don't know how to talk about it without sounding like the fun police. I love this girl to absolute pieces. She's one of my favourite people on the planet. But every single time we go out she becomes a complete liability. I know . Oh. We're talking about losing her phone, losing her bag, crying in the smoking area at 11 pm, picking fights with strangers, and getting us kicked out of places. The last few nights I've spent more time tracking her down or holding her hair back than actually enjoying myself and honestly I'm starting to dread going out with her. I'm not surprised. It's not sounding my best. The thing is she genuinely doesn't seem to realise how bad it's getting. She was just laughs off the next day and treats it as a funny story . But the rest of the group are getting really fed up, and I can tell people who are just starting to make plans without her. I want to say something because I really care about her and not because I want to be mean, but I have no idea how to bring it up without making her feel attacked or embarrassed. So girls, how do I have a conversation with her? What do I actually say? Thank you, love anonymous. Oh you sound so upset reading that. I felt really I really at first I was like oh gosh this is awful. And then I was like wait no she really is like affected. Lovely fri friendend.. You're a really nice I really don't want to be mean, but this is really quite bad. It's not great. Oh, that's really awful. She the picking fights with strangers has gotta stop. No, you can get yourself into real trouble. I'm getting kicked out, that's just annoying. Oh no, if it was me I'd be like, babe, I'm really sorry, but I can't we can't go out with you if you unless you stop drinking because I I'm not gonna look after you anymore because it's ruining my nights, costing me more mone She said the last few nights she spent tracking tracking her down. I think it's been a few nights now in a row. You can say it's been too long. It's been too much now. It's okay to say something. This girl, like there are some people that just shouldn't drink. Like, even if they're not drinking that much, like things just go wrong and their brain just doesn't respond well to it. And I don't know why your brain would. It's literally a neurotoxin. It's like it's really not good for us. But like some people really shouldn't drink. Also, her having to hold her hair back be sick. You don't want to spend all nights doing that. It's a mess. I think you have every right. We're adults. Like going out by yourself, you have to take responsibility for yourself. Yeah. Fair enough, one night, you know, you go a bit crazy. We do have to look after each other once and not totally. Yeah. But this is ridiculous. If it's multiple nights, I think you can say, look, it is starting to ruin the nights out. Start to get a bit much. And you can preface it with like, I'm not, I'm trying to be like caring. I'm this is me being a friend. Be like, I'm really fucking worried about you. Yeah. If I'm not there to look after you, God knows what's gonna happen. Yeah. If I'm not gonna hold your hair back in the loo and get you to the bathroom, like you're gonna choke on your own bloody vomit. You know, that's the whole thing when we were younger, like if you're sick, you're gonna choke on your own vomit, put them in the safety position. Like that used to panic me so much when people were sick when they were drunk. Yeah same . Seriously. No, I I agree. It's really dangerous. So like you can preface it like from a safety point of view, also like there are bad people in this world. Like you're not looking out for her, or if she wanders off by herself, like you've had to track her down. It's really not good for her safety. I think you you can, like said, that's a really good way of saying it, being like, What was if I wasn't there? Mm. But I think you have every right to talk to her about it without her feeling attacked. Hopefully she won't. If you say it and you're su you sound like such a lovely, like caring friend. She really pulled up my heartstrings there. I didn't thought he was like blood tears all that. So he doesn't really know that position of being like a read-only mean, but like I actually care. Yeah. Because she's probably blacking it out, like doesn't remember. You need to remind her of the events and be like it wasn't very good. Actually, like it wasn't good. It was really unsafe. It put everyone in a bad position. I think I don't know. Like you should probably make her realise. Like photos and videos. Like I I remember at uni like when I get really drunk and then you'd see a photo and video of yourself next morning, you'd be like, Oh my god, I got like that. Like I don't even remember being like that. And then you'd be like, Right, I need to make sure next time I'm not like that. Well, I think you can chat to her. Be open and honest. It's the best. A hundred percent. Please report back. Yeah. Okay, ready? Xylemith 3. Hi ladies. I'm moving to London in three months, primarily for my partner's career. He's a lawyer and I'm a doctor. Wow, what a power couple. I always wanted to know a lawyer and a doctor in my friendship group. I've got the lawyer. I need a doc doctor. Ator would be very handy. Just for those off questions. Is this infected? Just a quick picture on WhatsApp. Does my leg need to be amputated? Yeah. You know, all those different questions. Whether it's on antibiotics. Yes. Is this a UCI? Is it worth a doctor's trip? All of those things. Very handy. I'm quite nervous about moving as we have a large and very solid group of friends here in Bristol. My best friends are here and life is good. I'm very happy. That's really hard. 'Cause that's your whole like support system. I know moving will benefit both of our careers in the long term. So I'm on board for that. But I'm stressed out about moving and having to rebuild a social life in a completely new city at 28. Come and be my friend. You're my age and I need a doctor in my life. This sounds unreal. It's really important for me to have a strong base of girlfriends in London, but I'm nervous I won't make a unit like I had in Bristol. When I moved to Bristol for uni, it was so easy to meet new people on nights out and in smoking areas, etc. A lot of my current friends were made that way. But now I'm older, I have no clue where to begin. Please, I need your help. I would love to hear any tips and tricks you have. Love you both . Big move . Big move. Just terrifying her. Huge move. You sure you want to do that? She used to come and join Galzu . Oh my god! She used to come to one of our events. She can come to reform pilates with girls who swear. Right, there you go. That is the answer to your question. A lot of girls make the move from another city like Manchester, Bristol, Edinburgh, and come to London, and then they find gals through gals who. Right. They make their friends through there. The most per that there you go. There you go. So dilemma done. Onto the next. I think that's so so can you tell me more about like how we have events in the in London m m mostly, but we have Facebook groups. We have guys who graduate, girls who rent, so if she needs a if she needs a flat, girls who rent, guys who sweat, girls who date, girls who travel, and girls who read. Wow. All on Facebook. So is there age groups within that or is it just generally everyone's about the same age? I would say the girls are like 18 to 35. Okay, lovely. And you can find friends on there, the girls are chatting constantly on those Facebook groups. Honestly, all the time. So nice. I hardly go on Facebook anymore. Like we have admins for the Facebook groups, but it is just hundreds of girls joining a day. Wow. I know. The algorithm just hits the girls that need it and then they all join and they all chatting and it's And then the events. So the will that be like w like a pub day or like what's the sip? We try and do events monthly and we try and do different events. So we're actually got a girls who rent event coming up soon where we're going into this new build flat block that they've they want to rent out to girls in London, really safe, secure. They've got like a gym, cinema room, roof terrace unit. And so we'd collaborate with people that like align with girls who. And then we've got a reformer polarity's class happening in a few weeks. Do you just come and try it out? We do spin classes. We're doing a hike, girls who hike just in London, get in the train for a little hike. Oh my god, that's love. Um but yeah it's just a nice place for girls just to come and meet like light-minded girls who can make things. Like when I used to travel solo by myself, I'd be like, Oh, I'm in Paris for the evening. Anybody want to grab dinner? And then someone would reply straight away, being like, Yeah, like I'm here, let's go for dinner. Or like Barley when I was by myself for a week. I met so many girls from Girls Who Travel. That is so nice. It's just such a nice, like secure, you know, the gals are good gals. My god, that's so wonderful. Well, there you go. That's the answer to your question. Girls who? Yeah. Is it gals who you should just google gals who. G-A-L-S Yeah who.com. And then it comes up with all the all the info. Okay, dilemma four. Hi girlies. I genuinely don't know how to start this one, so I'm gonna say it. Whoa, okay. Last weekend I had a one-night stand. He was fit and gorgeous, so we went back to mine. Lovely. Cut to about an hour in, and we decided to try 69 . Picture it. I'm in position on top. He's in position on bottom. So far , so good. But then because I'm on top, I start to feel his tummy gurgling and moving. And then no no . And then without any warning, this man, this absolute stranger in my bed, farts directly in my face. My my brain actually went to h for some reason that he did yeah he did it . Oh my god that's just awful. I instantly tried to push him off in horror. But no it gets worse. It gets worse. Somehow my anklet has finally got tangled in his hair. I'm trapped in the fort . And we're wrestling trying to detach hostage . For about five minutes. I can't I actually can't do. Your face is down there. Oh no, she said, I'm holding on to my breath for dear life. Oh God. Oh once we finally got free, he ran into the bathroom and locked himself in for an hour. I was so embarrassed for him I got dressed and left my own flat. She she left her . I would have done the same thing. Oh praying by the time he got back he'd left. When I came back he was gone, thank God. Oh thank God. Oh no. The next day he texted me, asked me for a redo . Girls, what the hell do I do? I've got better and better each sentence . Oh no, that's awful. Oh my god. Oh I hope he becomes yours . I know it's like such a great story. Oh, you think you need to give him a guy also really rate it that he's like so confident in it himself that he should see you again. See you again tomorrow. Same thing again. Take the ankle off next time. Set down some ground rules. Oh Ankir's gotta go. Oh and I I don't think you should try that number again. Not a 69. No. I can't believe she heard his tummy gurgling. I thought you were about to say that I thought we were about to get a horrendous story then and I thought I'm not sure if I'm ready to hear this. I'd say never see him again if that happened.